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MY NAME iS JAMiE.. iM 15 YEARS 0LD, AND iM A HiGH SCH00L S0PH0M0RE.. i AM N0T SiNGLE.. iM TAKEN BY THE BEST B0YFRiEND EVER .. 7.24.04
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okay , so my boyfriend && i have been together for almost 4 months . i love him , really , i do . the only thing i don`t like about him is that he does pot . he says he hasn`t done it for like 2 months. but my friends keep telling me "i wouldn`t go out with someone that does drugs , but thats just me" idk what to do because i really like him , but not sure if i wan`t to keep seeing someone that does pot . and btw : he knows i know that he does pot . what should i do ? should i let it all go to waste & break up with be because of pot ?

uhg , (link)
I know how you feel. I was in the same position as you. The guy i was with wasn't worth it. i knew so much better than to date someone who could be a horribly bad influence on me. if you don't that to be brought into the relationship, get rid of him. pot is stupid anyway, and i'm sure you could do so much better. =]


okay.. i'm 17/f.
I've been dating my boyfriend (19/M) for about three years. We don't have sex all that often, but everytime we do, we use protection and we always check the condom. I'm a week late for my period. I've been this late for my period before. Him and I haven't had sex in a long time. Do you think i should be worried? I know sometimes stress can lead to not getting your period. I'm really stressed because my boyfriend's moving another state away for college, my parents haven't been talking, I'm worried about my job, and my mom keeps asking me if i got my period and that keeps me worried. Do you think i should be worried? Any help is appreciated. =]
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We did have sex between my last period and this one, but before that.. it was months and I've heard that's known to delay your period if you haven't done it in awhile.


I have been accepted at a university and at a community college. I don't have much money, though. I was thinking about going to the community college and transfering. Would that be risky? What are the odds of the university accepting me again after I go to a 2-year school? (link)
Going to a community college first is actually the best thing to do. You can get all of your general stuff out of the way for the first two years, and then go to a university for the last two years. It's the smarter thing to do money-wise.


If I wanted to own my own business, such as a tanning salon (or something along those lines), I know I would go to school to major in business. But what would I minor in? If there's not anything specific, what would be a good idea FOR ME to minor in? (link)
In addition to what the person below me said, you could do marketing [how to target your audience, etc.] You could probably do Entrepreurship (im not sure if i spelled that right) or Economics. Don't do Sociology though, because that deals wit why people act the way they do. Believe me, i took it this year and it was lammmeee. =] Hope I helped!


i had sex for the first time last week, and then again this past saturday... after the first time, i was fine and just a little sore for a couple of hours.. however after the second time on saturday, things were a little harder to cope with. i was sore the entire next day and for some reason i kept feeling like i had to pee, but couldn't. and when i actually was able to, it hurt to pee. nothing that physically different happened the second time i had sex, what makes this after-effect so different from the first time? and why is it effecting my urinary system? (link)
You definitely have a Urinary Tract Infection.. and those things are the WORST. One of it's causes is being sexually active. Go to the doctor and get some medicine for that, and drink a LOT of cranberry juice.


How does it work like how much do they usually pay for a clothing item? I have a lot of clothes I can't fit into anymore because I lost a lot of weight and they are all from Aeropostale. If you have ever been there, what brands did you bring, how many did you bring, and how much you got for them. Thanks in advance. (link)
Ha. I took a huge garbage bag full of clothes there, and they gave me $5 for one pair of jeans. I brought anything i had; AE, aero, stuff like that. Make sure there's no holes, no sparkles, and they're the "latest brands"


I was diagnosed with ADD around December and I was prescribed this medicine. I have been taking the medicine and my grades have went from mostly B's to all A's. It was a really dramatic change in everything I did. So...my grandma thinks that it's all in my head that I have ADD, but it's totally not. But she just keeps saying it and now I'm getting the feeling it might be. I have all the symptons for ADD and when I didn't take my medicine earlier this week I couldn't slow down, do any homework, was distracted a ton, and couldn't remember important stuff. Do you think I really have ADD or it's all in my head? I'm not sure and it's starting to bug me. (link)
Yep. I was the same way. I was diagnosed with ADD when I was in 7th grade [I'm a JR. in high school now]. I was the same way. My grades suffered before I was prescribed to my medicine and ever since then my grades have been awesome. Even when I forget to take my pill, I feel really tired and don't want to concentrate on everything, so I'm positive that you have ADD.


in the gossip girls series, if i buy any one of the books will i have any idea what is going on? is it the kind of book where you have to start from the beginning and read all of them? (link)
i think it's a good idea to read them from the beginning. you should read them all because the gossip girls series is the greatessstttt.


is there anything to help tan better outside? i dont want to go to a tanning salon but i want to get reallly dark from outside. so i was wondering what i coudl use. nothing too oily please thank you (link)
uhhm. you can't really tan right now outside unless you live in florida. why don't you try a tanning salon? it's safer than the sun. you can do it controllably. you can also buy lotions, such as accelerators or bronzers. the ones with the triple bronzers are the best. good lotions are designer skin and australian gold. but, seriously; try tanning in a booth. it's not very cost effective and it works. hope i helped a little.


15/f

Eh. I figure this question has been asked NUMEROUS times before...but I'll give it a try.

I have a (not-SO-serious) acne problem on my forehead, back and chest (a little tiny bit there). And okay....I used just about every acne medication on the MARKET to treat my forehead. (I'm not that worried about my back, since no one ever sees it anyways). Well yeah, my forehead. I used proactiv, acne-free, clearisil, clean and free (?? I think ???) Neutrogena, and COUNTLESS other brands. My forehead has like hundreds of spots of acne. They aren't bumps, they aren't like the red swollen ones...they're more like scar marks (pretty flat). I have NO idea how to get rid of them. Nothing works. I was forced to grow bangs out to cover up my embarassing forehead. Washing my forehead with soap doesn't work either, since it dries it out too much. I'm forced to do the horrible act of putting make-up on!!!!!!! It's AWFUL. Does ANYONE...ANYOOONEEE ;_____; have ANY advice....I don't care whatever it is. I'm willing to take ANY measure....since I'm so freaking desperate to get my skin cleared up ;_;

Thanks in advance! =] (link)
go to the doctor. i have used duac and retin-a-micro... they both work good. and there's also a pill you can take.. i think it's called minocycline?


i have verizon.
how can i block people from calling me??
thanks.
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i also wanted to know that. you should try calling the people at verizon and see if you can.. that's the best you can do. *67 only blocks your phone number from showing up on someone else's caller id. but yea.. you should try calling them =] hope i helped!


So I try to scrunch my hair but at first its like hard and curly/wavyish.. and I like the hard part because it doesn't get poofy.. but after my hair completely dries it gets poofy. I dont know how to make it stay hard. I use this curly constructing Garnier Fructis Mousse, gel, and tressemme hair spray. Is there anythign in particular that will keep my hair hard and not poofy? (link)
get biolage gelee. i use it when i scrunch my hair. it holds very well. i love it =]. it's pretty cheap, you can get it at your local salon or at target. hope i helped!


I know that I trust my boyfriend and I know that he would never cheat on me because he honestly loves me and it's a mutual feeling, but he's been talking to this girl that he said he met about a year ago and she lives about an hour away from where him and i live, but when he visits his dad he visits her, and she is suposidly one of his best friends, but for some reason whenever i'm hanging around with him and a girl calls h sits there and texts her or talks to her, and it bugs me alot, and i said something once and he said that he would never cheat on me, but for some reason i'm still scared that something will happen. I'm also upset because I was looking at this girls MySpace and it had some comments on there from like almost a year ago him saying on her pictures stuff like "Or you're so sexy.." and stuff like that but he posted those things before him and i started dating, but it bugs me that they are still there and i tried telling him i didn't like it and asked him to delete it but he told me that i shouldn't worry about it and it shouldn't be a problem but for some reason i still don't like it, and he talks about his ex's alot and it bugs me alot and i told him and he said that i had nothing to worry about and i shouldn't worry about, but i really love him but it bugs me so much and i try to ignore it but i can't and whenever i try to talk about it with him he gets pissy and moody and says that i'm not listening to my heart and i'm only thinking about his past.

I'm sorry that this is so long but i needed to get it out. Thank you so much.

-Beanie (link)
yepp. this situation sucks, because i was just in this same deal. you just have to trust him, and make sure he's not lying to you. like someone else already said, try making friends with her and it'll be a little easier to find out. if your really suspicious, you could go on his myspace and look for messages or look through his cell phone, although that's bad and i don't recommend that. ah. but you just gotta trust him. it's the best thing you can do.


Ok soo I really want to know what is the best acne wash.I dont have bad acne just mild. I tried Pro-Activ and it worked alright but not well. Everything else I tried really hasnt worked well on my skin. If you know of any good face washes or like cleansers let me know please.


Thanksss. =)

(wasnt sure what category this goes under but whatever.) (link)
if you have terrible acne, go to the doctor and get prescribed medicine. i use "retin-a-micro" and it works well! i've also used duac and that also works good. retin-a-micro is a topical gel, and duac is a cream. you can also take pills to reduce it. hope i helped =]


what is the effect of mixing cocaine and alcohol?
I dont need "drugs will ruin your life" k thanks! (link)
wow. you're a smart one =]. why don't you google it? i don't think normal people would actually try that, and if they did, they're probably not alive to talk about it; so why don't you rethink your own question?


not to long ago i had sex with this guy
it was his first time doing anything sexual as well as mine
he has a girlfriend now
im 100 percent positive they dont do anything sexual
i get urges all the time to do stuff with him again
but i know i cant and we dont talk anymore
i think he doesnt like me

do you think he might feel the same urges?
thanks
16/f (link)
he has to think about it! it was his first time. everyone thinks about their first time. maybe you should talk to him, but don't try to break him and his girlfriend up, ya know?


okay i wanted to buy the LG-The V-VCAST 9800. i really wanted a cell phone with a keyboard. we already looked at the new enV and since i already have a verizon plan (i just want the phone) it would cost around $320. that's a lot of money! so i was on the verizon wireless website and saw the LG-The V-VCAST 9800. it has a lot of the same features (with a keyboard) but it was made in 2005. i did not see it when i went to look at the enV, but it was at a kiosk. do they still have these in stock at verizon stores?? i didn't get to check there yet. any ideas?? also, is there any way i can look at the pricing for just the phone itself, not with a plan.

thanks!! (link)
i just bought the enV the day after christmas.. they do still have the other keyboard phone on stock and it's definitely a lot cheaper. you should go to the verizon store and talk to the reps there about it, or look on ebay and you can get phones cheap on there. hope i helped!


I love my boyfriend, but he recently cut all his hair off. I go for skaters and now that he has no hair he looks way less of a skater. I still love his personality but im not physically attracted to him anymore. Ok im only fourteen, so I know I'm kind of young to be physically attracted to someone, but he just looks so... not my type anymore. I mean, he cut a foot of hair off his head. I love him, but I feel different when I'm with him now. What do I do? (link)
Apparently, you just answered your own question. If your only going to look at the guy for his hair, let alone, his looks, then you are in it for the wrong reason. Don't lead him on if you feel differently. You should like someone for who they are, not what they look like


I kind of cheated on my bf with my ex. I told him about it and everything..we're kind of okay right now but he wants me to write an essay about it. He wants to know how it happened, why it happened, what exactly happened, etc. I don't know how to write this stupid thing for him..does anyone have any help for me? (link)
You shouldn't have to write him an essay. Is he your history teacher? No. Just tell him what happened instead of writing it. That's just stupid to make you write an essay, what is that gonna do? Just talk to him about it. It's better to talk in person anyway.


i have a group of friends and i just feel really left out or not really there...what do i do? how do i get into the convos.? how can i be funny and outgoing? (link)
I feel like that sometimes too. You just have to involve yourself. Make sure they're not leaving you out. If they are doing it to be mean, then consult them about it and try to work it out. If not, you just have to be social. Don't be afraid to just barge into their conversation. Being funny and outgoing takes time if your shy, so give it a little time. Hope I helped.




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