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i feel left out i have a group of friends and i just feel really left out or not really there...what do i do? how do i get into the convos.? how can i be funny and outgoing?
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When you have a big group of friends, it's not a surprise when someone always gets left out. Hopefully they're not doing it on purpose. You have to include yourself in things. Don't try to be different around other people just so you can fit in. You should still be yourself but just open up more. You have to be comftrable around them and have fun. Invite them to go somewhere & they will also invite you to hang out. Just get to know them better and you guys will become really good friends. Just be careful. People can seem really nice at first and then completly turn their backs on you. ]
I feel like that sometimes too. You just have to involve yourself. Make sure they're not leaving you out. If they are doing it to be mean, then consult them about it and try to work it out. If not, you just have to be social. Don't be afraid to just barge into their conversation. Being funny and outgoing takes time if your shy, so give it a little time. Hope I helped. ]
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