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drugs & boyfriends ...
okay , so my boyfriend && i have been together for almost 4 months . i love him , really , i do . the only thing i don`t like about him is that he does pot . he says he hasn`t done it for like 2 months. but my friends keep telling me "i wouldn`t go out with someone that does drugs , but thats just me" idk what to do because i really like him , but not sure if i wan`t to keep seeing someone that does pot . and btw : he knows i know that he does pot . what should i do ? should i let it all go to waste & break up with be because of pot ?
uhg ,
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I was in the same EXACT situation about 2 months ago. I made it very clear to my boyfriend that I didn't appreciate the fact that he did it, so we made a deal: he doesn't talk about it or smoke it in front of me or when he is supposed to be with me, and he doesn't get high right before being with me, and I don't get upset about it. That's what I suggest, because it won't be around you. I'm still with my boyfriend, and I love him SOO much...and it's worked so far without a hitch. But I don't suggest doing it with him.
Good Luck
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whats wrong with weed
its not the worst thing to do
so just go out with him
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i would deffentaly just smoke with him.
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i used to be the same way , i hated weed. It caused total madness in my relationship. I think you should start smoking. Its not as bad as you think. :]
x'kaylaa
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I know how you feel. I was in the same position as you. The guy i was with wasn't worth it. i knew so much better than to date someone who could be a horribly bad influence on me. if you don't that to be brought into the relationship, get rid of him. pot is stupid anyway, and i'm sure you could do so much better. =]
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Personally, I dont think dating someone who does drugs or pot would be the type to date, especially if you're someone who wants to stay away from it.I know that just because he does pot it doesnt make him a bad b/f or anything but it could change/influence you & i dont think ur friends or family would want that(b/c its not a good change). Therefore,you should consider talking to him about it & tryna help him stop. Let him know you care & you'll be there to help him. If he ever tries to force you to do pot or doesnt care about ur concern for him, i dont think he's that valuable of a b/f(even if you do love him & im sorry the truth hurts)...but thats just what i personally think...if i was in your situation ya know?
Well best of luck--Hope I helped
*tWiZZ
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well you really love him and tell him that you that you dont want to see him basically killing himself so tell him he should stop. and talk to his friends but keep it subtle soo that he doesnt find out. the worst thing to do is check his phone for text that say stuff about pot. DONT DO THAT ! bc for some reason guys get really angry at that sort of stuff. and then if you find out that he does keep doing it even after you told him how you felt then tell him so you choose pot over your girlfriend, something like that dont sound to mean about it and see what he says if he keeps doing it then i would say dump him but stay close friends bc he is doing the drugs for some reason or another. a kid i know does them bc he feels stressed. which is stupid get a stressball, lol but any ways hope i helped =]
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