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one year later......
17/f. It has been over a year since I broke up with my boyfriend. And I am still in love with him. Head over heels, would do anything for him, I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I know he is the one, the only one for me, in love. And, he is my best friend. Problem is though, is that he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for a year. I want to tell him so much, but I am afraid that things would get weird between us. I don't want to lose him because he is my best friend. But I just want to be truly happy. I don't know what to do. What should I do?
Also, tomorrow our friend is having a b-day party, and he is going to be there, and his girlfriend. It's going to be all day. I don't want to break down or anything, do something stupid. I just need some advice on how to handle tomorrow, what can I do to not let them get me down too much?
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Maybe what you should do is wait to tell him this stuff when he doesn't have a girlfriend. Right now, he has feelings for her. He may not love her, but he likes her. The last thing you should do is cause drama between this. You could, for the time being, find someone else you like. Find another male friend that you can connect with. You dont have to date, but he may keep your ming off your ex boyfriend. And who knows, you may fall inlove with said boy and forget all about this. I think your mind is just too occupied with wanting your exboyfriend back right now.
For tomorrows situation, go with a group of friends tomorrow. Being with your friends would help you get through the day. If it becomes too much to handle, you could just leave early. But, I'd go with a group of your friends and just stay clear of them when they're together.
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well what most people would say is have your friends ask him what he thinks about you or would he consider going back out with you. dont do that bc eventually your friends start to nag him and then he gets annoyed. what i would do is just casually talk to him at the party not to flirty since his girlfriend is going to be there. then if you ever talk on the computer flirt a little but make sure he is alone if you do becuase you dont want it getting out. and then just basically see where it goes from there. if it is meant to be he will realize that he should be with you. also try hanging out with him away from his girlfriend, yahh that probably sounds bad but it is basically the only way to see if your meant to be, but i wouldnt come on to strong bc you dont want to scare him away or anything. hope this helped =]
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