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i'm kaylaa and i'm an extra fatty, because this girl on advicenators says i am. :]btw: i've had advicenators before , for about 2 yrs but i forgot my username and password :[
advice
Here is my situation. Exactly 3 months ago my then boyfriend broke up with me due to confusion about a woman from his past. I began the "no contact" thing right away, deleting him from my cell to avoid drunk dialing or texting, put away pics...anything that reminded me. Even doing all of this, I am human and long to hear him say he made a huge mistake and wants me back. LOL
He does not bring her out or introduce her friends even though he knows that I know they got togther. He wont even confirm if they are together, happy...anything. He wont talk about her at all to his friends, seems to make him very uncomfortable.(BTW, I am not hanging out with them to avoid seeing them together)
So I recently had a death in my family an I found a hand deliverd card from him in my mailbox. As I I would with anyone else who offered condolences, I sent a one line email saying thank you. He replied and said to not be afraid to ask him for anything I might need. I replied with a one line witty reply(nothing suggestive,) not expecting an answer. Well, the next day he replied with a laugh and a witty reply. I guess my question is...is this just a genuine concern for my loss or is he trying to open the lines of commnication? I do not want to read more into it than it is as I do not want to be sent back to square one in the getting over him process. I dont really want to lose this opportunity for us to reconnect, but I dont want have my feelings hurt if he is just being nice. I have a gut feeling she might not be all he had dreamed of when she was unavailable now that he is actually dating her. If I was on the reading side of this question, I could answer it, but emotions cloud my judgement. I have not responded to his email and don't really know how to handle this. Advice from a man would be wonderful, but I would appreciate any advice.
If he has a cell phone leave a message playing " so sick" by Neyo on his answering machine. If that doesn't work; just tell him face to face.
kaylaa
I made out with this guy at a party and he gave me his number. He said he'd only give it to me if I'd actually call and not just BS him. So the next day i called him and he didn't have my number so I told him who it was and he hung up. I thought we just got disconnected but he never called back and isn't taking my calls (I only called back once but still). What the heck is his problem?
You should try calling him a couple more times, and if he doesn't answer than mabe he changed his mind about you. Guys are weird, they don't just come out and say " i don't like you anymore " they have to do it the ignorant way. hope i helped. :DD
P r i n c e s s K a y :D
I was wondering if there is something worng with me...I get headaches like every day and they last a long time and sometimes they dont go away when I take something. Sometimes they turn into migrains and its really bad. Last night I had a headache so I thought going to bed would make it better but I woke up with it.
You should deffently go get it checked out, I read in SEVENTEEN magazine about this girl having really bad pains similuar to yours and she ended having to get surgery. I'll send you the story if you'd like to read it, just ask when you rate my answer.
P r i n c e s s K a y:D
i had oral sex with my boy friend and i swallowed his sperm,does swallowed sperm get one pregnant.
it can absolutly not get you pregnant. :D
P r i n c e s s K a y ♥
Omg..is there any of you girls that are already in a D or DD and are 16 or so.. Omg, I'm already hitting a 34DD and I think I just keep gettin' bigger all the time.. haha and I run track which sucks because they get in my way haha.. is there any of ya that are around those sizes????
16/F * Skyla *
i just turned 16, and when i was 14 i was wearing a C. Now i wear a 38D. I don't really run that much but when i do they DO get in my way.
kaylaaa
i was wondering about on an average scale, how much is it to get your hair permed & what asre all the benifits & non-benifits to go with it? also i was thinking of getting my hair dyded at the bottom like avril lavigne, I was wondering is there some kind of spray or something thats holds on until you wash your hair, or do you acaully have to dye your hair to get it to be pink at the bottom?
i heard perming your hair is so bad for you. About the spray you can probably find some at Hot Topic, or a beauty supply place.
Where can I buy CHI thermal protection spray, or any other good spray like that?
Thanks.
Sally's beauty supply, or mostly any hair place, also i know places like Great Clips have thermal spray so it doesn't mess your hair up when you straightin it.
If guys get boners then what do girls get?
wet.
i just got a verizon chocolate phone, and i have a few questions about it.
is there any way to make the end music and camera things on the screen go away?
i read somewhere that theres a way to turn off the setting that always searches for the best signal because it wastes the battery, but i forgot where i read it and how to do it. how can i do this?
anddd, is there a way to put music on it without buying the music essentials kit or buying it from verizon? like music from my computer.
thanks!
It should have a manual book that tell's you everything...:/
kaylaa'
wow, my mom walked in on my masturbating
with a sonic care toothbrush
i didnt know what to do
i am flipping the fuck out
what the fuck
omg
someone say something
idk
i need help
im such a fucking idiot
what the fuck was i doing
omgg
how more akward is that
i dont want a talk
noo
im only 15
im a girl
has this happened to anyone else
what if she tells my dad
or my grandma
omg
wow
life sucks
Masterbation is normal for someone your age. I doubt she care's that much, and if she's a good mom she should understand. If anyone happens to confront you, then tell them " atleast i'm not out having sex ". That should deffently get through to them. You shouldn't get introuble for pleasuring yourself... yes your probably embarrissed but try not to think about it, and it will all roll over. My mom walked in on me and my boyfriend having sex, that seems worse than your case huh? For farther references, lock the door, or do it when you know no one will find out... good luck and take care.
kaylaaa'
Can anyone recommend a hair straightener that works well and is also reasonably priced? I know CHI is a good company but i can't afford to spend $150 on a hair straightener.
links would be helpful :]
i recommend Vidal Sassoon 100%. you can find one at Walgreens. They heat up super fast && they last forever, i've dropped mine atleast 12x not to mention the time's i threw it. Ohh, it's like 17 buck's:] the expensive ones aren't really worth it if your clumsy and why get one if you get a cheaper one that is probably better? i have real thick curly hair and it is so easy to straightin with that hair straightener. the one i have is black with gold plates, but i've had a white and gold plated out before, good luck:]
k'laaaaaa
what does it mean if you are going to go burn a bowl? [ its something with drugs right?]
if you have a pipe, [made for tabbacco, used for weed] and you fill the little bowl part with weed, and light it, then basically thats burning a bowl, or if you have a bong.
k'lahhh
well, this is kind of an embaressing question but ok, i am pretty sure i have some kind of vaginal infection, i have hd it for about 5 days, i have been aplying cream for it that my mother got me, it has only beed one day since i have been using the cream, but i see no improvement... i cant go to te doctors for atleast another 4 or 5 days maybe a little longer like 7 days or so because my mom went away on a buinsess trip... and so i am kind of worried, i dont want it to et worse and it is really irritating me.. but ironically it is more irritating when i put the cream on it.. is there anything i could do to makeit better, make it o away.. i dont know if the cream i am usin is the right kind, is there anything else i could to help the healin proccess or actually identify what exactly it is that i have? and i canty call a doctor either because i live in a country that is not my own country and i cannot speak the language yet... any ideas? help me please... i am desperate....
i don't know if you have a walgreens where you live but they have some stuff thats called monistat,i haven't used it but it should work. also they have something there that can tell you if its an infection or not, i dont know what its called but you can look around. also if you have a infection it isn't going to kill you, its normal every girl gets them im pretty sure. and it wouldn't hurt to wait 7 day's if you actually have too:]
k'laaahhh
My best friend fucked my brother when i asked her not to. Do i have a right to be mad at her? Or am i over reacting?
i don't have a brother but if i did i'd probably get mad too, so my answer is yes, espeacially if you told her not to!
k'laahh
18/f
Okay, i've been seeing my boyfriend for a year now and i've found out that i'm pregnant. I know i want to keep the baby, i couldn't go through with an abortion. But in September he's going away to university. I know how much he wants to go and i don't want to spoil it for him or make him feel like he has to stay. Do i tell him now? Or do i wait until he's at university and then tell him? (He's going to be living quite far away when he goes, like four to five hours drive away if that helps)
Please help!
you should tell him now, whether you tell him now or tell him later, its still a responsibility for both of you. what can it hurt, if you tell him now? even if it stop's him from going, he'll have to except that things are about to change, and even if he still goes things will probably still work out for the best. :]
'klaa
I know this may seem stupid but how do you get to paint on your computer. Because I am having trouble getting to it.
Thanx for all your help!!
wow... ok go to start at the bottom left hand side of your screen. then go to all programs and click accessories, then click on paint. let me know if you get it:]
k'laaaa
Hi, I Am Female And 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and we are thinking about having sex in the next few months. Me and him are both virgins though. I am worried about how much it is going to hurt on my first time. I am quite shy sometimes and don't like showing I'm in pain. So the question is How much does it actually hurt? And How can i cover up the pain or reduce the pain? I desperatly need help with this. Please help. I am kind of scared about how much pain I may have to go through, but I just want to get it over and done with. So, How much pain? and How can I cover up the pain or reduce the pain? thanks xx
i did it my first time at 14, and now im 16. it didn't hurt that much, not anough to cry at all. i thought it was going to hurt so bad, but you could use lube, which you could get almost anywhere by the condom section. it makes his penis go in easier and its less painful. i think the pain depends on the person and theres not much to do about the pain. i never masterbated or anything before i had sex and it didnt even hurt. if you use tampons then that is another thing that might help out the pain because your vagina is used to having something coming in and out. i regret having sex, wait for the right person that you'll be with forever. thats my best advice!
k'laa
Okay so heres the deal.. Ive been talking to this guy for a month now.. its going great.. he lives in Virginia.. he came down on Saturday night to see his family and see me too.(hes here for a visit for a week). We met on Sunday.. Had a great time.. and the next day I asked him if he wanted to do something on Tuesday.. he said he dont think hes doing anything but he will let meknow.. ok.. day goes by.. next day I ask him.. wondering if u still wanted to do something today.. didnt respond to that but he tells me that hes soo tired went to the border yesterday(monday) and had to renew something and that he came back at 4 in the morning..took him 7 hrs to get there and that he is exhausted.. I had mentioned that he shud rest so that tomarrow he will be refreshed.. and he agreed.. and then went offline. My question to you is....do u think its wise to ask him if he wants to see me again.. honestly speaking? or am I jumping the gun too quickly..
well to me it sound's like he is loosing interest in you. my advice is give him a couple day's to come around. if he doesn't talk to you in a couple days then he is probably giving you the hint he doesn't like you. it's happened to me before and i felt really bad. you might of came on too quickly. :/ idk? hope i helped.
k'laaa
16/f
My boyfriend and I had sex. His parents found out, how they found out is a long story that wouldn’t mean much to you. Anyways…to the point; I have never been so embarrassed in my life. Does anyone have a story, about their parents or this partners parents finding out, to share with me, so I don’t feel so dumb? Or any story at all that is. It’s silly I know, but I need something that helps me know... I’m not the only one whos parents have found out. Thanks :)
my mom walked in on me and my boyfriend having sex, and she knew clearly that's what we were doing. &' she also found condoms. it was embarrising and i was so scared.
im so scared i might be pregnant. i had sex with this guy on may 18th. he didn't come in me, he had a condom on, but then he took it off, n he came in my underwear, which i put on like right after. that day was a friday. on saturday night, like at 11 or 12 at night i felt kinda nauseas. i dunno why. then i felt nauseas monday morning till like wednesday morning, but it might have been because we were disecting pigs in first period every morning. after that, i didn't get nauseas or anything anymore. i got my period regularly three times. i just finished my third time. i noticed it was kinda light. it ended maybe a day or two sooner than usual. last night in the shower, i noticed my stomach got a LOT bigger. not like super huge, but i'm a skinny girl, &it got bigger. could i be pregnant ?
there is a possiblity you could be pregnant, i recommend buying a pregnancy test. just don't let your parent's know. and from now on you might want to take birthcontrol, you can get them at planned parent hood, or a health center should have them, i think gynocoligists have them too (sp?) take a pregnancy test asap.good luck:]
k'laaaaaaaaaaaaaaa