Member Since: April 9, 2007
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Last Update: April 14, 2007
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my brother is the preppy popular guy. im the gothic creepy girl. its just two different cliques not life or death. he gets anything he wants. and sometimes i have to do stuff for him. hes a lazy ass. i went off on him he said mom shes being mean. i could have knocked him out cold. hes in highschool. i got grounded i refused to get him a drink and yelled at him. is that gay or what. i talk to my parents they dont care. everyone notices it but my parents even he said i have a shitty life ya slave. im not his slave im his younger sister. my friends notice it their surprised how well im takin it. im gona kill him. how do i get it through their tick skulls IM NOT A SLAVE. im goin fuckin crazy i get grounded if i dont do his work right! how do i get my parents to stop! (link)
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It sounds like you have major issues here. It sucks being the younger sister, I know. I have two older brothers, and then two younger ones. Just talk to your parents one last time, and if that doesn't work, then tell your brother to get off his lazy ass and get whatever he wants himself, only in a nicer way. If that still doesn't work, then just ignore him. It sounds crappy and wimpy, but it works. Good luck and keep me posted on how it goes!
Mimi
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ok well im a 16/f struggling in high school barely passing. i have a c in my IPC class (science) and a D in english and i made a bad grade a 64 on my spanish test so basically im a screwup. and my social life is messed up because no matter how hard i try to be nice to other people they'll till be mean to me. what should i do? (link)
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Ok. I know it seems like your life pretty much sicks right now. I know the feeling. I've been there on more than one occasion. But don't give up. Just stick it through, and it will definately be worth it. Good luck, and keep me posted!
Mimi
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ok so i've been friends with benefits with my best guy friend for about 7months now. i used to like him but then i just stopped liking him. that was about 5months ago. now about a month ago i realized i still like him. i just got back from a spring break vacation and the whole time i was on vacation i couldn't stop thinking about him...EVER. and i got butterflies. i never got butterflies that much before and i think i really love him. i think he likes me. we tell each other we love each other but it was always in the friendly way. i dont know how to tell him that i really really love him. i have more feelings for him than i did with my ex boyfriend. (link)
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I would say go for it. Just totally go for it. If he says he loves you back, then hell yah for you. And even if he says no, it'll still be a hell of a lot better than going through life thinking what if. Good luck, and lots of love!
Mimi
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i always say i love you first to my bf and when we're like hanging up the phone if i dont say it then neither will he. how can i get him to say it without actually telling him to? or does this mean that he doesnt love me because he doesnt want to say it? (link)
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I had a bf that did the same thing. It makes you feel unwanted and unloved. What you need to do is talk to him privately. No interuptions. Nothing. Then talk to him about wether or not he loves you. If he can look you straight in the eyes and tell you he loves you, then it's real. If not, then it might be time to break it off because he can't be truthful enough to tell you how he feels. Afterwards, no matter how it turns out, make sure to get yourself a nice big chocolate bar, a couple of girlfriends, one night, and a movie marathon and just hang out with the girls for a little bit. It will make you feel so much better, and you'll learn the truth.
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for some reason im starting to loose interest in this guy, and then im not, i like him, then i dont, i dnt really know what i feel anymore. but when i ffinally come to a conclusion and its that i dnt like him i already told him i like him and then wut do i say, 'i dnt like you any more sry' that would kill him. and i dnt feel normal about on and off again liking him...is it normal?? my friend says it is, but i really want to know y i feel it, and then if i really DNT like him, how do i tell him??? (link)
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Ok. Looks to me like you need to get your priorities straight before you can do anything. Think about wether or not you really do like him. Set aside some time, like a good half hour, to think about this. If your answer is still that you don't like him, then you NEED to tell him, no matter how much you know it's going to hurt him. It'll hurt him more if you don't tell him, and he finds out some other way. Best wishes and good luck!
Mimi
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