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um, well yesterday i accidentally slipped to one of my friends that i like someone, and now she keeps bothering me about who it is. and i cant believe i slipped it out.
so now, everytime i look at her, she is staring at me, and before ANYONE knew i liked someone, i would stare at him non-stop and no one would notice! but now with her staring at me 24/7 i cant really look at him or talk to him as much as i used to!!
AND I CANNOT TELL HER WHO IT IS. she will barf and she's not even one of my good friends... and i dont really trust her too much. should i say i stopped liking him? will she be even MORE suspicious, then, thinking i lied to her? or should i wait like, until monday and say i dont like him anymore (when i really still do...)?
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you have to be strate forwardin a sitch like this. tell her that it is non of her business and to stop staring at you. if it continues, then go ahead with your plan of waiting till monday then saying your over him. say you thought about it over the weekend, and decided he's not good 4 u. then say you'll be on the search for new guys and will be talking with them, and that way you can still talk to your guy. np! xoxo oh, thanx 4 the rating! i hope i helped!
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how can it not be awkward between me and my best friend. god i like him so much and i wish i could let him know that but somehow i feel like ill get hurt again. its just i think he may feel something for me too but a while back when i told him how i felt it was not possible for him to like me. but now he can like me because he is over that situation he was in. and im not talking about another girl, im talking about him thinking he was attracted to guys. but hes made it clear that hes not anymore. hes strait. but yea the only problem is that he has always been afraid of commitment. and he wrote a poem about heartbreak and i think it was about me. its so sad.... but yea idk it seems like he really likes me too. but is he scared like me? help please and thank you. 14/ f btw. (link)
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it sounds like your dream guy is scared. he's afraid of how you'll react, previously knowing he was attracted to guys. you need to tell him. now that he's out of his sitch, u 2 can be together. you just need to let him know it's ok. and rejection is all part of the biz. u lose some, they lose u, in any case, you'll be ok, just stay strong and give this guy a chance. just say it. walk with him to the park and say, i like you. think of how youn did it last time, and smooth over the rough spots.
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i have this friend and i can say alot of guys at my school have crushes on her! ok well they do not know how mean she is! she acts so sweet around guys and tells them bad stuff about me and she always acts exactly how she yells at me for acting ! this is bothering me soooo much! do u think i should keep her as a friend? because i know she likes me but idk about her!
xoxo-thannks (link)
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wow. she is so... so...so.... uhg! words fail me!
That is so beyond wrong. I she really liked you, she wouldn't be like that. i would never tell lies about a friend. never. and i would never, ever tell my friend not to act a certain way, then go ahead and do it myself. but the thing about the crushes, where every guy has one on her? that's their tough luck. and that, my friend, is what you call luv based on looks. they don't reeeeeeeeally like, her! they like the way she looks, or she would never have those guys cruching on her. never. so in answer to your question, no. she is NOT a good friend. you may want to keep her, but she's only going to keep hurting you. she is a lost cause. i'm sorry. xoxo, i hope i helped.
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in 5th grade i was friends with a group of people.
lets call them clique #1...
we were a pretty tight group..
but then one of the people got mad at me in 6th grade,
and it was a real big fight.
so i became great friends with a new group..
lets say their clique #2...
ive been great friends with clique #2..
ecpecially my two best friends in that clique.
"kristina" and "elsie"
now, clique #1 and me have been hanging out again.
they have been so sweet to me and i love being with them along with clique #2.
the thing is.. clique#1 thinks im replacing them with clique #1.
about 4 girls from there called me and told me they miss me.
kristina is so mad at me that she took me out of her top8 on her myspace and put the guy i like first.
also.. she hasnt been talking to me and she's telling all her friends how sad she is.
i'm so hurt by this.
ive been crying for a while.
i cant pick between groups and theres no way i can hang out with both of them together because certain people from a vlique dont like certain people from another.
i seriously have no idea what to do.
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what a rough spot to be in. first, if you got in a fight with clique 1, why would you wanna go back? and if "kristina" has been hurtful and is sad, why would you wanna deal with her? i'd stay with clique #1, because you'd probably feel more comfortable with them. the only thing is, YOU have to make sure you and the girl you had a fight with in clique ine smooth thngs over and come to a reasonable solution so that the argument never happens again.
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ok..so summers coming and i would like to volunteer i dnt know just to do anything maybe clean the park...or take care of elderly or work for a summer job? camp? that dont cost much? where can i get this information and what can i do to go to camps or volunteer thanks! (link)
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you could always volunteer at you local animal shelter. they're always looking for extra help. always. just go in and ask if you could help. the places usually have a website. for a summer job, you need to get your resume ready. places are always looking for people in the summer, when no-one want's to work. check your local papers want adds. that's all i can contribute right now. hope i helped.
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you answered my question about the clothes at abercrombie and hollister, and what did you mean by when you said: "it won't catch up to you eventually" ? (link)
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wouldn't you be afraid all of the time that somehow, someone saw what you did, and will tell someone? besides, the stores have camera's everywhere, trust me.
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A LOT of people at my school talk about how they always steal from hollister & abercrombie, all the time. they say they never get caught, i really don't think that it's a good idea, but i'm just wondering what are the chances of getting caught stealing at abercrombie or hollister, if you bring the clothes into the dressing room and rip off the tags and stuff them in your purse or whatever. thank you. (link)
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the chance is 99%. stealin is wrong. YOU KNOW THAT! EVERYONE DOES! do you honestly think that if you steal, it won't catch up to you eventually? and when you wear those clothes, you'll always remember how you got it, and how will you feel then? in answer to your question, the chance is 99%, so don't try anything!
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alright.
so i spent april 7th- april 22nd at my boyfriends house for spring break.
we are in a long distance relationship.
spring break was the first time i had seen him since january.
well. me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 2months. we are very much in love. and plan to get married within the next few years.
the only problem right now is his father.
his father for some reason s me.
neither of us know why because i have never been rude or disrespectful to him or anything bad. but his dad calls me a wench and a . and stuff like that. my boyfriends father hating me is causing tension between the two of them. and i dont want them to have a bad relationship because of me..but at the same time i refuse to let him go..ive been with him for over a year. and i couldnt picture myself with anybody but him. im so in love with him. and he loves me too. my boyfriend is actually thinking of completely disowning his father until he learns to respect me and apologizes to me for the things hes said to me and the way he has treated me. but i dont want him and his dad to stop talking just because of me. i dont know what to do. im so confused. the rest of my boyfriends family likes me..his mom. his sister. his grandparents. aunts. uncles and cousins all like me. its just his dad and his brother. his brother doesnt like me coz hes a suck up and if his dad dont like someone he doesnt either. but im so confused. what should i do! (link)
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there is only one thing YOU can do. you have to talk to the dad. screw the bro, he's a moron. you have to sit down and talk to your bf's dad and try to sort things out between you and him. other wise, it ain't never gonna work.try to make an effort with him. talk to him. DON'T SUCK UP TO HIM, THOUGH! He'll see right through it.be opinionated, but don't smash his beliefs.let me know how thing's work out.
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Thanks... but my mom gives me sayings like.. cut down. or get to 95 or 90 lbs! (link)
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don't listen to her. normally, i wouldn't say that, because usually mom's know best. usually. have you heard about anna nicole smith? she was a model, and she was super skinny. she died recently. Being your age and trying to cut down is sooooooooooooo nawt healthy. trust me. you don't want to end up like Anna, do you? i'm not tryin to scare you, just, in this case, your mom is wrong. if you cut down anymore, it could cause health issues. trust me.
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hi i am a 13/f
i am a little chubby and if you are, you don't get boyfriends and you get a little teased. I want to lose a little weight... how do i do it? and i don't want to talk about it to my mom. i get to embarresed. Pleaase answer me. i am 100 to 110 lbs. i REALLY WANT TO LOSE SOME. i kinda want it a secret. thanks (link)
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i am sorry. i am your age and i weigh 129 pounds.YOU HAVE NOTHIN, NADA, ZIP, NINE, ZERO TO COMPLAIN ABOUT! PLEASE DON'T TELL ME YOU ARE ONE OF THOSE GIRLS WHO CARE HOW MUCH THEY WEIGH WHEN THEY WEIGH EACTLY WHAT THEY SHOULD. You are not over weight, an d how did you get the idea that you were? If it was because of the teasing, tell the next taser to stuff it. If it was the guy's, why don't you try talking to them, instead of waiting for him to make the first move. The only reason you don't have a guy is because you won't do something. Have lot's of guy friends, and they like my personality, not my body. I'm not fat, and neither are you. so quit worryin about it!
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i need this ASAP!! its due on monday.. a basketball project.. can anyone tell me (please) the techniques of basketball and how they work example : dribbling offense defense rebound, etc) and then how it wrks for example: dribbling. You have to .. bla bla bla// somethinhg like that coz i know nothing bout basketball and i really need helkp coz i wont be able to do this project over the weekend because i have to go to church the whole weekend so can you please tell me the basic techniques of basketball, something that i can undersatnd and please dont use big words coz i dont know thos words lol... thanks oh and if youre a too generous person can you also tell me the basic rules of basketball coz i also need it but techniques is numero uno ok? thanks so much (link)
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basket ball, ok. DRIBBLING: Dribbling is when you bounce the ball with ONE hand while moving up/down the court.
OFFENSE: Is when twoor more players try to dribble the ball across the court and try to score a basket.
DEFENSE: Two players who try to defend your basket from being scored on.
REBOUND: A rebound is simply that. It is the rebound of the ball off the back of the board of the basket.
INTERCEPT: Is when you catch the ball in the middle of a pass. Say the someone on the other team tried to pass the ball to another player. You have to try and get in there to catch the ball before the other player.
RULES:
IT IS NOT ALLOWED TO:
.When dribbling, bounce the ball from one hand to the other (in a V pattern)
.Dribble, stop and hold the ball with both hands, then continue dribbling.
.Passing is a must. You must pass to the other players when playing the game to try and get a basket. But only pass to your team players.
I hope i helped. good luck on monday.
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I have been dating (lets say bob) Bob for a year and 3 months. I love bob very much and always will for what we have been through together. I recently went to spain for a week and realized that as much as i love him and love dating him i dont think i am in love with him any more. It makes me sad but when we are together it just doesnt feel right any more.
My best friend and i have come close to dating before and (lets say his name is Cory) Cory and i will always have a common like for eachother even if we never date. The thing is, today when we were all together i wanted to be with Cory more than my own boy friend. I mean i love cory as a friend and a little bit more but I have been through Everything with Bob.
Bob has been so supportive of everything i have been interested in the past few months and he has been so lovable and there for me no matter what. He is so happy about our relationship right now and as much as i dont want to hurt him i dont think its right to fake being in love with him.
So my question is should i stay with him and just see if my feelings for my best friend pass or should i tell him my feelings of not being in love with him any more and just see what he says.
Its been happening for a little while well the past couple of weeks and I am just very confused.
Thank you for the help. (link)
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i would say, though you have been thru "everything" with "bob", you will probably go thru "everything" with "cory" as well if you two decide to date. if you don't feel anything, then it's wrong. give it a shot. you never know what can happen. If you keep waiting, when you finally do tell him, it'll hurt more.
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I need a good way to convince my mother to let me get my belly button peirced. Any one have any ideas on how I can help convince her? Oh, and if you had one how much did it hurt? (link)
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i had my belly button pierced, and man alive, did it hurt! Now i can't sleep on my stomach or anything, and it's always getting caught on my clothes.i wish i'd never done it now. but if you really want to, look up some facts on google, then tell your mom so she'll think it's safe. but i wouldn't get my belly button pierced again if some one paid me. it hurt too much.
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If I wanted to get tested for STDs (just to be safe) where would I go? (link)
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the doctors office. immeadiatly. like, now. a hospital. or clinic. now go.
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theres this guy in like almost all of my classes. He flirts with me a lot and teases me, (lol i seriousely just noticed that today) but you see he has a girlfriend. So why would he be flirting with me and giving me all of this attention?? I would just like to know why? Or a better question is why do guys do that even when they know they have someone already? (link)
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he's probably waiting to see if you will be good for him. maybe he dosen't feel that same spark that he did when he met his current gf, and now is looking for some one else to take he place. so primp your eyelashes girl and get ready. you should so go for it. try not to go over board though, or you may be labeled boyfriend stealer. if ths label does, however, appear under your year book photo, you may have to start a rumor about his ex. hey, it's a jungle out there. girl eat girl. but the rumor thing is ONLY if worst come to worst. got that. good. now get out there!
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What kind of dress should i be looking for? for a semi?? Because i have NO idea! i am 13/f and approximately a B cup size ((idk if that has anything to do with dresses though)) but i have no idea what kind of dress i should buy or color! i also have Dark Brown curly hair. it would be great if you could give me a link! THANKS!! (link)
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to answer your question, your dress should be red, royal bluse, or yellow, and a cocktail length, the hem of the dress should not be past your knee's
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So one of my best friends hangs out with her boyfriend 24/7 and even at school we don't even really hang. So I was asking her if we could hang out but since shes always with her boyfriend, and her boyfriend invites his friend who is my ex boyfriend. So then my best friend never invites me because she doesn't want to be a fight between my ex and me, cuz we aren't on good terms.
Then I talked to my best friend how I felt and she ignored me. She basically said that she thinks that her boyfriend will get mad if she says she doesnt want my ex to come when her boyfriend invites him, because she doesnt want there to be a fight. Also, she thinks that if she tells her boyfriend she doesnt want my ex to come, shes afraid her b/f will get mad and then break up with her.
But what boyfriend would break up with his girlfriend when his girlfriend wants to hang with her best friend that she hasn't hung out with for like 2 months.
Then the me, my ex, and my best friend got in a huge fight, abd basically my best friend said that she would rather have her boyfriend than me. Because she told me she doesn't want to lose what she has with her boyfriend. But it's not like they are going to be together forever, I mean they have been going out for like 3 months, and they still haven't hugged or kissed or anything whatsoever...So she's willing to lose her best friend over her boyfriend.
Oh, and my ex likes my best friend...and her boyfriend is my ex's best friend..
So does this make any sense to anyone?
Because basically my ex told me it was wrong to get mad at this whole situation, but i've been crying for 3 days straight, and I can't stop.
I just really don't know what too do.
Is it wrong that my (ex) best friend shoved me out of her life just to have her boyfriend because she doesn't want to lose him? Because I think they won't be together...
Please helpp..
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ohhhhhhhhh, sweetie, i'm so sorry. You need to find new, good, trustworthy friends, one's that can be your supports. if your EX-FRIEND can jjust push you out of your life like that, then she wasn't that great to begin with. just leave her alone, mingle. you gotta be single to mingle! have fun, and please, she is sooooo not worth it.
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Okay, i am 13 years old and a girl.
My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago. Heres some background info:
On saturday night i went to my friend domoniques house with some other girls. and my ex wen to his friends house with some other boys. They live right across from eachother. So we went to go hang out with them, and as i went to say hi to him, he just rode down the driveway on the bike he was on. so i go to say hi agian with my friend domonique and he only says hi to her. So i keep trying to talk to him the whole night, but he doesnt answer. So i decide to forget bout it, because i thought he wuld talk to me wen hes readii or w/e. mayb he just wanted to be with his friends? well anyway..he was talking to domonique the whole night, convincing him to break up with me and making up lies that i called him a bad boyfriend.
so i call him sat. night nd his fones off, i call his friend because he was sleepin ova his house, and thy ignore my call the first time. i try again and he says that ryans[my ex] sleeping.
so i call again in the morning and hes lik yeah ill tell him you called.
i never get a call back. and i come online at night on sunday to find hes breaking up with me.
he said it was b/c he was sick of the way i was treating him, and i admit that i WAS kinda meen but when he told me how he felt i stopped instantly because i didnt wanna hurt him. that was a longg time ago too. and the other reason was...he couldnt find time. hes really serious about baseball and thats basically his life.
so we broke up sunday and talked for the first time last nite. and he said that he needed to find time. so i dont know if he meant that maybe we could go out in the future?
Well if we do i know its not going to be soon. but, he asked if we were frends so i was like yeah but im not going out of my way to talk to you, you broke up with me and as much as i wanna talk to you, thats up to you. and he was lik fine same here. but i think that he mite. he was online before but i was away but my a.m said still here; he was away too. so idk?
the main thing is
should i im him when he comes back on? or let him im me?
and i know you mite think im too young to be in love but i reallyyyy am....he was lik bragging in school but i dnt kno i just have a feeling he dosent mean it. and i just want to talk to him lik everythings ok.
and another thing...should i wait a little while for him? or try and start moving on?
i want to move on as in be ok with the fact that were not together, but i do want to go back out with him.
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i have a question, before i give any advice. do you live in brampton, Ont.? a simple yes or no will do. thx. but i'd suggest leaving him alone, and go boy shopping with your friends at the mall. you know, go to the mall, and look for cute guys. if he believes all thatjunk, then he wasn't a good guy in the first place.
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well i have known my bestfriend since the 6th grade and i am in 9th now. we were so close and i love her to death she is like a sister to me! but about 3 months ago she got a boyfriend and thats all she can talk about. she talks about him alot and sometimes i feel like she only calls me to talk about him. talking on the phone is not as much fun as it used to be anymore. i really dont want to tell her that she talks about her bf too much she would get mad
what do i do
what do i say
thansk in adance (link)
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ok, you friend is obviously hooked on the guy. try changing the conversation around on the phone. just be like " oh yeah, did you see that one show on tv last night...." and don't be afraid to tall her she thnx abou this guy too much. it's a good wake up call for her. if you guys aren't friends after this, then it'll all blow over soon.she'll break up with him, and you'll have your friend back. just be patient
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i'm on prescription medicine. i've missed like 5 doses. if i were to take those [each at 500mg] what would happen? that's 2000mg of medicine, so i'm worried. i haven't taken them yet, and i don't think i'm gonna take 5, but i just wanna know what will happen. (link)
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you might over dose and, well, let's just say, don't take those pills. what you do is keep going on course, then jjust keep going for another five doses, untilyou're finnished. there, cake.
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