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2 cliques...
in 5th grade i was friends with a group of people.
lets call them clique #1...
we were a pretty tight group..
but then one of the people got mad at me in 6th grade,
and it was a real big fight.
so i became great friends with a new group..
lets say their clique #2...
ive been great friends with clique #2..
ecpecially my two best friends in that clique.
"kristina" and "elsie"
now, clique #1 and me have been hanging out again.
they have been so sweet to me and i love being with them along with clique #2.
the thing is.. clique#1 thinks im replacing them with clique #1.
about 4 girls from there called me and told me they miss me.
kristina is so mad at me that she took me out of her top8 on her myspace and put the guy i like first.
also.. she hasnt been talking to me and she's telling all her friends how sad she is.
i'm so hurt by this.
ive been crying for a while.
i cant pick between groups and theres no way i can hang out with both of them together because certain people from a vlique dont like certain people from another.
i seriously have no idea what to do.
=/ help?
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what a rough spot to be in. first, if you got in a fight with clique 1, why would you wanna go back? and if "kristina" has been hurtful and is sad, why would you wanna deal with her? i'd stay with clique #1, because you'd probably feel more comfortable with them. the only thing is, YOU have to make sure you and the girl you had a fight with in clique ine smooth thngs over and come to a reasonable solution so that the argument never happens again.
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well im 16 and im gonna put myself in your shoes. now what i would do (and i still do know)i would still be friends with both. i have friends all over. one is a nerd but shes so nice and funny and everyone else agrees, a couple that a super popular and my friends in my group:the popular nice friendly athletic group. but if i had to chose i would chose clique 2. the reason why is because group one got mad at you, talked about you, were mean, ect. you know this will happen again most likely and then you would have ditched your clique 2 group you wont have anybody else and group 2 would be mad at you for ditching them. especially your 2 best friends and thats a another reason to pick group 2. the 2 best friends you have made. are you jsut gonnaa ditch them for your old group just because they are suddenly being nice to you again?? How would you feel if one of them did that to you? it wouldnt feel good. You can still talk to them but i think its better if you stick with group 2. Like my mom told me about these girls that were my friends, then turned on me, and then started to be nice to me and they would do the same thing again: they are too wishy-washy meaning they go back and forth to much and cant make up their minds on wether to be friends with me or ditch me and i would cry because they would be mean and i was in the 4th grade. she just said stick with the group you are now. its better this way and all the friends i made that were so much better. thats how your group one is. any sec. they could turn on you all over again. just like she replaced you on myspace. also you can talk to them about it. explain how you feel toward eachother but you dont wanna ditch group 2 and please dont ditch group 2. i have had friends do that and it hurts. it makes you feel worth less and stuff like your not good enough and obviously gets you angry.but next time you guys have an argument you need to work it out. dont just blow it off. you gotta fix it.but once again i would pick group 2 because group one is way too "Wishy-washy" and could turn on you anytime. they are not that trust worthy and i would know from experience. well i hope i helped answer your question and send me another anytime. email me to tell me how it goes. scdgirl288@yahoo.com. good luck on the choice you make.
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Dude, top 8's mean nothing. Your position on them should mean nothing to you. Whether you're 2, 5, 7 or 8 on a damn top, it doesn't matter. Position doesn't matter. The people who go into my top don't matter. I just place random people there because I like change & new faces. Her taking you out isn't the end of the world. Get over it.
Cliques are retarded. They're made up of pretty girls who think they're everything & that they rule the world. They're stuck up, snotty, rude, insensitive, & cruel. They make fun of other people for NO reason & they revolve around drama.
If clique one can't accept that you're hanging out with clique two, then they're lame. Same deal for clique two. If clique two can't deal with you hanging out with clique one, then they're the same position of lame. Be friends with whoever the hell you wanna be friends with. Hang out with whover the hell you wanna hang out with. If people don't like it, then tough. That's their problem & they'll just have to deal with it. If they can't learn to get over the changes & the new friends, then they're dumb & you shouldn't be friends with them in the first place.
So basically, if your friends cannot accept who else you're friends with, drop them. Being mad at someone because they're hanging out with new people & trying new things is rediculous, and the person whose mad should get shot. End of story. Life goes on, things change. Grow up.
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If they're really your friends, they should not make you pick in between them.
Sit them down (separately) and tell them that you love them and want to be friends, but you want to be firend with the other one too. Tell them how much ya'lls friendship means and that THEY don't have to be friends, but if they make you choose then you're not gonna be friends with either one of them
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