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um, well yesterday i accidentally slipped to one of my friends that i like someone, and now she keeps bothering me about who it is. and i cant believe i slipped it out.
so now, everytime i look at her, she is staring at me, and before ANYONE knew i liked someone, i would stare at him non-stop and no one would notice! but now with her staring at me 24/7 i cant really look at him or talk to him as much as i used to!!
AND I CANNOT TELL HER WHO IT IS. she will barf and she's not even one of my good friends... and i dont really trust her too much. should i say i stopped liking him? will she be even MORE suspicious, then, thinking i lied to her? or should i wait like, until monday and say i dont like him anymore (when i really still do...)?
please helpp <3
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Meh, if you don't trust someone be a bit more gaurded hun.
Don't tell her you don't like him anymore. She'll just bug you all the more "Well if you don't like him anymore then it doesn't matter what you tell me!" I can hear her squeal.
Tell her isn't someone she could possibly know. A brother's friend, a guy online, a cousin's friend. Then in a week or two tell her you can't seem to contact him and you're a bit sad about it. Problem solved.
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Why should she care who you like? If you don't want her knowing, then tell her it's none of her business. She should be concerned with her own life, and not yours. It's your life for a reason. Don't lie to her though. It'll just make her bother you about it more.
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Well, if she's not even one of your good friends and you don't trust her, then why does her opinion matter to you? If you really like the guy, then you shouldn't worry about what she thinks. Feel free to keep liking him and pursuing him if you want -- that's YOUR life and YOUR business. If she has a problem with it, then she's not just 'not a good friend', she's a downright BAD friend.
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you have to be strate forwardin a sitch like this. tell her that it is non of her business and to stop staring at you. if it continues, then go ahead with your plan of waiting till monday then saying your over him. say you thought about it over the weekend, and decided he's not good 4 u. then say you'll be on the search for new guys and will be talking with them, and that way you can still talk to your guy. np! xoxo oh, thanx 4 the rating! i hope i helped!
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