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i want him back
Okay, i am 13 years old and a girl.
My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago. Heres some background info:
On saturday night i went to my friend domoniques house with some other girls. and my ex wen to his friends house with some other boys. They live right across from eachother. So we went to go hang out with them, and as i went to say hi to him, he just rode down the driveway on the bike he was on. so i go to say hi agian with my friend domonique and he only says hi to her. So i keep trying to talk to him the whole night, but he doesnt answer. So i decide to forget bout it, because i thought he wuld talk to me wen hes readii or w/e. mayb he just wanted to be with his friends? well anyway..he was talking to domonique the whole night, convincing him to break up with me and making up lies that i called him a bad boyfriend.
so i call him sat. night nd his fones off, i call his friend because he was sleepin ova his house, and thy ignore my call the first time. i try again and he says that ryans[my ex] sleeping.
so i call again in the morning and hes lik yeah ill tell him you called.
i never get a call back. and i come online at night on sunday to find hes breaking up with me.
he said it was b/c he was sick of the way i was treating him, and i admit that i WAS kinda meen but when he told me how he felt i stopped instantly because i didnt wanna hurt him. that was a longg time ago too. and the other reason was...he couldnt find time. hes really serious about baseball and thats basically his life.
so we broke up sunday and talked for the first time last nite. and he said that he needed to find time. so i dont know if he meant that maybe we could go out in the future?
Well if we do i know its not going to be soon. but, he asked if we were frends so i was like yeah but im not going out of my way to talk to you, you broke up with me and as much as i wanna talk to you, thats up to you. and he was lik fine same here. but i think that he mite. he was online before but i was away but my a.m said still here; he was away too. so idk?
the main thing is
should i im him when he comes back on? or let him im me?
and i know you mite think im too young to be in love but i reallyyyy am....he was lik bragging in school but i dnt kno i just have a feeling he dosent mean it. and i just want to talk to him lik everythings ok.
and another thing...should i wait a little while for him? or try and start moving on?
i want to move on as in be ok with the fact that were not together, but i do want to go back out with him.
pleasee help me
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i have a question, before i give any advice. do you live in brampton, Ont.? a simple yes or no will do. thx. but i'd suggest leaving him alone, and go boy shopping with your friends at the mall. you know, go to the mall, and look for cute guys. if he believes all thatjunk, then he wasn't a good guy in the first place.
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Let him IM you. You tried to make things work, and you told him that you were there when he wanted to talk & he agreed. Like you said you weren't going to, don't go out of your way to talk to him. He broke up with you, remember? Give him space & time, and hopefully he'll come around.
I would suggest to wait a little while & if nothing happens, then forget about him & move on. If he doesn't wanna go back out, you can't make him be with you. Try finding someone else you could possibly be interested in.
If you guys ever do go back out. Be nicer to him. He loves/loved you & you treated him badly. He had every right to dump you. No offense.
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hunny, im sure you think its love, but its most likely puppy love, but not love love. and if he would do that, then you dont need him. talking to your "friend" and not you its just mean, even if he was mad or whatever at you. dont message him, show him that you dont need him.. and you really dont. hun, your 13 and have a looong way of finding someone better and that will love you. im not saying, go out and date every guy, but dont stress about having a boyfriend. your 13 and your REAL relationships wont start untill highschool. im not talking about date someone for a month, i mean a loong time. so save your love for someone that will love you in return... hope i helped<3
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