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hinding their true feelings
how can it not be awkward between me and my best friend. god i like him so much and i wish i could let him know that but somehow i feel like ill get hurt again. its just i think he may feel something for me too but a while back when i told him how i felt it was not possible for him to like me. but now he can like me because he is over that situation he was in. and im not talking about another girl, im talking about him thinking he was attracted to guys. but hes made it clear that hes not anymore. hes strait. but yea the only problem is that he has always been afraid of commitment. and he wrote a poem about heartbreak and i think it was about me. its so sad.... but yea idk it seems like he really likes me too. but is he scared like me? help please and thank you. 14/ f btw.
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it sounds like your dream guy is scared. he's afraid of how you'll react, previously knowing he was attracted to guys. you need to tell him. now that he's out of his sitch, u 2 can be together. you just need to let him know it's ok. and rejection is all part of the biz. u lose some, they lose u, in any case, you'll be ok, just stay strong and give this guy a chance. just say it. walk with him to the park and say, i like you. think of how youn did it last time, and smooth over the rough spots.
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You need to put yourself out there. This guy is afraid of commitment? I don't think he's going to reveal his feeling for you, if he has anyway. He might though and you need to find out. You cant just sit around waiting for something that might never even happen. Because in the end, he will always be that What If... And you dont want to happen, do you? Well, I would tell him. If he doesnt feel the same way, make it clear you still want to be friends but atleast you know that you gave it a shot and it will be a lot easier to move on, knowing there's nothing there. So, tell him! And good luck :D
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