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i always say i love you first to my bf and when we're like hanging up the phone if i dont say it then neither will he. how can i get him to say it without actually telling him to? or does this mean that he doesnt love me because he doesnt want to say it?
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it sounds like your boyfriend is maybe a little shy but it depends how far you are in your relationship if you've only been going out maybe a month or so..and you were the first to say i love you he might feel obligated to say it back. I would talk to him and see how he feels and tell him that its something thats bothering you..hope i helped keep me updated <3
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I wouldn't say it's because he doesn't love you, it's more than likely that he's a little nervous/shy about telling you first. He may be afraid that you will not say it back, or he's so used to you saying it first -- he goes along with it that way. I would ask him about it, and see what he has to say. But I wouldn't take it as a terrible thing, as I mentioned, he may just be a little nervous or shy.
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first, you need to chill. ok? deep breath, and relax. Have you ever maybe he's just a bit scared to say it? When you say " i love you" your first time, you feel like you're giving something away, something you can't get back. saying it's like saying I'm committed to you, and only you. Just give him a bit of time. If he dosen't come around in a couple of weeks, or days, break up with him. He is probably to immature for a serious relationship.
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I had a bf that did the same thing. It makes you feel unwanted and unloved. What you need to do is talk to him privately. No interuptions. Nothing. Then talk to him about wether or not he loves you. If he can look you straight in the eyes and tell you he loves you, then it's real. If not, then it might be time to break it off because he can't be truthful enough to tell you how he feels. Afterwards, no matter how it turns out, make sure to get yourself a nice big chocolate bar, a couple of girlfriends, one night, and a movie marathon and just hang out with the girls for a little bit. It will make you feel so much better, and you'll learn the truth.
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He might be shy about saying it to you first, or thinks that since you usually say it first, then you'll do it. Just ask him why he doesn't say it to you when you don't.
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