My best friend fucked my brother when i asked her not to. Do i have a right to be mad at her? Or am i over reacting?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Mommys_Love355 answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 3:47 pm: You and your best friend will not always agree on everything. Sure you have the right to be upset with her because you did ask her not to, but think about it from her point of view, put yourself in her shoes for a second. Do you really think she did it to make you mad, or was she doing it because it's what she wanted, maybe she was just curious, And there is nothing better than satisfying your curiosity. I highly doubt if she wanted to hurt or upset you if your calling her your best friend. Sometimes people have to know for themselves, just hearing it from someone else is not enough.
Talk it out with your best friend. Tell her how you feel. Express your opinions in a positive manner. Arguing will not solve anything. Take your time to cool off and then approach your friend with the whole situation. Ask her why she still did it. Findout what was going through her mind.
NikkiM answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 12:44 pm: Course you have a right to be pissed..you did tell her no to! But what are the reasons that you didnt want her to sleep with him, i mean if ther not really that big then maybe you should think about how she feels. Imagine if you really liked someone but somebody else told you not to do anything with him, imagine how you would feel. Im not saying she did the right thing because i think she should have spoke to you first, all im saying is look at it from her point of view =] x x x [ NikkiM's advice column | Ask NikkiM A Question ]
keke77 answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 10:38 am: I would be mad too! Even thoe I don't Have a brother. She shoudn't have been in the same bed as her.Thats icky! [ keke77's advice column | Ask keke77 A Question ]
Elcee answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 9:38 am: If your friend is the same age as you, yes - it is against the law. You don't say how old your brother is but he should be made aware that he could be prosecuted if her parents should find out. If they are going to continue to sleep together then make sure that they are using contraceptives. You don't really have the right to tell your friend who she can and cannot sleep with even if it is your brother. However, if she did it out of spite does your brother realise she was just using him? [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
DandKitsLOVE01 answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 9:38 am: i don't have a brother but if i did i'd probably get mad too, so my answer is yes, espeacially if you told her not to!
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