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Does It Hurt?
Hi, I Am Female And 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and we are thinking about having sex in the next few months. Me and him are both virgins though. I am worried about how much it is going to hurt on my first time. I am quite shy sometimes and don't like showing I'm in pain. So the question is How much does it actually hurt? And How can i cover up the pain or reduce the pain? I desperatly need help with this. Please help. I am kind of scared about how much pain I may have to go through, but I just want to get it over and done with. So, How much pain? and How can I cover up the pain or reduce the pain? thanks xx
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i'm 16 years old also, and i recently had sex for the first time. the pain is not as bad as everyone makes it out to be. my vagina was very tight and i have a low tolerance of pain but i was fine with it. to explain the way it feels--stretching a sore muscle. go in with that attitude and just stay strong. the pain is completely bearable and you'll be so preoccupied that you won't even be worried about it! good luck!
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It doesn't really seem like you want to have sex in the first place. I think it's perfectly ok to be a virgin. Plus, 16 is still kind of young to be having sex. Maybe when you're a bit older and more experienced with your relationships you won't be so nervous. In the meanwhile, try to gain as much knowledge as you can about sex. This might make you feel more secure.
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ok the pain isn't that bad if your not thinking about the pain and don't worrie bout covering it up because its going to hurt and when something hurts you always have a reaction to it the pain isn't as bad as everyone says it is
hope i helped
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Well, I think the pain really varies for everyone. You can't estimate the amount of pain...because nobody knows how you are down there. Of course, the first time does hurt. Because if you are "tight" down there, the penetration process will break through the hymen tissue in your vagina. The pain is different for different people. I remember asking my friends about it, and they said it doesn't hurt. But for some, it does.
Now about reducing the pain...You can always try masturbating and getting yourself "less tighter" down there. Preparing...you know? You can also tell your boyfriend to go slow with you the first time, so it won't be too painful the first time. Just squint your eyes or bite your tongue, or grind your teeth or something. =/
I really hope I helped. And the best of luck to you..
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i did it my first time at 14, and now im 16. it didn't hurt that much, not anough to cry at all. i thought it was going to hurt so bad, but you could use lube, which you could get almost anywhere by the condom section. it makes his penis go in easier and its less painful. i think the pain depends on the person and theres not much to do about the pain. i never masterbated or anything before i had sex and it didnt even hurt. if you use tampons then that is another thing that might help out the pain because your vagina is used to having something coming in and out. i regret having sex, wait for the right person that you'll be with forever. thats my best advice!
k'laa
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well it all depends on how big your boyfriend is.
of course it's going to hurt. but the pain may
vary. sometimes it hurts a little and sometimes
it hurts more. you wont know until it happens.
make sure you talk to your boyfriend about it.
hope i helped
-anjelica<3.
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