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what age do you start getting one???? what do they do to it and does your parent have to be in the room or will they talk to them about it??
thanks
usually you get one after the first time you had sex, or when you get your period. they just look and feel pretty much, you can have your parents in the room, or if you feel more comfortable with a close friend or just by yourself. i think they usually ask you before they say anything in front of you parents.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
would a guy be completely grossed out and turned off if he's hooking up with someone, and when he goes to finger her, she's super wet? haha is that normal? mmk thanks so much :]
it's totally normal, immature guys might be, but the more mature ones will be happy that he makes you get that way, you know what i'm saying?
hope i helped.
- anjelica
when you have sex & use a condom. is there any chance of being pregnant?
condoms are good always. but there is always a chance no matter what. not saying you are going to but if you want to continue to have sex or whatever i'd go on birth control.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
how can i get the 'abortion pill'. and do i need a parent with me and do they have to know. because i wanna keep this a secret. && how do they work ?
there is no such thing as an "abortion pill" there is something called PLAN B or the "morning after pill" it's a pill that you take after 72 hrs of unprotected sex. if you have a local teen clinic then yeah it can be kept a secret. but if not it's a little harder to be kept a secret.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
whats a good type of birth control?
im on the patch it's called ortha evra. it makes you gain a little weight. but you only have to change it once a weeek. it's easy .
hope i helped.
-anjelica
So me and my boyfriend had sex about last monday. It was protected at first but the condom broke and he took it off and then we had unprotected sex. He pulled out and we stopped having sex. He swears to god he didn't cum inside me. He said he's the kinda guy where he cum's all at once and he didn't do that inside of me. So we just begin to touch eachother and ne then cum's all at once.
It's been a week or so and I should've started my period by now. I have been getting signs that I normaly get before I start my period but, I have been so stressed and worried lately because my periods a couple days late.
I am getting brown discharge and sometimes it's clearish light brown. I have no symptoms of being pregnant.I've gone to a lot of sites and looked at the symptoms and I have none of them but I'm still stressed and freaking out about it.
worrying is a major distraction when it comes to figuring why your period is late or whatever the case may be. everyone has told you about the pre cum thing already so i don't need to explain it again :D. but yeah always be protected no matter how much you want to do it right then & there. i know its hard when you're in the mood but no matter what use protection hun.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
if i made a dildo out of clay(im underage, crafty and horny), so if i made one out of clay would that be safe to use?
i deffinatly wouldn't recommend it. the best thing to do is just go to a store that sells them n pick one up. it might be a little embarrassing but hey every girl buys on at least once in there life. ;].
hope i helped.
-anjelica
Was it bad for me to ask my boyfriend to get condoms? So that he could try them on. He said he knows how to do it but he never tried.. So I made him buy some to practice putting on so he doesn't rip it or anything.
It seems a little weird.
Can the condom tear when you put it on?
no, not at all was it bad for you to ask. you just wanted to be safe rather than sorry :]. but yeah a condom can break at any point. even by just sliding it on. you have to remember that condoms are made up of latex. so it's very thin - n very easy to break.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
this is very embarrassing, but my boyfriend often teases me about having hair around my butt hole. is this normal? I'm a 17 year old girl and i was wondering if its normal or not. its not very hairy at all but there is a tiny amount of hair around it.. is that weird?
your entire body is full of hair. noticeable or not. but for your boyfriend to laugh or tease you about it is very immature, n obv. he has alot more hair then you do. yeah he might say its "normal" for him to but hey it's normal for us girls too :p. i wouldn't worry about it to much hun.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
ok this is quite worrying, some may find this humorous. i have a lump on the shaft of my penis...it's purple and is long, about 1cm its doesn;t hurt and is soft, it can be seen when the foreskin is pulled back, any idea what it is? im too embarrased to go to the doctor.
And can you get cancer on the shaft of the penis??
None of us on here are doctors :p. haha no i'm just joking but yeah you definitely should go get that checked out, yeah you might be embarrassed but it could get alot worse. n if it's something important than you would want to take care of it a/sap.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
okay i wanna masturabate so bad.
and i have been looking up the were to do it and stuff.
but i cant find it. i know you have to like stick your fingers up your vagina i think
but whenever i do that it hurts
help i need to know EXACTLY where it is and how to do it with out hurting
Maybe if you don't know what you're doing then you shouldn't be doing it. i'm not saying that you're not ready for it. but if you don't know where it's at to begin then maybe you haven't discovered the way your body is yet. don't worry there isn't any hurry. take your time to show you're own body what's good ;].
hope i helped.
-anjelica
well last night i spent the night at my boyfriends house because his parents were out of town . we had sex like 5 times all night . but everytime he cummed , he pulled away &nd we stopped for a few minutes . one time there was a little bit of cum next to my vagina &nd i think may just A LITTLE tiny bit might of actually touched my vagina , but if any did at all , it wasnt alot . could i possibly get pregnant for just a little bit touching ? &nd i woke up this mornign &nd my stomach has been hurting ever since &nd i even felt like i was gonna throw up a couple times today . does that mean anything ? its jsut the next day , that doesnt mean anything about what happened last night right ?
as much as you don't want to hear this, there is a chance you could be pregnant. i know that he pulled out or whatever, but that doesn't mean anything. the best advice i can give you is go to the local teen clinic or talk to a trust adult n get Plan B. "the morning after pill" the pill will help but you can't take it after 72 hours afterwards. so if you decide to take my advice - i'd get the pill a/sap. either by the end of today or early tommorow.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
15/f
hey!
i'm trying to plan something for me & my boyfriend of 6 months to do on our "anniversary"
i'm completely out of ideas! going to a movie theater is out because my parents don't trust me with him at a movie theater by ourselves (haha) so any ideas would be appreciated!!
yeah maybe it would be nice to share a one on one dinner date? or have a picnic with candles n watch the stars? or you can go to a local blockbuster or movie store n rent one n have a night in with eachtother? it doesn't really matter what you guys do. he should be happy that you put up with his butt for 6 months :].
hope i helped.
-anjelica
Just wondering when can you take a pregnancy test?
any time you'd like. the best time to take it is 4-5 days after you have unprotected sex.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
is it true that if you're asian that means that u have a small penis?
NO hun, That's just a joke people have made about Asian men. :]. No matter what race you are or any of your physical characteristics, that doesn't prove or show how big you are what so ever.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
what does it mean to 'pop your cherry'.
i know it has to deal with blood and private.
well it's pretty much a capsule of blood in your vagina. it usually gets popped from having sex for your first time. but also it can be popped by riding a bike - horse back riding - tampons. ect. Some girls don't get theres popped, it's really no big deal.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
there's this boy, whom I like alot- i'm going to call him jake. well today he came over, when my parent's weren't here, we didn't go outside but we were sitting on the bench& we started making out then he was leaving at ten, so I looked at my phone I was like twenty more minutes, then it started to get serious, like we would be kissing& for a few times he did would run his hand up my back& I was like if he tries to go under my bra or near my "private" area, i'm going to stop him, so he goes over my bra, like he was feeling them, just kinda touching? it wasn't bad& it was only for a few minutes. then we were kissing again& he stuck his hands down the back of my pants touching my butt, he would do that, then bring it out& then do that again, then he took his hand& he was playing w/ my "private" part's, like my panties were still in the way but he was playing with them over my panties& at the time I didn't care, I was like he still isn't in them, blah blah blah. & now that I think of it I feel horrible, weren't even dating& I let him do that, I feel so sick, like to my stomach& I feel like a whore, I already took a shower, he's the only guy I have done anything like this with, i've only even made out w/ one guy ever then him,& i'm fourteen, do you think i'm a whore?
not at all. you're no where near a whore. you should never think about putting your self in any kinda category, most girls your age have many different sexual problems. you're young & you're trying new things. what's wrong with that?. but i do have to agree if you feel uncomfortable at any point in either your sexual life or your regular life. don't be afraid to say something.. good luck hun.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
Okay so I finally had enough couarge to give ma boyfriend a handjob...now every time we make out he expects me to give him a handjob..itx not dat I mind its jus I like doing other sexual stuff dat feels good for both of us..nd o yea we r both virgins but we did everything but have sex
yeah i'd deffinatly talk to my boyfriend. or i would just do what the person below me said. just move his hand where you want it to go ;]. n if he doesn't get the hint. then try again :p. n if not that time then i'd be like well. .
hope i helped.
-anjelica
ok this is kinda hard to talk about but i was at my friends house the other day and her brother kept like touching me and stuff like not in private areas or anything but yeha so we had to help her brother clean his room and i was sitting on hte floor and i got up and like this sounds really weird btu like he started humping me like a joke or something and he kissed me on the cheak and stuff and he's like a year younger than me and i dont know maybe this is stupid but i keep thinking about it and not like i like him i just didnt really like that and like i keep getting this feeling i cant even describe it it's like i'm really scared or something and yeha i just wanted to know why i keep feeling like this and i really dont like her brother he always pushes me around at her house and stuff and well yeah again this my be stupid but i just want this feeling to go away please help thanks in advance
that is sexual harassment. you should either tell your friend or say something to her brother. if it is making you feel unsafe or uncomfortable then maybe its not a situation you can just put a side you need to do something about it. if your friend isn't understanding about it then i would just be like look i came to you instead of the cops. n i would really appreciate you helping me if that doesn't work & it gets worse maybe you should go to the cops.
hope i helped.
-anjelica
i've always heard that masturbation was ok to do, but how do you know if your even doing it right? i mean it seems that it doesn't even last long for me..so why do it? because it feels good?
masturbation is completely normal. everyone i mean everyone does it. it's healthy, easy, n safe.
the kid that wrote under me, is right, you can't contract an std from your hand. & there really is no way to wrongfully masturbate. if it feels good you're doing good