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i cant masturbate
okay i wanna masturabate so bad.
and i have been looking up the were to do it and stuff.
but i cant find it. i know you have to like stick your fingers up your vagina i think
but whenever i do that it hurts
help i need to know EXACTLY where it is and how to do it with out hurting
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Explore basically.
You need to know about the female anatomy and know where you are touching exactly . So look at some pictures online, those diagrams. You may not look exactly like that, so that's why you need to take some time to explore with your hands and to know where everything is.
Since you haven't done it before, it's going to hurt. So you only need to use one finger for now. You need to be "wet" or "turned on" for this to work.. because if you're trying to stick fingers up there while you are dry.. it's going to hurt. It's going to take some time for you stretch out and to feel used to it. You may not even get any pleasure from this.. Everyone is different when it comes to this. Some girls do feel something while others need to stimulate themselves.
Usually, if you find your clitoris.. you'll be able to have fun while masturbating.
Continue to look up where to do it and stuff. that really helped me.
I would say more but I don't know if it's appropriate for this site :[
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Maybe if you don't know what you're doing then you shouldn't be doing it. i'm not saying that you're not ready for it. but if you don't know where it's at to begin then maybe you haven't discovered the way your body is yet. don't worry there isn't any hurry. take your time to show you're own body what's good ;].
hope i helped.
-anjelica <3.
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if you dont know how to masterbate then you really shouldnt be cause you probly arrent really ready for it yet
masterbating doesnt just mean fingering yourself. try this link it will help you
www.solotouch.com
it tells you some techniques and storys
--ashley
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