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hello! im ashley! im in jr.high and im a understanding gal, willing to help anyone with advice
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I need a second opinion about this situation I am having. If you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or it doesn’t matter if you are straight. I would gladly tell you my problem (it’s a bit long.) Send me a reply and I will send u my question. thank you.

f/20/Bi

sure thing i would love to help i myself are bi.
--ashley

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what does "___ makes the world go round" mean

its kinda like nobody can live without it.

like...smiles

smiles make the world go round.

everyone loves to smile, and nobody would be happy with smileing. =]

or chocolate lol
--ashley

it just means pretty much you love it and cant go without it.

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I know this isn't really asking for advice, but the last few days I was just thinking about this and wondering why the people here joined.

I guess it is just out of pure curiosity. I would have just posted this in the moderator forum or in the supporter discussion, but I'd rather see why everyone joined rather than just those who have been here for some time and such.

So, why did you join advicenators and why are you still here? What about the site made you want to stay?

I'll probably be one of the first people to answer this (I'm not going to answer it in the question).

S_C

:]

well i love giving advice so i was searching on google for sights like this one and found advicenators.

i really liked it and enjoyed getting//giveing advice.

im still here cause this sight is pretty much awesome you can get advice, give advice, ask questions, chat, make a profile its just fun. =] and also you get multible ansers so you can compare.

people on here are nice and honest.
=] glad to answer this
--ashley

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what are some GOOD christian rock bands? like, relient k, thousand foot krutch, superchick, and such.

thanks in advance

heyy theres a band called
skillet
and there like christan hard rock. it has christan messages without really accualt makeing it obveous ya know? like hidden meesages you can say.

there really good

http://youtube.com/watch?v=wgiJkrAL9K4

http://youtube.com/watch?v=11YgJgTnJbo&mode=related&search=


those are my 2 fav. songs by them =]
--ashley

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i want a nickname really bad, my friends just call me ashlee or ash and thats kinda boring, i like something like coco or kiki. i want something cute and maybe in a different language! something short and sweet and easy to remember but creative. im short and funny, i love to laugh and im very talkative. i dont want anything stupid, just can anyone give me ideas thankss

heyy my name is ashley too and freinds call me smashley [[smash-ley]]

lol i dont remeber how it started lol

try that
or
jinx
bunnie
lee
dottie
sunna
sunny
pop tart lol
sparkles

lol those are all nicknames i got in the past
[[all random i know]]
=]
--ashley

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I can't seem to find any pictures of this online, and please don't ask me to look in a magazine because I'm not in reach of one currently, nor can I get one.

Anyways I'm looking for an asymmetrical hair cut, but a specific one. Where like in the back it's short and then it slopes longer in the front.

Like this

http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A0Je5mWdibNGiNUAGiCjzbkF/SIG=136jog97r/EXP=1186257693/**http%3A//fametastic.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2006/09/victoria_beckham_short_hair.jpg

but longer.

I want a long version of it, is it possible? Like where the longest ends of my hair go below my shoulders.

i have the same exact hair cut so ill give you some piks of me =] and others too.

if you give me yor username i will send you piks tomarow but my camra is with my freind.

but heres some others...

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/cutescenegirl2.jpg

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/emohair.jpg

http://i59.photobucket.com/albums/g295/bx_mami_chula89/hair/b1cc95d3.jpg

hope this helped
--ashley

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yeah, ive got this humongo zit on my chin. school starts friday. how can i get it to go away by then? HELP! i already poped it and everything, and put clerasil on it a few times a day. HELP ME!

ICE will help reduce color and size
cover up
toothpaste
alchol

VLSINE EYEDROPS =] really!

try certain zit creams like
"Zap zit!"
works really well
can get at cvs

moutrizer on face!
=]
--ashley

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heyy, you know in the song lean like a chollo??
what is a chollo?
i looked it up in the dic.
andd googled it.
but i havee no cluee?

Mexican Gangsterr

=]
--ashleyxox

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whenever i go to the bathroom it hurt my lower stomach and is really uncomfortable for awhile after that. and i know this is gross, but my pee is cloudy and has a weird smell to it. if i drink alot of water it helps. I have had sex before but i know that the person i had sex with doesn't have an STD. What could be wrong?

please update your question and tell us weather your male of female.

That really doesnt sound normal!
the only thing we can tell you on here is to get it checked out at the docter, as imbarrcing it might be docters deal with that stuff alot so its not a big deal.

Were not docters [[well most of us arrent]]
so its hard to help.
it might be a blatter infection?

my advice untill yo go to the docter is, nevver hold it when you gotta go you gotta go. drink lots of water [[if it helps you said]]
try to not drink cofee, achol, strong things cut down on your soda, for this can irratate it even more.

go sign up for an appoitment with you docter.
and i wish you the best of luck.

check out some of these websites as well.
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/8/T080800.asp

http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/women/gen-health/190.html

Possible signs of a bladder infection
A burning sensation when you urinate
Feeling like you need to urinate more often than usual
Feeling the urge to urinate but not being able to
Leaking a little urine
Urine that smells bad
Cloudy, dark or bloody urine

hope this all helps!
--ashley


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what does it mean when you "wear your heart on your sleeve" ?

thanks !

It means you dont hide your feelings. like you make them obveous and everyone arround you can tell what your emotions are.
--ashley

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14/f. i am going to be a freshman this year, my first year at highschool and i am really scared about it becuase i've heard it is so much different than middle school. I am very bad at saying comebacks to people who are mean to me and i just kind of sit there feeling awkward when they are staying all this stuff. i know all that is going to get worse when i get to highschool so how do i learn what to seay to people that say stuff to me? thanks!

You dont really need a comback.

if they say something like "aww look at the lil freashmann!" just do a lil cutee pose and smile.

cause the older grades bugg on freshman, so just be proud of you fialnly in high.
--ashley

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omg does this woman ever smile? got any pics of this?

hah everyone smiles dear =]

http://www.techlogs.net/wp-content/uploads/2006/06/Victoria-Beckham.jpg

http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/40029000/jpg/_40029491_vic203.jpg

http://www.luxist.com/media/2006/05/beckhams.jpg

http://www.popworld.com/images/library/lilyallen1_178.jpg

i would find more but i think you get the idea hah
that took me 2 min on google.

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what do you mean by don't use any chemicals? just hair dye? or does that include like, hairspray, gel, etc.

no you can use hairspray, gel and moose etc. as long as you wash it out that night.

try not to use hurtful chemals to your hair like perming, getting it pro strighned (useing chemicals) dyeing it, getting it relaxed stuff like that that involes putting harmfull chemicals in your hair while your trying to grow it out.

also try avioding useing flat irons, and a curler for your hair for a while.
like i said beofre eat haelthy...

also make sure you get shampoos that have alot of vitamins for your hair. watch out for certain shampoos cause they take out your natural oils in your hair. ask your haircutter for certan sampoos that are healthy and recomended.

your hair needs to be well hydrated too. [[thats why you should stay away from flat irons and curlers cause they fry your hair]]

get your hair trimed every month to trim the dead ends.

dont over wash it.

thats all pretty much!!
and dont brush your hair when wet, use a wide toothed comb. so it wont damage your hair. then brush your hair when dry.
good lcuk!
--ashley

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http://www.wetseal.com/productDetail.asp?mi=1300&style=38384578&size=M,913&color=549&added=true&token=dJbSlZB0iq6G1iCv8TxUjZpQH4SRf8fn72fO%2Fsrgcx1OYbFn9IN5Qskscw%3D%3D

^So basically, I love that.
And I was wondering how I could wear it to school without making it look too fancy?
Maybe like a thing white zipper jacket? or something...
itd look weird with jeans right? I'm not sure how long it is...

thats cutte
and no jeans under it wont look wierd, as long as the jeans look good with the dress.

try jeans under it and a casual (yet doesnt clash) cute jacket, but it will be hard to make a jecket work with that. =]

or who cares if you dress a lil fancey once and a while. you can just wear the dress =] its cutteee and theres nothing rong with dressing a lil dressey!
--ashley

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ok this is kind of embarrasing, but is there any way to make your breasts larger? like anything you can do at home without buying any products specifically for that? i dont know if this is needed but im 15/f

as long as you are eating healty then theres no way to make them bigger
dont worry youll grow i have the same worrys too.
just eat healthy and try not wearing cuped or padded bras all the time it doesnt give your breats room to breathe (if that makes scence)
and they can get uncomfrable.

try wearing push up bras sometimes they make your breats look bigger.
i dont know what else to tell ya hun
--ashley

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okay i wanna masturabate so bad.
and i have been looking up the were to do it and stuff.

but i cant find it. i know you have to like stick your fingers up your vagina i think
but whenever i do that it hurts

help i need to know EXACTLY where it is and how to do it with out hurting

if you dont know how to masterbate then you really shouldnt be cause you probly arrent really ready for it yet

masterbating doesnt just mean fingering yourself. try this link it will help you
www.solotouch.com

it tells you some techniques and storys
--ashley

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ok, so i got a not-so-snazzy haircut that is kind of short and i don't like it at all. i want to grow it out again desperately, so i was doing some research and it said that high-protein foods will make it grow faster by a little bit. what are some healthy, high-protein foods besides protein bars?

well if you eat healthy and are healthy youll hair will grow an avaerage of 1 inch a month.
eat alot or fruits, veggies, and get nutreats from meat.

try if you can to take vitaimin pills, like 1 a day womens. =]
or theres pills out there for faster hair growth but i dont recomend those cause you never know whats inside them.

goodluck!
--ashley
(and make sure your not over washing your hair which can damage it, wash your hair everyother day not everyday. and try not to blowdry, straigten, curl, or use any chemials in your hair (which incluses dyeing) for a while!)

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well im 13 and ive had a boyfriend for like a month.
weve been like bestfriends for like 2 years so its nice and everything.
but weve only pecked 2 times, well weve only seen eachother 2 times sicne weve been going out.
but like i might go to my friends house with her boyfriend and me and my boyfriend, like we'd probably make out.
and ihavent before, so like any tips on what i should do like you know.
and is it weird for me to make the first move and if its not how do i do it.

thankss in advanced.

trust me, once it happens it will all be a bliss, and youll know how by instint. trust me!! =]

if he leans to kiss you then open your mouth a little bit once he has pecked you. but first let him kiss you, then gently useing your tounge make out with him.
youll get more experienced over time.
or if you want to make the first move, then lean in to kiss him and then slowly open your mouth a little bit (he will most likely do the same) and if his lips are still closed then kinda lick his lips a lil, then hell get the idea.

dont wrry bout it!
--ashley

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ok,they say the best advisors before going on a date are girls so i was wondering what to do on this particular date.First off,I need some tips on my appearance.I'm not saying i should transform or anything,but do you girls have any tips on how to give a better image.anyway,i'm 17,hawaiian/asian and here's the link

http://www.friendster.com/user.php?statpos=bc&uid=47042234

the pic with my black hair is the latest,so yeah...i'm free to any suggestions,either cutting my hair or other stuff.

p.s:I know every liking is individual so i'm not asking for a perfect image,just makeover tips for this date.thanks

1st off dont let the grl below me change your looks,
your hiar if super cutee, and i luv lip piercings are hot too. get you fohalk (or what eva there called) trimmed a little bit.

but your really cutee
--ashley

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I need some hairstyles that I can use that dont invole me putting my hair down!
I have side bangs, so I would be sooo thankfull if you would tell me some good hairstyles, or send me pictures!!!!!!!

this is a pik of me i have sidebangs and loose pigtales are super cute! =]

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/untitled-1.jpg

the pickture is blurey but thats just cause i was messing arround with special effects on ifranview. =P
hope this helped
--ashley
xox

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