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Member Since: July 20, 2007
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Last Update: September 15, 2007
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hey i was wondering how do i stop getting messages to approve comments on my myspace? (link)
Go to 'Account Settings' then to 'Spam' then uncheck the box that says 'Require approval before comments are posted' in the comments section then save all changes.


ok last night i had to this nightmare that totaly freaked me out it scared me alot and it was really weird and i dont know why it scared me but it did and i was crying my eyes out in the whole dream basically it started out me my mom my dad and my sister who is only a year and two days older then me were driving through somwhere like taco bell or something then for some reason my parents got out of the car and went inside then my sister got in the driver seat and floored it starting to drive and crashes into another car killing the person in front of us then looks back and me grins at me and started laughing and i have no clue why that scared me so much but it did like maybe i wasnt even scared but i was crying in the whole dream does anyone know what this nightmare meant or anything or maybe why it scared me so much i know it sounds really weird or something but yeah (link)
Maybe you feel like your sister is trying to override your interests.

Or maybe your sister represents you and what is going to happen to you. Your mother represents nurturing and your father represents morals. Maybe you are afraid of growing up. Maybe you are afraid of when you have to fend for yourself you will crash and burn.


14/f and I've never kissed a boy on the lips before. I've heard that you can practice against your hand or a wall or something, so I practiced once and a question came to mind, when you're kissing... are you supposed to be breathing?? if so, then through your nose or mouth?? how exactly do you breath when your kissing, cause i don't wanna stop every 4 seconds taking a breath, or breathing through my nose and having air being blowed on his skin. so could someone explain all of this to me??

also maybe any other helpful first time kissing tips and stories??

please no links! thank you! (link)
I think a better way to practice kissing would be practicing on someone like your best friend. They wouldn't judge and maybe it will make you feel less nervous. I sort of did that and it helped.


i want to put the song "the places you have come to fear the most" by dashboard confessional on my myspace, but its not on myspace.
i tryed making my own artist page, and everytime i try to download the song that i saved from my itunes, it says that the file wasn't an mp3 file. how do i get that? or if anyone can put that song on myspace thad be soooooooo great!! thanks! (link)
You can create a playlist using www.projectplaylist.com and add the song and post the html coding on it gives you onto your myspace. I know that particular websight has that song.


I need songs about feeling like you've given so much to someone, that there's nothing left to give. Or, you give so much to someone, yet they don't seem to notice! Thank you! (link)
Heart on my Sleeve- The Cruxshadows


well my friend,lets call her sam, had told me that she was anorexic after i kept asking her why she wouldn't eat. (This was like during the last 2 months of school.) Then surprisingly she kept being that way and if she ate she would purge.
She now has a confidence about it and scince all my other friends where gone (i only have 4 3 whr gone) she would actually take food away from me saying i was FAT and that i should be like her. At lunch i would go get food and sit down and the second i would look away she'd take my food and go throw it away!

so i had to start sneaking food in during class. I was practicly starving and was getting tierd really easly in sports. It sucked. Then she goes up to my coach and said that I(me) quit! i didn't even want to quit!!!!!

Well my question is how do i get her to stop? she just won't stop! even in the summer she finds ways to keep me from eating.(my parents are often gone so she comes over,i don't want her to but i am just to gullable i guess)
HELP ME!!!!! (link)
Well you have to stand up to her. You have to get the message clear that she is the one that is unhealthy and you don't want it to be you. You can't let her walk all over you. Not eating is very unhealthy. She will probably malnutrition. Her body is going to suffer. Her digestive system will slow down, she might lose hair, she won't be able to handle normal activity and her body might not be able to handle normal food. She is still growing she needs her nutrition. It could have permanent effects. She may have to suffer the conquiences but you can't let that happen to you. You got to be as mean as possible when you approach her. You have to point out every insecurity she may have. You have to show confidence. Tell her you don't want to look like a bald twig that has to throw up every meal and faints doing the smallest activities and ends up in the hospital monthly. You should tell her that you are proud of your body and sorry she has a problem with it. But you have to approach her about it.


okay. 15/f. is it normal for a 15 year old teenage girl to fantasize about having sex with women? because whenever I think about a man and a woman having sex, I get grossed out. But the other way around (people of my own gender) I'm fine with that. does that necessarily mean that I am a lesbian?? Or do all teens go through this 'stage'?

0.o? (link)
Well you may be grossed out by that now but you haven't experianced it yet. You just have to give it time. You may find yourself wanting it later. You just have to be patient and do a little experimenting. If you find yourself having feelings for a specific girl then you should go for it. Just don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to. You can't search for love it finds you. You just have to open minded and not restrain yourself to a label.




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