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I'm sexually confused o.0
okay. 15/f. is it normal for a 15 year old teenage girl to fantasize about having sex with women? because whenever I think about a man and a woman having sex, I get grossed out. But the other way around (people of my own gender) I'm fine with that. does that necessarily mean that I am a lesbian?? Or do all teens go through this 'stage'?
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Youre 15 years old.
In all probability you dont know exactly what you like yet. And even when you figure it out, its subject to change as you get older.
Stop worrying about it so much.
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it does not make you lesbian or bisexual unless you like girls, and that is not a bad thing. you will know if you are or not.
also, most teens DO go through that. most have 'homosexual feelings'.
heehee, i read my friends book about growing up. lol.
but when you start becoming sexualy active with guys, you most likely will not find it disturbing anymore.
its perfectly normal.
hope i helped.
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just because you think about it, it doesn't mean that you're necessarily a lesbian or bisexual.
i think everyone goes threw a stage like this-
hope i helped.
-anjelica <3.
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Well you may be grossed out by that now but you haven't experianced it yet. You just have to give it time. You may find yourself wanting it later. You just have to be patient and do a little experimenting. If you find yourself having feelings for a specific girl then you should go for it. Just don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to. You can't search for love it finds you. You just have to open minded and not restrain yourself to a label.
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Everyone gets curious, no worries. It doesn't necessarily mean that you're a lesbian, or even bi. You could just be going through a stage.
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Well I am sure that all girls who grow up to become lesbians, must go through a time where they fantasize about having relations with other girls/women. Why not, boys fantasize about having sexual relations with women. I guess we fantasize about who (male or female) we are most attracted to. I say, if it is only in your mind, just go ahead and fantasize. How else can you be sure. It may take time, but you don't HAVE to decide now. Eventually you will be doing some experimenting. It's how we all find out what our sexual orientation is. there is not way to avoid it. Just put it off until you feel more comfortable, or more willing to experiment.
I hope you understand what I am getting at.
Bottom line, you can't change what "grosses you out". So perhaps you will grow up to be a dedicated lesbian. Nothing wrong with that.
Later, once you are sure, and have questions about letting your family or friends know, then write again. We'll give you lots of advice and support. Good luck to you
Michele
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