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ok dont really knwo where to put this but PLEASE HELP
ok this is kinda hard to talk about but i was at my friends house the other day and her brother kept like touching me and stuff like not in private areas or anything but yeha so we had to help her brother clean his room and i was sitting on hte floor and i got up and like this sounds really weird btu like he started humping me like a joke or something and he kissed me on the cheak and stuff and he's like a year younger than me and i dont know maybe this is stupid but i keep thinking about it and not like i like him i just didnt really like that and like i keep getting this feeling i cant even describe it it's like i'm really scared or something and yeha i just wanted to know why i keep feeling like this and i really dont like her brother he always pushes me around at her house and stuff and well yeah again this my be stupid but i just want this feeling to go away please help thanks in advance
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First of all, this is wrong. Young guys going through changes and suddenly feeling 'urges' and being totally CLUELESS about what to do about it, sometimes end up trying stuff like this. But their urges and their ignorance are no EXCUSE. And it only makes them look like some kind of animal.
They need to get a grip, and need someone to put them in their place. I wish I was that boy's mother, I'd tell him a thing or two.
But unfortunately, he's probably not the only one you will encounter who might try putting some kind of move on you.
So You will have to learn to keep an eye out for this stuff and how to stand up for yourself. When it happens at first, you are usually so shocked and confused that you don't know what to do.
So be prepared in case something like this (heaven forbid) does ever happen again. Learn To say no, stay away, tell someone, don't hang around them.....however you choose to deal with it. But don't let them get away with this horrible behavior. Even if you a guy, he still has no right to touch you in any way without your permission.
Always remember that!!!!
Nobody had that right. That probably doesn't help much with this particular situation, but knowing this and being prepared might help to prevent it from happening again.
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that is sexual harassment. you should either tell your friend or say something to her brother. if it is making you feel unsafe or uncomfortable then maybe its not a situation you can just put a side you need to do something about it. if your friend isn't understanding about it then i would just be like look i came to you instead of the cops. n i would really appreciate you helping me if that doesn't work & it gets worse maybe you should go to the cops.
hope i helped.
-anjelica <3.
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Dude that is sexual harrassment. He entered your personal space without your permission and therefore you feel uncomfortable. Do not be embarassed for yourself. What he did was not welcome. You did not do anything wrong. You should tell your friend if possible or at least your parents or her parents about what happens. Please. Do not let this go unnoticed. He may do this to other people and they just don't speak out. Remember, it's not your fault.
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