I kind of cheated on my bf with my ex. I told him about it and everything..we're kind of okay right now but he wants me to write an essay about it. He wants to know how it happened, why it happened, what exactly happened, etc. I don't know how to write this stupid thing for him..does anyone have any help for me?
i0hex0i answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 9:17 pm: ok i must agree with what the person said about it is stupid to write an essay and yes it easy easyer to write down how you feel but personally i feel that things are ALOT more meaningful when they are said and heard verbaly and not just wrote down on a peice of paper so just try to remember everything that happend and tell him face to face and tell him why you want to still be with him and are sorry for doing it. hope i helped [ i0hex0i's advice column | Ask i0hex0i A Question ]
lilstef1992 answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 8:28 pm: you should right down every event that happened that you remember. (on a seperate piece of paper.)
then number them in the order in which they happened and then right everything down in essay form. and if you have too, elaborate on certain parts of it.
schlichtinator answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 8:23 pm: He's probably very, very angry, and doesn't want to hear you say exactly what happened. Psychologically, it's easier to be more open and more receptive of things when reading and writing them than it is to do so in person.
Don't think of it as an essay. Think of it as a chance to tell him every reason why you still want to be with him. If he means something to you this is the perfect chance to let him know why. [ schlichtinator's advice column | Ask schlichtinator A Question ]
jamziix16 answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 8:18 pm: You shouldn't have to write him an essay. Is he your history teacher? No. Just tell him what happened instead of writing it. That's just stupid to make you write an essay, what is that gonna do? Just talk to him about it. It's better to talk in person anyway. [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
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