i had sex for the first time last week, and then again this past saturday... after the first time, i was fine and just a little sore for a couple of hours.. however after the second time on saturday, things were a little harder to cope with. i was sore the entire next day and for some reason i kept feeling like i had to pee, but couldn't. and when i actually was able to, it hurt to pee. nothing that physically different happened the second time i had sex, what makes this after-effect so different from the first time? and why is it effecting my urinary system?
Razhie answered Monday June 11 2007, 8:54 pm: You'll need to see a doctor.
It sounds like you have a urinary tract infection, they are random, and can happen at anytime, but do tend to be more frequent in sexually active women.
They are relatively harmless at first, but if left untreated they can cause you to become dehydrated and develop kidney problems. They also hurt a hell of a lot.
So see a doctor. You could just tell your parents it hurts when you pee, if you aren't comfortable telling them the whole thing. That sort of thing does just happen.
It could of course be something else, I can't be sure, but I would bet it's just a UTI. But Tell your doctor the truth about what you were doing regardless. (ALWAYS, tell a doctor the truth!) If it's a UTI you'll be given some pills and that will be that.
In the future rinse yourself off and try to go pee after you have sex to flush out any bacteria that might get in there. That will help you avoid these. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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