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hmmm.
me and my ex had been talking a lot and when we dated we never had sex. he never made moves, and im to shy too.
well he came straight out and asked me to have sex with him. and i said i would. and i know its probably not smart because ill just like him more, but i was kind of anticipating it.
and he went from sayin he wanted to do it, making a night we were goina hang out, to blowing me off. he apologized and everything. but now its been almost two weeks since he's even talked to me.
why would a guy who has a free opportunity to get laid with no strings attached, just STOP talking to the person offering ? that's like against guy ethics .. im not good enough to date, and now im not even good enough to hook up with. kind of makes you feel bad for yourself in a way i guess ..
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First off, kick everyone out of your house. The pity party is over.
Although girls have been taught from the womb that guys are just pigs that are only after one thing, that just isn't true. If you go around thinking that all guys are pigs, you're never going to find your monkey.
Okay, there are in fact some pigs out there, but they're not all from the barnyard.
Guys do have morals. Your ex may have just had the revelation that he doesn't just want to take advantage of someone that he once, and probably still does, care for.
Maybe this guy actually wants an emotional relationship instead of just a physical one. He had this with you before, and since it didn't work out for unknown reasons, maybe he thinks it's risky to come back to you.
Or, maybe your ex is one of those few pigs still running loose out there and is just playing you.
He could also just like the thrill of the chase. And once the chase is over, i.e. you saying you will have sex with him, he's done. If this is the case, he is just a player and you are not a pawn on a chess set.
You should absolutely not feel bad about yourself. You should actually feel angry because of your ex's hot and cold routine. If a guy only wants to hook up with you, he's not worthy of your body or your mind anyway. So look for someone that wants your mind first.
Don't worry, you'll find your monkey.
Hope I've provided some words of wisdom.
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It could be a number of things.
1)He decided that it was a bad decision and he doesn't want to go through with it anymore.
2)He was just leading you on.
3)He's been busy.
4)He's interested in someone else.
5)He feels like an ass for coming out and asking you for sex.
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