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I have this friend shes a rly good friend to me. She HAD a boyfrined for a year and then she broke up with him. Well i was frineds with him and we still are and we talk on line and stuff. But i feel like im startin to develop a crush on him. i dont kno why he was supposed to stop by my house today to jus chill, and i have no idea what im supposed to do. I like him but icant do tht to my close friend. I need help. what do ido.
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i would deffinitly stick with asking ur friend first maybe say "i have a friend that you dont know but i do and she likes a guy that her friend used o date ,what do you think she should do "whatever answer she gives you would be what i would do ,but if you think youu really like this guy then maybe keep him a secret at least for a little till you think your friend can handle it
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First you should decide what is more important Your friend or your love life... here is what i would do..
if i really like him i would
1) talk to my friend kind of quiz her by saying what would you do if one of your really good friends dated one of your ex's?
2) if she says she wouldn't care i would tell her that i like him
3) tell him that you like him ( be prepared for rejection because it doesn't always work out)
if your friend wouldn't like you dating her ex yet you still really want to be with him
1)talk to him, ask him how he feels about you
2)if he wants to date you ask if maybe you could have a private relationship
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Well, your friend broke up with him, so she was the one who wanted to break it off. I don't think your friend would mind because she didn't want to go out with him anymore, but I would talk to her about it if you ever wanted to ask him out, or if he asked you out. Maybe she does still like him, so talk to her, just in case, because your friends will always be there for you, but a guy might not. Good luck. =)
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Let more time pass,ask your friend if she still has feelings for him,that if it would be okay if any of your friends date him,if she is cool with it then you could let him know you like him,then see what happens,let your friend know that you will date him but that's if she's fine with it because I'm sure you don't want to lose your friend over a guy.
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Ask your friend why she broke up w/ him and try to see if he is doing the same thing w/ you.Ask your friend if it is ok for you to like him. If she is really your friend there will be 2 things that she could do. #1 is if she tryes to keep you away from him because she doesnt want the same thing to happen to you, or #2 is if she says oh yeah! thats ok. Or something like that.
amrbertholf
P.s. Oh yeah! you can always Pray about it! :-)!
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Hey there!
Well, you've probably heard this a lot, but just talk to her about it. If you're to scared to do it in person, then just do it on instant messenger or write a letter or some way that isn't directly confronting her. The her exboyfriend, let's call him bob. Whenever Bob comes over today just try to be yourself, think of something other than him, i know it sounds kind of weird, but if you start to babble, just slow down and say what you're gonna say. And if your friend isnt ok with you liking Bob then just keep your feelings to yourself, write them down in a journal so you don't keep it inside and they come falling out at the wrong time! =] Good luck!
♥Paige
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I was in this same sititation, what you need to do, is talk to your really good friend and tell her how you feel about her ex, see how she reacts, and ask if she is ok with it. if she is great, when he comes over make moves, talk to him, flirt, do what girls do best! lol, feel around the edges of this guy see if he likes you. if your friend is not ok with you going with her ex, you might want to chill with the guy and don't make any moves. because if you go behind her back then that will only cause problems between the friendship. so talk to her first, get her reaction, and by her reaction move or don't move on the guy. if she is not cool with you going with this guy wait a while and see like in a couple weeks or a month and talk to her again and see how she feels. if she has a problem with you going with her ex, either she is still hurt by the break-up, she is being selfish and not caring about your feelings, or the friendship is not so tight as you may think. but dont' ever let a friendship come inbetween a relationship with a guy. hope this helps.
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FiRST OF ALL YOO HAVE GOT TO DECiDE WHO MEANS MORE TO YOO YOOR RLi GOOD FRiEND OR THiS BOY.
iF YOO ASK ME iD NEVER CHOOSE A BOii OVER MY FRiEND YOO EVER HEARD THE SAYiNG...RELETiONSHiPS MAY COME AND GO BUT FRiENDSHiPS ARE FOREVER??
YOO HAVE TO THiNK iF THiS BOii iS WORTH LOOSiNG A FRiEND OVER.
xKATiE-EFFx
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