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I really like him but she dumped him
OK i have a friend, she is the most popular girl in class. this is confusing cause i dont think i am popular, just a normal kid. so, umm i dont really LIKE her that much because she kind of comes off as "a man wanter" she just turned 13, but she has had many boyfriends and havent even told her parents, she is not sexually active but anyway, she is not exactly ,my FRIEND but she is very nice to me and talks to me a lot on the internet and wants to hang out with me sometimes and even invited me to her birthday party when no one else from the class was invited. so i will feel bad if i got "hit on" from her ex,. she dumped him but he seems to like me. when my best friend and i were studying for exams, and he comes over and wants to study with us. then we eat lunch and he comes over and eats with us, we dont know why, and this was when he STILL was bf and gf with my "friend" and we ask him,why do you sit with us so much? and he never answers. Some people think he likes my best friend, but he treats us both the same, except one time he put his hand on my should and i tryed to avoid him and then he put it on again. and i was like...ok.....and i really don't know if he likes me, or my friend, cause one time he asked my bff, do you ever thinking about having a bf? so...hmmm...my bff and my "friends" ex have been friends since they were little, but at my bff's b-day party when i was taking a walk on the beach, he kept on giving me these looks then we fooled around with each other and chased each other and it turned into a game. he opens doors for the girls and he is really cute, and pretty funny. but the prob is he isnt exactly "goodytooshoes" with the teachers he gets in fights with the boys. he might like me.. i dont know, but this will effect my relationship with my bff, my friends that r against my "friends" ex, and my "friend" so this is going to be a toughy...please help.
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I think you should keep acting like you like him, because I mean it's just junior high or high school or whatever you're in. It's not like youre marrying him, so he doesn't have to be perfect.. but your "friend" shouldn't get mad because she dumped him. You could 1. Ask her 2. Go out with him and see if she cares, then you could do something. But is he popular? Because if he's not.. it might bring down your reputation, and you DON'T want that. You also should talk to the "friend" more! Ask her to come over or do something with her just once then she'll think ya'll are great friends then you can be popular! hope i helped.
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you only talked about the possibility of him liking you..but if you like him, then that should be all that matters. but it doesnt sound like he would be worth everyone being angry with you. you have to choose to take the guy..or take the hit.
good luckk!!!
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