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my friends are soo mean to people. like, there mean to like people in our group too! who they call their best friends. Like, ok.. we are the popular group in school, i go to a catholic school, so its small. so yeah, were the popular ones, & so like nobody likes the 2 of them. They like think there all great bc they belong to a country club, & have a big house. But, i have just as big of a house & belong to a country club, & i dont act like them at all. they get mad, if like me & my best friend, dont invite them to the mall. like they always cause drama, & basically me & my friends are sick of them.. how do we get rid of them? .. it will be our last year at our school, so we dont want them to ruin it. (link)
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Ignore them. If there mean like that there not the school's cool croud there the school bullies. You don't want to be like them. You're the cool croud. You don't have to belong to a country club or have a big house to be cool. You just have to be yourself. Don't listen to what other people have to say. Just be yourself. - gilmorecrazy
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I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her? (link)
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You can have as many BFs as you want. You can still make new friends. Go out with them somtimes go out as a group. You still can be friends with her and other people. You all can be friends. Don't leave a best friend that you've been with for years just because you want to have some more best friends. You can have as many BFs as you want. - gilmorecrazy
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I have this friend he's a guy hes one of my best friends and everyone time he goes out with another girl i sorta get jelous i dont know why though...i just cant really figure out if i like him more then a friend (link)
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Well you may like him more then a friend. When you guys sit near each other do you feel something? Or it could be that he's hanging out with other girls instead of hanging out with you. Or he turned you down to go out on a date. I can't tell you how you feel. Nobody can. If you have feelings for him and i meen deep feelings then you might want to tell him. He could feel the same way about you. You just can't see it. Somtimes if you like your best friend it's hard to tell. If you like him as a friend or a boyfriend. You have to think about how you feel about him. I can't tell you.I wish i could but i can't. - gilmorecrazy
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Ok well my bestfriend, she was like my bestfriend ever & like now I just feel like shes replacing me with one of her other friends. cause she used to be like a sister to me and now like we barley talk & i tried to talk to her about it & ask her if she was trying to replace me and she even said i dont know. it really hurts and i was like crying for a while trying to think everything over & i just dont know what to do cause i love her shes like my sister & i deffently dont wanna stop being friends with her. I dont know what to do to make her understand cause talking to her wont work? any other sugjestions? =/ (link)
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You can't replace a true best friend. If she doesn't want to be your friend anymore she should say it. Maybe she wants to try new things. Maybe you guys should try somthing you've never tried before. If you get tickets to a concert or play she really likes invite her. Bring money for t-shirts or something. That was just an example. Try Something new. - gilmorecrazy
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Okay so here is the deal. My dad is a very strick parent, especially when it comes to me and boys. 15/f Many of the boys in my grade are scared to call and come over my house for that reason. Also, a lot of boys have said to me that they would go out with me if my dad was not as tough. It bothers me that my dad is interfearing with my sexual and social life with boys. Not to be cocky but i am a beautiful thin girl who many guys would love to be in a relationship with. I dont know if there is anything i can do to help the situation. My dad will not give in. Do you guys have any helpful words for me? oh and its not like on the level of sex or anything. just holding hands is not in the question. I really need help and have been dealing with this problem for the past 3 years of my life. I just need some comforting words
XOXOXOXOX Alicia (link)
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Don't let your dad stop you from dating. you could be in love with a guy but not know it. Sometimes you
need to lie. Say you're meeting your friends at the mall. Or I had to stay at school today because I wanted to join some extra credit club. Or u have to do a school prodject. Plan it out. - gilmorecrazy
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so theres this boy and i got with him int he past and all and im ging to a friends house to swim with him tomorrow and we were flirting so bad tonight. like i really like him. and he was telling me about he fignered a girl and all ( we got in a weird convo) and like how he was gonna make out with me and something else. and i know hes gonna try to finger me and sutff.. and im kinda ok with it. but like .. i dont know what to excpet and what to do . and what its gonna be like (link)
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nobody can force you into having sex or forcing u out of sex. If you want to have sex then just becarful if u don't want to get pregnant. just expect him touching you alover your body. you can touch to.
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