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my friends. =/
my friends are soo mean to people. like, there mean to like people in our group too! who they call their best friends. Like, ok.. we are the popular group in school, i go to a catholic school, so its small. so yeah, were the popular ones, & so like nobody likes the 2 of them. They like think there all great bc they belong to a country club, & have a big house. But, i have just as big of a house & belong to a country club, & i dont act like them at all. they get mad, if like me & my best friend, dont invite them to the mall. like they always cause drama, & basically me & my friends are sick of them.. how do we get rid of them? .. it will be our last year at our school, so we dont want them to ruin it.
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Ignore them. If there mean like that there not the school's cool croud there the school bullies. You don't want to be like them. You're the cool croud. You don't have to belong to a country club or have a big house to be cool. You just have to be yourself. Don't listen to what other people have to say. Just be yourself. - gilmorecrazy
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all you have to do is ignore them when they talk to you and find two other people you and your group like and put them in and take the mean out!
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they probaly want attention so next time for example they go omg look how fat that girl is shes so ugly their gonna wnat you to agree with them and laugh don't just be like well loook at her nails though there so pretty or something like that bring the good out of the person because there just probaly pointing out the bad stuff in people..
hope i helped.
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First off, these girls don't seem like very good friends at all. I suggest you talk to them about it. But, if you talk to them and these girls are still treating you and your friends badly, then they aren't worth your time. Just don't pay attention to them if they say anything mean to you or your friends. Hang out with your others friends more, the nicer ones. It's your last year at your school; just make the best of your last year and don't let mean people ruin it. Good luck. =)
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Well, as a friend, you have an obligation to try to help them before you just dump the relationship.
You only wrote about how you're trying to leave them out of your activities, which is a very hurtful thing to do to a friend. It's no wonder why they get angry with you.
Have you ever sat down with any of them individually and had a heart to heart talk with them about their behavior?
Sometimes people don't know they're doing anything wrong or offensive until a TRUE friend sits down with them and tells them about it.
You should tell them that you think they're acting elitist and snobbish and that you don't like to be with them when they act like that.
If you do this it will either make them even angrier and they'll stop being your friends (which is basically what you said you wanted in your question) or they'll improve their behavior and they'll be your good friends again- which I think would be a much better result.
Either way, you'll have the satisfaction of having done the right thing.
Best wishes.
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I went through sorta the same thing. I was "friends" with the most popular girls in school. They talked behind be back all the time and made fun of me as much as the could. I used to ignore it but then I look at myself and started to believe everything they said. Soon i was crying every night saying I was ugly and fat and all these things. They made a big scene if I didnt talk to them at lunch or something but the talking behind my back and stuf was like no big deal. So now... because i listened my self esteem is like crushed... someone says you re pretty Ill be like WHAT?!?!? I am soo shy but before I was confident and could get up infront of the class all the time. Just slowly ignore them and exclude them. If they ask just say no... im not... we dont have to spend every sigle minute of the day together. I have other friends too. and ask your parents too... they can help.
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You should just ignore them , like if they talk to you and stuff like say something back , but say it in a mean kind of way , and in a week or so they`ll realize that you and your friend don`t want to hang out with them anymore/be friends , trust me it`ll work , & Good Luck! ♥ :]
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Having to get rid of friends who are mean must be really tuff but it's good you decide to do something about it.You just tell them that you want to meet other people,that there better off meeting others as well because you just feel that you don't have a lot of things in common that the friendship wouldn't last,that you have no hard feelings so that they don't think you hate them or something.
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