MYSELF
>I AM 13
>I HAVE BLUE GRAY EYES
>I HAVE REDISH BROWN HAIR
>I AM 5'4
>I LOVE GIVING ADVICE
FOODS
>I LOVE CHEESE-FRIES
>I LOVE CHICKEN
>I LIKE PIZZA
>I LOVE PLUMS
CAREER
I WANT TO BE THE FALLOWING..
>A BLACKHAWK PIOLET
>A PRO WRESTLER(IDOL TRISH STRATUS AND TRIPPLE H)
>GIVE ADVICE
ACTIVITIES
>I LOVE PLAYING FOOTBALL
>I LOVE PLAYING BASKETBALL
>I LOVE DANCING
>I LOVE SINGING
E-mail: ccugirl13@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: teenager
Age: 13
Yahoo: ccugirl13
Member Since: July 27, 2006
Answers: 27
Last Update: August 15, 2006
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I don't know if this goes here.....but...oh well.
I have been getting occasional cramps (not stomach area cramps, lower abdomen cramps) and discharge. My breasts are slightly tender, but nothing major, and im starting to grow more, i think. Im almost to 100 pounds, and i will confess i have been a little moody...are these signs that my period will start soon?
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ok take it from someone who just started last month if your back is hurting it can mean that you just have to wait ur body knows when its time it will show u but a couple of days before i started my vaginal areas felt like i had cracked then or somthing and hurt really bad i couldn't lay on my stomach and i could beraly walk i had to have a heating pad so if this starts to happenthen you will any time now!
abercrombie13
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Okay. I'm 16/f and I want to get a vibrator. The problem is, I'm afraid to get one because I'm scared my mom will find it and I would be SO EMBARRASSED if that happened!! Am I too young to get one? If not, where should I put it (maybe in another room in the house?) where there's no chance of her finding it? FYI- she sometimes comes in my room and starts cleaning out my drawers/closet because she thinks they're so cluttered, so I'm not sure that's a good place to put it. (link)
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well im only 13 but i can help the best i can,doesshe ever make ur bed if not then put it under ur mattress and chances are she will never find it!(thats what i do with my diary)hahahaha!!1
well i hope this advice helps!
abercrombie13
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how do i get a guy to like me he said he loved me but know he wont even talk to me im so much in love with him please help me i dont know what to do
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ok well i have this problem before it is tough but if he doesn't come out and tell you he wants to go out with you then you have to make that move on you own it is hard but then every thing will be better and every one will be happy!
abercrombie13
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Well, I'm home alone alot, with my brother thats only ten, and i need to learn how to defend myself. but i can't take classes because my mom won't have enough time to take me. so, this is my question, can i learn to defend myself at home, with like a knife or something?
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well it is better if you go out and buy some movies on self defence and go along with the steps!Also it is a great exercise you will get alot of lower body strength more than upper body strength but that is good to that means you will have a stronger kick to leave the person down that way you can make a fast exit!
abercrombie13
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at my sprint store (i have sprint) they also sell virgin mobil phones and theres one virgin mobile phone i want but cause they are two different plans do you think i could get it.. because they do sell them at the sprint store and when i went on some website it said- "virgin mobile/sprint" as the header of the phone i wanted. (link)
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i have a virgen mobile phone and it is awsome i totally recomend getting the one you want and it is no cost every month like a plan, also there is no cotract so you just buy if and go!i would!!!
abercrombie13
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would it be wrong to date a guy a year younger than me. the thing is he lives in my neighborhood and me and his sister and others all hang out. would that be wrong. (link)
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no actually i went out with a boy and his sister was 2 years older than me and he as 1 year younger than me and so it is not a bad thing at all!
abercrombie13
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Ok please help me im young and i've had sex seven times and all of them i've been forsed into i just dont know how to say NO! because the one guy i first did it with always hit me and i dont want to be hit again by a guy and im not a slut please help (link)
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punch them in the balls
abercrombie13
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I'm 13/f and I was talking online with a friend, who he is 17. We have alot in common and stuff, so he asked me out. I was just wondering, what do you think is the maximum age difference? I really like this guy, and if he was my age, I would go out with him without question, but, is this age different ok?
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age does matter he is to old and have you seen a pic. of him if not he could be a murder or somthing he could really be 38 looking for girls your age i am 13 and i dated a guy online and he said he was 14 and he turned out to be 28 it is bad go out with someone you know like at your school but online is not a good choice to make!!!
abercrombie13
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Ok well my bestfriend, she was like my bestfriend ever & like now I just feel like shes replacing me with one of her other friends. cause she used to be like a sister to me and now like we barley talk & i tried to talk to her about it & ask her if she was trying to replace me and she even said i dont know. it really hurts and i was like crying for a while trying to think everything over & i just dont know what to do cause i love her shes like my sister & i deffently dont wanna stop being friends with her. I dont know what to do to make her understand cause talking to her wont work? any other sugjestions? =/ (link)
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ok i have the same problem talk to her on the phone or even in person if she has any friends around talk to her later but if she doesnt then take the time to talk with her tell how much her friendship means to you and that she is the one person you dont want to lose friendship with if she doesnt understand then leave her allown at least you trie.
abercrombie13
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14/f
Ok, before I give you the actual question, I'm going ot give you the background.
Here it goes,
It started yesterday, it was my dad and I, watching Jeapordy, and he was making fun of all the contestants, so I hit him in the arm, but then he hit me back, I don't think he realized how hard he hits, but it's very hard. So I hit him back again, and so on, and so on. But at one point he slapped/hit my leg so hard that it left a huge hand print, and I got so mad. My mom wasn't home at the time, I tried contacting her, but she didn't answer. So I took a picture of the mark. It was ok, after that, seeing how I got out of the house for a couple of hours with my friends.Then he and my brother, came to pick me up, we decided to go rent a movie. After that was over, this is going to sound childish, but we were arguing over who got the front seat. And my dad always takes his side, so I was frustrated, so frustrated, that when I got in the back, I said "I hate you both". My dad went "Hate is an awfuly strong word." Then I went "Fine I loathe you, I despise both of you." And it was a quiet car ride after that. When we got home, I had a serious attitude, and my mom wanted to know why. That's when I showed her the picture of my leg[from earlier]. She got really mad, and started hitting my dad. Since I was just as mad, I went upstairs to cool off, and watch the movie I had chosen. When it was over, I wasn't quite as mad, and we[my brother, dad and I] watched the other movie. That was fine.
But, when I woke up this morning, I woke up an hour late, so I jumped in the shower, and while I was in there, my dad comes in and goes "Your too late, Your too late." I have no idea why, but it irritated me. So I snapped back at him; "I can still take a shower!". After I got out, my mom came in and started telling me, that she was going to leave my dad, that we don't get along, and she's leaving us both behind. She asked if I deserved the hit on the leg. Then she goes that stunt you pulled, really screwwed things up.[Refering to showing her the picture, to get my dad in trouble.] And I wasn't allowed to go, where I had planned on going. So I slept. When I woke up, my dad was leaving for work, and he said "Bye." I said "Bye." And he goes, "I hope your happy." And as I sit here now, I can't help, but believe that I was responsible for my family falling apart. My parents have been otgether since they were 14, and I feel as though I ruined it all. That I was some sort of mistake. And I don't know what to do. Does anyone know how I can fix things? I'm feeling very depressed right now,and I have no idea what I'm going to do.
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well get your parents say sorry to your dad for getting him in trouble and say sorry to your mom for dradding her into it tell them you dont want them to split that with out your parents you would be a nobody!
abercrombie13
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ok so my mom is an alcoholic and shes gotton 2 DUI's and she's gotton in a drinking and driving accident and shes gone to rehab and goes to alot of AA meetings but she still drinks aout oncce or twice a week and the only peoeple in my house is my mom and my little sister and me, since my dad died of cancer a few years ago. and since im the oldest i have responsibilty for the family since my mom cant really take care of me and my sister. i really want to talk to her and try to live a normal life but i dont know how. i just need advice on what your opinion would be on waht i should do. (link)
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ok well i can help the best i can but here is a suggestion why don't you ask her to sit down and talk with you tell her how much you love her but the drinking has to stop because she doesnt know how much she is scaring you and your little sister give her a hug and tell her you love her!
abercrombie13
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To start off i am a 15 year old girl. I am living at home and pregnant. I no stress is not good. Living at home i think is stressing me out i cry every day. Im not sure what to do or how to tell me mother i need out. I am not getting along with my brother or my father. Please Help (link)
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well most parents dont want anything to do with theyre kids after they get pregnat at such an early age but if you sit down and talk to your mom,telling her how much this baby really means to you then maybe things will get better and because you really do need your mom at this time!
abercrombie13
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is that a good age to babysit? Because I have had like 2 years of experiance with my 2year old nephew! (link)
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i am babysitting right now and i am 13 it is a very good age because when you grow up and have kids you will know very well what to do.
abercrombie13
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I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.
This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.
I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions? (link)
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i may be only 13 but you really sould call the cops to come out and take a look and say have them tell the mom a naghbor has noticed for a long time.
abercrombie13
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I want to walk into my babysitting job with the kds running up to me saying yay _____ here! How any tips? I'll rate you high for trying (link)
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well you have to do somthing fun every time you babysit and be really nice
abercrombie13
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what age can kids start to babysit other kids? (link)
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the normal age is around 13,14, and 15
abercrombie13
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Okay, this may not seem like a problem, but I started babysitting for this one family this summer. They have a pretty big house and good jobs, so it's not like they are poor. I think they overpay me though. I know I shouldn't complain, but they paid me $40 for watching a 4-year-old and a nine-year-old from 6-11pm....and they pay me $100 a week to watch the 9-year-old while they are at work during the summer....watching the nine-year-old basically consists of watching tv or watching him play nintendo or watching him fish. it's not a hard job, and I enjoy it...should I say something about the high pay, or just take it as them appreciating me and being nice? I don't want to get more than I deserve.... (link)
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well it is a tough one but tell them that you think you are to young to be getting 100 dollars for babysitting i mean they could just take them to a day care but then again they probley trust you better that a daycare and they are willing to give you the regulare fee of a real daycare and they apperciate you taking your time for theyre kids so just ask if you are putting them in any kind of money situation were they need the money but dont want to quit paying you.
abercrombie13
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Ages of children: (boy)6 (girl)8
My age:14
Entertianing? Cooking?(breakfast and lunch)
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i am 13 and i know what you are going through i really do what sould i cook? or what kind of entertanment?well here is what i do make sandwiches and chips or chicken (in the oven)and fries(in the oven) for lunch and for breakfast make cerial for entertianment have your mom sit down and talk about when she use to babysit and plan somthing fun the night before you babysit trust me it helps!
abercrombie13
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I'm babysitting this demand child. How can i get her to shut up?! Omg. shes so annoying. please help
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if you cant handle the child you are babysitting them sit down with her mom and talk to her about the issues that are going on because you are the babysitter and the child needs to know that.
abercrombie13
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hey, ive been trying to babysit my neighbor forever. my mom has been asking them for me to babysit. i mean im going into the 8th grade.. im deffinetly old enough by now. shouldnt there be a reason why there avoiding it? (link)
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well somtimes it depends on alot of things like what they see you doing when theyre kids are around or age is a very big issue to so just show them you are very reasponsalbe and talk very perfestional.
abercrombie13
p.s. try sitting down with the parents and tell them you are very reasponsable and ask them why they are avoiding you to babysit theyre kids.
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