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Ok please help me im young and i've had sex seven times and all of them i've been forsed into i just dont know how to say NO! because the one guy i first did it with always hit me and i dont want to be hit again by a guy and im not a slut please help
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Do you mean you were forced down against your will [meaning you were raped seven times] or you were pressured into it even though you didn't want to have sex? Either way around, that's really wrong and i'm sorry. The guy that hit you CAN be charged for rape and if you feel that's what you need to do then tell your parents. If not, try not putting yourself into these situations. Stay away from these so called 'friends' you have and stop putting yourself into the situations that you are.
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if you say no, and he keeps on going. its called RAPE then you can really get him into trouble.
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TELL SOMEONE your parents POLICE
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If you have been forced into having sex you have been raped. Legally you could go to the police right now and press charges especially w/the guy who hit you, that is assault with the intention to do bodily harm. The authorities will help you under these circumstances and you can still press charges against this guy. Statute of limitations has not run out here. You also need to get some therapy. The reason I suggest this is because there is something that is inhibiting you from taking care of yourself. You are not feeling worthy, even though you are a truly worthy individual, you don't seem to feel it. You need someone who is trained to help you work through these issues so that you can identify why you are allowing these things to happen to you. I would like to suggest you try something. From now on, no matter what it is, if it is as simple as a friend asking you to go to the movies and you don't feel like going, start saying NO when you feel it. The more you use NO in different situations the more comfortable you will become with saying no and it will help you when you need really need to. It will become natural for you, as it already should be. People will still like you I promise and the last thing you should worry about is someone who disregards your feelings anyway. Start practicing saying NO more often, but only when you truly mean it. Don't confuse the issue and say it just to say it. Relax and identify what YOU truly want. YOU are the most important thing on this planet to YOU and if YOU don't take care of yourself you may end up without YOU.
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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punch them in the balls
abercrombie13
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Get out of this as quickly and discreetly as possible. Just break off all connections with this guy. You need to learn to say no. Something about you is allowing these men to take advantage of you. Just take it easy and don't go so far so quickly.
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omg if your not ready just say NO!!theyre not gonna send a hitman to whack you out if you do!dont care about what they think when you say no cuz its all about YOU when it comes to sex.Youre not ready yet and SEVEN times!wow!i mean its dangerous especially if its unprotected!You can get STD's cuz of a simple mistake your making now by not saying no.In life you need to talk like noone can hear you meaning,dont care about what he will say back like your ammature.Your not going to be amature when theyre the ones that have STD's and they do.lay off the sex for a while so you dont regret ot later on
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Do not let him push you around. And you shouldn`t even be with a guy that does that in the first place.
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you should never let a guy hit or push you around. Being pressured is not right.. you should just stand up for your self and say no to them. And if they keep doin it, well thts rape and you go to the police. you should go already for when he hit you.. and your not a slut if your being forced..you should talk to someone bout this, like a councler or sumtin if your parents are out of the question.
im really sorry and i hope i helped a bit
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hey i'm sorry to hear about this.
If a guy is pressureing you to have sex he shouldnt be.Its your virginity,and youll make the dession of when you want to loose it.
When there forcing you to do this kick and and push them away from you and just yell no.And if it doesnt come across walk away.I hoped ive helped
-Alex
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