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parents...let's just say i heard them in bed
I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that!
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wow my friend had this same exact problem. i don't mean to disgust you, but it is normal. i know it's gross& all just to picture your parents. next time it happens you could try putting on loud music. maybe that will help. i hope i helped. :]
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I don't mean to take your parent's side, so if it sounds like I am please forgive me. Don't get me wrong, it was very uncool for the to be that loud about it while you were there. They should have been more discreet about it. But you should be glad that your parents are still intimate. Not many parents are, and that's a good thing. It just means that their relationship is going well. [apparently really well] Next time the subject comes up, try telling them you would prefer if they would wait until you weren't home or be more quite about it because you were freaked out. They should understand, i'm sure they were pretty embarrassed also and were just trying to hide it.
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This is part of life, if they did not make love, you would not be here, some day when your married you will do the same with your husband, it is a blessing that your parents are still romantically incline, you need to let your parents no that it was scary for you, The only thing their doing wrong is they need to be a little quietier.
your friend
Faitheb
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I was in the same shoes as you once! If it makes u feel any better i'll tell you the story...i was about 8 (much younger than you are) my parents had a metal head board so it banged on the wall LOUDLY! I thought someone was breaking in down stairs, so i went in crying to my mom and dad, little did i no id see my mom bouncing on my dads penis Bad Mistake!! She told me they was "having a cuddle". I have a older brother whos 18 now, he was drunk in bed so nothing he could do, that image is still in my mind today, but atleast now i can tell my mates and laugh about it for hours! Trust me, i make sure im fast sleep before they go to bed in future! In the mean time try to relax yourself when you have thise noises in your mind, have a warm bath with a few candles. You will get over it in no time, jus like i did, and trust me one day you will look back and laugh about it =)
Hope i helped!
Like-a-diamond
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ahh this happens to me alot! theres really nothing you can do..i mean their in love they have to show it you know? one time i walked in on them while i was sick and i yelled for my mom that i didnt feel good and she couldnt hear me so i ran back to my room and cried,i was angry but i was very little then.Have your ipod or cd player handy and jsut listen to that until they have stopped or you could put the pillows between your head so you cant hear them..but i suggest turning up the music instead thats what i do and it works ;]
♥ danielle
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Well, they are your parents and depending on how old you are... it's just normal... next time if it happens just turn up the music and go to sleep like that... you'll be fine =)
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yea i hear and do the same thing that u are going though but now i dont even wrry about it i just go up to my room and cut on loud music so just try to do that and stuff or talk on the phone....
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I totally understand you feeling upset and uncomfortable! I think it's very inappropriate for children to hear their parents having sex.
It's great that your parents love eachother, but if you hear them again you need to explain to them that you're glad they love eachother, but that it makes you very uncomfortable and think it's inappriopriate for you to hear them having sex.
It's obvious ur upset about it because it keeps replaying in your head! To get it out of your mind just stay occupied-hang out with friends, exercise, etc. Bad thoughts will resurface but just try to block them out, and if you get really upset call your sister or a friend. In time I promise the thoughts will come less, and soon go away.
If your parents continue and wont stop no matter what you say, you need to talk to your sister about maybe going to a family councelor with them.
P.S for those who said you need to grow up, are totally wrong. It's completely understandable to be upset-and you are not overreacting.
Hope I helped =]
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wow its great that theyre this age and still in love like this...ok its a lil freaky to "hear"them doing it but get over it...its nothing bad you know?Its better than having them hollering at each other and hating eachothers guts!Honestly what do you prefer?
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that is nothing just be glad you dont got my parents ...
ex.
school night i hear a crash downstairs typically you'd think o shit sum1's in the house so i went down stairs and there are my parents chasin eachother around the house at 2 in the freakin morning!!
i say take it in stride, like whenever they have friends over and crap be like yah i want to go to sleep tonight so keep the moaning down to a low roar at least thats wut i do.
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If they didn't do that, you wouldn't exsist. Grow up please.
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Excersise. Do something to get the picture of your parents doing the dew outta your head.
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