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I have a competition in may and part of the competition is singing. I want to pick a song that will BLOW the agents and the audiance out of the water. It has to be something Some what unique that they havent hurrrd too often.

Types of artists i can smostly sing
Toni braxton
Christina aguilera
Mariah carey
Norah jones
Mandy moore

things like that!

PLEASE HELP ILL RATE HIGH! (link)
Thats really funny that the last person recommeded Bonnie Rait because I was going to hehe :)

Something to Talk About- Bonnie Rait
Sunrise- Nora Jones

Good Luck girlie!!


my friend/ the guy i liked and he liked me back expelled and said he was gnna kill himself so i told the principal when we were getting questioned and he neede dproof so i showed him an mns convo where my friend lets call him bob said he was gunna kill himself and the guy who got him expelled and the principal got the police involved and now as far as i know i got him arrested. now i feel really bad and i think he hates me but i haven'/t been in contact wiht him but he has been on mns in the past couple of days what should i do? (link)
First of all you have absolutely nothing to feel bad about. I know it's hard to tell on a friend but you did the right thing. Having him mad at you is not worth the possibility of him taking his life or someone elses. The best way to find out how he is feeling is to talk to him. Don't let him make you feel guilty though. I know you like this guy, but it sounds like he's pretty unstable and needs help.
If he is angry at you, the best thing could be to just be to explain that you care about him and wanted to help him. If he is still angry you, you might want to reconsider whether you want or need someone like this in your life. In time he may realize your intentions and be thankful. If he doesn't, hes not worth it.


How long will it take if I use two insulin pens full of Novalog to commit suicide? Assuming both pens are full and are inject within five minutes. (link)
Please, please reconsider.

If you need anything feel free to send me a message.

Suicide Hotlines: 1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-273-TALK
Teen Suicide Hotline: 1-800-367-7287
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/


There are voices inside my head. What can i do? (link)
Hey,

Im not really sure about diagnosis or anything like that, and im not really knowledgable in this area. Anyways I dont think it necesarily means you have schizophrenia or anything serious like that. BUT I think is is VERY VERY important that you tell your parents, adult your close to, or a doctor. This COULD be something very very serious but you would need to get checked out to know for sure.

Good luck


I have this neutrogena face scrub. I wet my face with a washcloth and follow the steps. But when it says rinse I get confused.

How can I rinse my face using a sink? I cant fit my head under the faucet lol

Does just using your hands to rub your face with water and drying (patting it dry) with a towel count as rinsing your face and drying it? (I'm using the washing the dishes echnique for that theory =/)
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Lol. You kinda cup your hands and hold your hands cupped under the faucet and then splash the water on your face. Make sure your face is kinda bending down towards the sink and that your hands are close to your face when you splash. Repeate this like 7-10 times haha. I hope this makes sense!
If worst comes to worst just do it in the shower it will work fine :)



i'm 17, i'm a guy, i've never been kissed, i've never had a girlfriend, i really don't have any kind of friends, i have speech problems, i've got social disorders, my face is a wreck, i don't leave my room because my face is a wreck, i hate 95% of the people in my school, i hate society and the nature of human beings, my life is trash and i'm completely nonexistent in the world. thats not the worst part though. the truth is, i really am one of the nicest kids you will ever meet when i'm not having to battle with my social problems and i'm a good looking kid too when i don't have acne. when i was acne free girls that i never met before told me that i look like johnny depp's twin but the acne won't go away and it has alot to do with me wasting away my high school years. over the last few months i had been talking to amazing girl and getting kind of close with her. seriously, she's better than anything i could have drawn up. she loves metal, in fact metallica, pantera, and tool are some of her favorite bands, she's got dyed black hair, wears black all the time, she's quiet like me, absolutely perfect but recently i messed that up completely. any color i had in my life has faded away and gone and i find it hard to believe that i can get it back. does anybody have any answers for me? i don't know where you would possibly start butany advice would be helpful. (link)
Hey buddy,

I dont know how much I can help, but Ill try my best :).

First of all I want to tell you that I understand where you are coming from. Im 16, and I have alot of similar problems. I especially understand where you coming from in regards to society these days. I absolutely hate my school. The people there have no values or concern for others. They are so conceited and totally superficial.
People in highschool now, in my opinion have become really mean, and unaccepting of others.

Im glad that you have some confidence in yourself, because the truth is alot of your problems arent within in yourself but having to do with the people around you.
But I promise you there are some people in this world who are good and will love you for you.

I know it's hard to believe but my dad always tells me that things will get better. College will be a completely different experience. You will find a group that will accept you, and girls that will love you for you. ;)

Dont rush into sex and all the stupid things kids are age are doing. It really doesnt have to do with love with most of them.

You will find your time, and the right person.

Until then try making friends out of your school. Joing some clubs or get involved with youth groups.

And that in regards to that girl. Dont be so hard on yourself, tell her how you feel. (dont come on too strong though) And if things dont work, you will eventually find someone.

Also try therepy it helps :)

Now im just rambling haha I hope I helped really :)




So, i'm going to this new school and i got involved with this guy J. I'm 15, sophomore, and he's a junior... 16 i think. We've been kinda like dating since basically the beginning of school and last friday he kissed me [finally]. We were talking and he was telling me how he really wants a serious relationship and how he wants to take it slow to make sure i dont get hurt (this was on friday) and i told him that that's fine. WELLLLLLL this whole week he has been ignoring me and i dont know why.. its really bothering me. He keeps flirting with this other girl Z (who's a freshman) and hes basically started avoiding me. Its really annoying. So... i dont know wat to do!! please help :( thanks..
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personally i think u should make mooing sounds... then do the splits. Then pull up your pants to your boobs and recite the aplphebete in indonesian. Then make donkey noices and jump on him. Always works for me =D



does anybody know what this is called?

http://img403.imageshack.us/img403/8021/key70052pc1.jpg

http://img403.imageshack.us/img403/1354/key70051as7.jpg

it's mine and I dont remember what it's called. it broke yesterday and I want to buy a new one. So can somebody tell me what this is called and where to buy it? It has like rubber stuff on the outside and on the inside is some sort of white stuff. please help! (link)
Hehhhh squishyy.

Ahem sorry. Anyways it's not a stressball. A stressball is not filled with that gel stuff. They are harder like this.
http://www.drandrewrosen.com/images/stressball.jpg

What you're look for is a toy. You can buy them at any local toy store. They are called Squishball's and they come in all diff colors and shapes--they are just for like squishing haha.

Hope I helped!
xoxo Anna


I'm in a very sad depressed mood.
Does anyone have any mood lifters
that I could do at home.
Like activities. (link)
Hmmm lets see..

.Invite someone over if you can
.Call a friend and just talk
.Watch a funny movie/tv.
.Read a book/magazine
.Go for a jog
Pamper yourself!
.Take a bubble bath!!!
.Paint your nails
.Give yourself an at home mini facial
.Listen to some fun musica
.Do something creative write,draw whatever.
.Organizing my room or like planning out what I want to do the following week helps me.
You`ll find something =D

Hope I helped!
xoxo
-Anna


well i find myself unhappy and always getting jealous and always looking on the bad sad, i really wanna change this, and i think the cause of this is because i lost alot of friends because they were backstabbers and im in a hard relationship with my boyfriend and my friends cant really be trust and its summer and i havent done anything. Please help me on how to be happier and eve rything thanx (link)
if your in a hard relationship and it really makes you depressed...it's not worth it. I have the same problem with friends I lost a ton of friends because I was sick of them treating me so bad and finally had to stand up for myself. Join some activities that you like or go to a camp and meet some new friends. Also during the school year find people who make you happy and accept you for you and dont bring you down. I know it seems hard now but things will get better.

to cheer yourself up whenever you have theese bad feelings.
.join a club/camp
.go for a jog
.go to the the gym
.take a relaxing bubble bath =D
.get ur nails done
.go to a club swimming pool.
.watch a funny movie

hope I helped!
xoxo
-Anna


my friend was hooking up with this older guy that got out of a year relationship about a week before they started hooking up.. they were stable for about 3 weeks.. they would go out alot.. sumtimes wouldnt even make out... he would pik her up ( shes 16 going to 11th ggrade, and hes 16 going to 12th) and he would pik her up in his car and they would spend alot of time together. he gave her his jacket.. i gues to keep and she gave him her tiffany's ring (expensive ring) but somthing happened to him and her relationship. he just became an ass.. one saturaday nite passed and he hooked up with another girl.. then he told my friend "you no i dont want a gf rite now rite?" (but she didint find out about the hook up from him).. we went to another party last nite but he didnt even say hi to her.. hes just been such an ass to her.. i dont even no how this relationship went downhill all of a sudden.. my friend really wants her ring back but she doesnt know how to get it.. i keep telling her to just call him ffrom a blocked number and ask him to drop it off at her house.. or tell him that shell come ppik it u p.. but i dont no wat she is afraid of.. what should she do!! she needs her 200 dollar ring bak!! (link)
well in my opinion when you give a gift you have to keep in mind that relationships dont always work out. I think that when you give a gift...u dont ask for it no matter how much of an ass hole the person turns out to be... I think it's just proper form. However, he doesnt have the right to keep it if she asks for it back. She just needs to call him and come out and ask for it back. Even show up at his house if he ignores her.

Hope I helped
-Anna


Do you know any shops that have some jewlry, hair-clips ect. Because whenever I find something I like it is way to expensive, i mean, 16-20 $ for a necklace!?!
Thanks for all your help
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Forever 21 has really cute jewlrey and hair clips/headbands alot under $5! you can check it out on Forever21.com

Claires also has tons of cheap jewelry and hair accessories!

Hope I helped! =]
xoxo
Anna


Well i have this friend who told me that her parents (who my parents are best friends with) hit her and her dad tried to drown her in a pool. What should i do?? we are only 13 and i don't want her to get into trouble and my mom wouldn't beleive me! They already called DSS but that didn't help. (link)
You need to tell your mom a.s.a.p im sure she will believe you! your mom needs to get her out of that house and call social security. and if your mom wont listen to you, you need to call 911 yourself and have them help you-it's important for your friends safety.


13/f going into 8th grade.

Ok, I'm not that rich. My mom and dad have been working extra jobs just so I can go school shopping in lexington. They said that I will have about $400.00 by the time we go. I was just wondering where abercrombie and hollister are located in lexington. And I was also wondering how many jeans and shirts I can get for this amout of money. Thankyou much in advance.

I rate answers. (link)
Since everyone has already answered i just wanted to tell ya that Wet Seal, and Forever 21 have really cheep cute clothes!


I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that! (link)
I totally understand you feeling upset and uncomfortable! I think it's very inappropriate for children to hear their parents having sex.
It's great that your parents love eachother, but if you hear them again you need to explain to them that you're glad they love eachother, but that it makes you very uncomfortable and think it's inappriopriate for you to hear them having sex.

It's obvious ur upset about it because it keeps replaying in your head! To get it out of your mind just stay occupied-hang out with friends, exercise, etc. Bad thoughts will resurface but just try to block them out, and if you get really upset call your sister or a friend. In time I promise the thoughts will come less, and soon go away.

If your parents continue and wont stop no matter what you say, you need to talk to your sister about maybe going to a family councelor with them.

P.S for those who said you need to grow up, are totally wrong. It's completely understandable to be upset-and you are not overreacting.

Hope I helped =]


This isn't like a real question,its more like just seeing who agrees. I want to give out advice but it's hard giving out advice when I have my own problems. Like I can't go on any type of love, friend, family, or school topics because I'm going through the same things. Have you ever felt wanted but can't give any help because of your own problems, and then you feel even worse? Well thats how I feel... The one place where my opinion matters, I can't help.
~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~ (link)
I totally understand I feel that way all the time. I always want to help people but I get scared my advice isnt good enough, or that i cant get out what Im trying to say.

I think you could try your best to answer questions people have (even if its a problem your going through) people will just appreciate ur opinion, and trying to help. And if they give you a bad rating, or something-It's OK because you know you did your best and tried to help.

Maybe
by answering other people's questions you can find answers to your own! That's what I try to do.

Hope I helped =D


My sisters bridal shower is tomorrow, and I'm excited, except I have to write on the card, and I have absolutely NO idea what to write. I can't write anything too serious, because that's not what our relationship is, haha. Like we joke around a lot.
What should I write?
=[ Pleaseee! thanks in advance. (link)
Hmmm lets see.

You could write something like..

Hey sis,
Im so happy for you! Hold on to this one, he's the first one that can actually put up with you! Lol. I love you!


ok im scared senseless of using a tampon like im jus scared itll hurt. ive tried puttin one in like 3 times & i cant even do it bc i tense up so bad. ive heard people say that you cant even feel it when its in but ive also heard ppl say you can feel it just enough to tell its inside you soo which is it??? (link)
I havent had my period yet, so i have no idea...but I heard it's best to wait 6 months after u've had ur period. I just wanted to tell ya =P

Good luck!


I really want to wear thongs because I tried my friends on once and it felt SO comfortable. I don't want one just because my friends wear them, because thats just stupid. I really like the feeling of them, but I'm afraid if I wear them, it'll seem like I'm a slut. The farthest I've gone with a guy is just a PECK on the lips, one time and thats it. So I'm no where near a slut. My mom doesn't care if I wear thongs, she actually even bought one for me. I want to wear it, but I don't want to feel slutty or people to think a slut. But I love the way they feel, they are good for when I wear tighter clothing, and my mom approves of them and I have one in my drawer already, so should I wear it or not? I'm 13 and female if it helps. (link)
Weating thongs is not slutty at all! In fact my modeling agency requires that we wear thongs so it doesnt show through our clothing. Your lucky you like the feeling of them! (I think they're kind-of uncomfortable) So there is no reason to feel dirty or slutty wearing them.



i never had my period and im almost 15..about everyone in my grade has had theirs and alot yonger... should i worry about never having one...i at least want to start so im normal...i don't even have those signs of right before you start a period..hmmm?? (link)
I have the same exactly problem... im 15 too. Dont worry about it we are lucky because we dont have to deal with all the cramps and discomfort! I feel like im less mature physically then all my friends now...but dont worry your time will come! All the late bloomers turn into swans!! So we will still be looking fabulous at 40!!
lol




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