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how to get ur possessions bak after "breakup"
my friend was hooking up with this older guy that got out of a year relationship about a week before they started hooking up.. they were stable for about 3 weeks.. they would go out alot.. sumtimes wouldnt even make out... he would pik her up ( shes 16 going to 11th ggrade, and hes 16 going to 12th) and he would pik her up in his car and they would spend alot of time together. he gave her his jacket.. i gues to keep and she gave him her tiffany's ring (expensive ring) but somthing happened to him and her relationship. he just became an ass.. one saturaday nite passed and he hooked up with another girl.. then he told my friend "you no i dont want a gf rite now rite?" (but she didint find out about the hook up from him).. we went to another party last nite but he didnt even say hi to her.. hes just been such an ass to her.. i dont even no how this relationship went downhill all of a sudden.. my friend really wants her ring back but she doesnt know how to get it.. i keep telling her to just call him ffrom a blocked number and ask him to drop it off at her house.. or tell him that shell come ppik it u p.. but i dont no wat she is afraid of.. what should she do!! she needs her 200 dollar ring bak!!
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well in my opinion when you give a gift you have to keep in mind that relationships dont always work out. I think that when you give a gift...u dont ask for it no matter how much of an ass hole the person turns out to be... I think it's just proper form. However, he doesnt have the right to keep it if she asks for it back. She just needs to call him and come out and ask for it back. Even show up at his house if he ignores her.
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-Anna
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Tell her to call him and not to be afriad of what he thinks after how hes being treated her what he thinks shouldnt mean much to her anymore. tell her to say "I have your jacket ill give it back and you have my ring so Give it back" I know it will be akward but teol her she has to do it.. maybe you could do it for her..
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She needs to step up and ask out right for her ring, she needs to tell him that she will give him back his jacket and she needs her ring, if he refuses she needs to talk to her parents and get them to call his parents.
Its an unfortunate situation he sounds like a total ass, she is better off without him. If he is refusing to return the ring he is stealing it and should be told that she will take him to court (more as a scare tactic...).
Hope this helps
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