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JUST RANDOM. FOR WEIRDOS LIKE ME.
This isn't like a real question,its more like just seeing who agrees. I want to give out advice but it's hard giving out advice when I have my own problems. Like I can't go on any type of love, friend, family, or school topics because I'm going through the same things. Have you ever felt wanted but can't give any help because of your own problems, and then you feel even worse? Well thats how I feel... The one place where my opinion matters, I can't help.
~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~
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Well i go through some of the things i give advice about and I agree, it's kinda hard, but i think that it is easier to give advice on things that you are going through b/c you understand and give them the advice you would give yourself. it works for me!!!
TELL ME HOW I DID AND LEAVE A COMMENT WITH YOUR RATING!!!!
thank you
a-g-28
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Yea i feel like that sometimes too. But i normaly just answer the question anyway. Any little bit of advice would get the person asking the question thinking baout your opinion. And for me atleast i dont take the advice i get exactaly step for step, i kinda add my own into it too.
Jess
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I totally understand I feel that way all the time. I always want to help people but I get scared my advice isnt good enough, or that i cant get out what Im trying to say.
I think you could try your best to answer questions people have (even if its a problem your going through) people will just appreciate ur opinion, and trying to help. And if they give you a bad rating, or something-It's OK because you know you did your best and tried to help.
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by answering other people's questions you can find answers to your own! That's what I try to do.
Hope I helped =D
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i can understand what your saying. sometimes i want to help answer as many questions as i can but most of my advice that i give out are similar to each other. i have experience for some questions because i've known friends or family that have similar problems, but for myself i've never come to some of those problems. i like giving advice on this site because i can help people and people can listen to my opinion and try using it. sometimes its hard for me to give advice for my friends and family because they dont care for my opinion. i think its good for you to try to help out other people even though you have the same problem. you give advice to other people for the same problems you have help yourself know that you have your own advice but you just cant use it yourself. i know you might not understand what im tryin to say but its hard you have to type it out and someone else having to read it in a different expression from how you typed it.
-manda
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yeah i think i understand what your saying.....i just try and answer the questions best i can so i can help them from making a mistake like i have....i mean we all have problems but at least we can try and help ppl from making some of the mistakes we have made in our life...like basically if i have went through the same thing in my life i try and tell them what i should have done to make things better
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yeah i totally get you....well for starters you can post out questions asking for advice to your own problems,get them solved, THEN help other ppl.
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Of course you can give advice. It's because of your adversities that you can give advice. I would never trust advice from someone who had never experienced the same problems that I am having. Also, as you read these questions that are so close to your own problems you may want to bring up a Word document and work it out on the Word document. Really pay attention to what words they are using and what is in their heart as they ask their question. Go with what your intuition tells you. Do your best not to identify emotionally w/the question and just pay attention to what is going on for the individual at hand. Learn to detach yourself; everyone can do it if they want to. This is a great way to work through some of your own difficulties because you will be looking at it in a detached manner and for someone else. One of the biggest reason most people can't work out their problems is because they are too close and too emotionally attached to see the simple answer. Take a chance...you never know...you may find the answers you are looking for.
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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Well, answer questions that you have experience with. If someone asks a question that is similar to one in your life, read it intently
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hey,
then its pretty hard to give advice when you have these many promblems
maybe you need to be asking for advice
- Alex
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