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they fight like crazy.
well my mom & brother fight like no other. he is 18 & still lives at home for now. they are fighting right now over my step dad ( my brother & him hate eachother with a passion but he doesnt live with us ) soon the 4th of july my step dad & my brother got into a fight. at that time me & my mom were supposed to move into his house. well since the fight we arent moving in. my mom said she was over with him, divorse & everything. well now its about not even a month later & she is sleeping over his house on the weekends again & i know they are back together. i dont like him at all & neither does anyone in my family. she promised me & everyone that they were going to split. well now i know they are back together & im scared that we are going to end up moving there. i hate this guy so bad. & everytime i try to talk to my mom about this she yells at me & tells me that she doesnt want to be alone. i just dont know what to do. this is so hard on me never seeing my mom because he is an idiot. please help.
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Your mom yells because shes scared. Just ask her really sweetly if you can talk to her and then explain to her that you are really hurt with her descission and her live is affecting the families. Maybe you should talk to your brother and other siblings and you all could sit down and talk. It probably really sucks for you right now and i hope that everything will be alright
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Well, I sorta have the same problem. You have to see that your mother is most likly depress and has problems leaving people. If she drinks its a dead give away. Your mother doesnt think like you. She most likely made up her mind on what makes her happy and what doesnt.(ie closed minded) If so she has traped her self in a never ending depression that she`s trying to make easyer. Easy ways too tell this is, Wont reason to logic, Her opinions are "logic", yells for no reason(well resonable reason) gets mad easyly, drinks commenly. If so Dont talk to her,agree and walk away, Its a lost cause trust me. And as for your bro, if your mom is like that explain that his basicly talking to a wall that yells back and that could trow him out or, try,
telling him to keep to himself and not to yell even if he wants to. If this doesnt work,
Blackmail him to do ^^^ but only that. dont want to get greedy. And you have to look.
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