My name is David
People say im old but my body isnt
I read (WoW)
I study medicens, law, news, the human mind, Buddhism, the art of Zen, amoung many religions for a better understandment of people.
I dont belive ive gaven bad advise
But do belive that the given sometimes cannot, will not, should not understand
I belive the truth will save us in the end so why not say it
Im kind hearted, even if you cant see it
I love all the children of mother earth
But doesnt mean ill treat them with illogical actions
I know theres a such thing as what people want to hear, and need to hear, i sometmes say both to make the one in need feel slow and confused =]
I do it only to get them thinking on what is best for them only, and if they choice the bad one, eh
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Location: Jacksonville
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Age: 19
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Exquisitechick
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i have like 11 pairs of jeans
but since its gotten cold i can only wear about 3 pairs,
because the rest are skinny jeans.
and the only shoes i have that look good with skinny jeans besides flip flops are my high top DCs. thats really it.
so any other ideas of what to wear?
or a style of shoe and where to buy them?
thank you thank you :D (link)
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maybe your focusing on the worng thing, you know what they say
it's better to fail at originality, then to succeed in imitation.
and imitation makes people speceil in one way, the one that dont count and made up
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it's better to fail at originality, then to succeed in imitation.
What does that mean? (link)
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it means its better that you try at finding yourself then to follow the crowd
Studie some words of the buddha to learn more
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i wanna make a scrapbook for my boyfriend ive been going out with for over a year.
what are some cute ideas
and cute things to add?
or inexpensive ideas as well?
thankss (link)
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Well, just hope he`s into that kind of thing
I wouldnt make a big deal aboot it to see how he feels, but dont expect too much like him breaking down in tears of happieness
And pic of you, and you and him, some of yalls favorite things to do like music, ticket stubs form the movies or what not, and i wouldnt add pics of just him, but im sure he wouldnt mind ones of just you along with both of yall
And im sure you can go by hallmart or something to get a blank book, and be careful with teh glue for it causes wavy ness =O
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female, 15 - Boyfriend = 18 (Dating for 1 year)...anyways..
I'm going to try and explain my problem the best I can. - When I masturbate, I can always get myself to cum..but when my boyfriend does it, I can't. Even if he's doing it right,..i still can't cum. Every now and then he will cause me a little pain though because I'm a virgin and he's digging his fingers into me too hard. Sometimes I can get really close, but then it just kind of..dies..i don't know how to explain..
Is there something I might be doing wrong? (link)
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Well, It sounds like he might be doing something wourg, If it starts to hurt then he`s doing something wourg! Trie going longer or warm yourself up, idk what the state laws are but oral might help. Maybe your masturbating to much, even once a day can make it harder to get what you want.
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My bf has one wart on his hand, the only wart he's ever had. If I hold his hand and make physical contact with the wart..can I get the virus that causes warts and then start getting it as well? Also, if he fingers me (using either the hand with the wart or the hand without the wart) can I get warts and more specifically, genital warts??
If he gets it freezed off can I still get warts??
I'm so freaked out. How can you possibly date people at this rate. (link)
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Yes, Its a virus that can be contagios by touching, but its not that contagios, but there still are risk.
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Hey everyone. I'm back. With another problem concerning this Italy trip. Incase you dont know the story, my history teacher is taking a few students on a trip to italy possibly during spring break but my mom will NOT hear of it. When I asked her why she said because we would be leaving the country. Plus with the things going on with teachers now-a-days. She thinks my teacher is like..some pyschotic rapist. She doesn't even want to hear what I have to say. She doesnt even want to give it a CHANCE! It's just an automatic NO. I understand leaving the country and going near the middle east is probably not the best or smartest idea right now. But i dont see what the issue is. We'll be in Italy and Greece. I dont know what i can do to change her mind. I thought about talking to my teacher and seeing if he would be willing to meet with them sometime this week or next to talk with them about it. but that might make things worse. I dont want to aggravate my mom because then she'll say no and leave it there. but i want her to understand that i really want to do this. I just dont know what to do! ugh :( does anyone know of something i can do or say that will get her to listen to me? (link)
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Well, ask her to give you a reason that (yourage here) would be acceptable. She might be just paranoid. And if she cant give you a good awnser then tell her you want to go and your not going to be killed, raped, ect. This country doesnt have what italy. Talk a tad bad at the US, Make it look like you`ll gain alot from Italy, do some reseach and talk aboot what you want to see. But dont pull the Parania card out to fast. save it for last!!! Trust me she`ll flip! Cry or something, your fighting a wall, meet her paranoia non-logic with pure logic and your disire to go see everything you want in Italy. If all fails make fun, act happie and say paranoia.
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I was just wondering after you have sex and the guy finishes in you do you have to take a shower? (link)
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Well, I would think that would be up to you. If you feel dirty and think it would help go ahead but i dont think it would matter etheir way.
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My dad got a rat terrier puppy from a lady that was having to move away. I cannot stand dogs. They're too hyper and stinky and so unintellegent because nobody around my community has trained dogs. Every time I walk outside I get jumped on or he tries to bite my shoes or something. Or he's humping one of his toys. I'm so tired of it! My parents expect ME to play with him. Why should I? It's my dad's dog, not mine! It's not my fault Dad is never home to play with him. How on Earth am I supposed to share my yard with that stupid dog? Please help me out! (link)
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Well, you got to see dogs and humens are not that different, asides form looks and iq they share alot with us, they people to with feelings, they get happy and sad, if you want him to stop messing with you show him that your the top dog around there, show that your bigger and dont like to be touched, If he jumps or tryes to bite you show him you mean bissnes, make him sit, pick him up and move him, DONT HIT THE PUPPY! You dont want to tramatize him, dogs get that and can be scared. And tell him bad!
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14/f/143 lb
Ya, I'm fat. But that's because there's nothing to do! I live miles away from a swimming pool, I'm not into sports like basketball or softball, I get bored of stupid little execises like situps and stretchs that are supposed to work your muscles. I can't get interested in doing anything physical although I know I need to lose weight badly because I look HORRIBLE. But what is there to do? NOTHING holds my attention! (link)
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Hike, if theres some woods go for a walk, and a few miles isnt that bad, at first yeah, but you get used to it pretty quick, be sure to carry some pepper spay, living in the middle of no where isnt that safe you know.
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I just got my braces off and i have a retainer now. My orthodontist told me to wear it all the time except when im eating or brushing my teeth but i was just wondering, if i go like 4 hours without wearing it everyday, will my teeth actually shift? how many of you (with experience with retainers of course)actually wore ur retainer ALL the time? (link)
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Well, It`ll move, it`ll be tighter and its really not worth it to me, and what ever you do dont lose it, i lost me bottom and the went back to how they were, even after having them for like a whole school year
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17/M/Cali
Ok, so from the beginning...
When i first met my two best friends, three actually, but one of them left....so anyways....after i met my two current best friends three years ago...i fell in love with my best friend(lets call her sally) so anyways...i dont mean like, i had a crush, or i liked her for a week or two...i fell in love with this girl...i couldnt get her out of my mind, she was all i could think about for a year and a half...and even though she kind of liked me, and she considered me her best friend, she refused to go out with me on the basis of "because were such good friends and it would be kinda wierd"...so yeah, long story short, i got really depressed, to the point of attempting suicide(they still dont know i tried, no one does) so yeah, eventually, i just kind of gave up hope and got used to being alone, and it was kind of okay....so yeah, fast forward another year and a half, and ive know her and my other best friend(well call this one beth) for a little over three years now...i just recently found out that beth liked me(which is the reason my third friend left, apparently she liked me but never told me, now she hates me for going out with beth) so anyways, i found out she liked me, and since i liked her a little too, i asked her out and weve been going out for going on three months now...so yeah, its always been there, but ive just started to notice that i think i still love sally...i mean, i still like beth, but i love sally, and i do stupid stuff when im with her alone....for example, shes got a LOT of guys that like her, and she comes to me for advice on how to get rid of them(she doesnt like any of them) and everytime she tells me about a new guy, or about any guys period, i get extremely jealous, i still cant get her out of my head, and i still feel really shy around her...i know i dont have a chance with her, shed still think it would be too wierd cuz were best friends so ive given up hope on THAT dream...so does anyone know what would help me not get as jealous? i dont want to get rid of her or anything, i just want to make it a little less awkward for me...any help is appreciated... (link)
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Well, This is like 75% of hwat happen to me. Well in my life lession You need to know nothings gonna happen, or anytime soon, and when your nerves/shy you wont stand a chance in 20 years, I went to prom and went out with her twice, I mean she was a 9 out of 10, but what can and will help you if you seek it Is Buddhism,
Now im sure your like...hell no! But let me tell you what it did to me,
It truned me into a player, even tho im anti-sexual for now, I`ve been offered to join 3 girls going at it. Girls like me cuz now i know what to say, Buddhism Cleared my mind and opened it. I have Manic Depression and some contistion starts with a F that makes everyday a pain, Its like being stabed like 3-30 times a day and it messes up my vains too, So i was hurting my self tried to kill my self 4 times and i thank the higher being up there that im alive, So im all alone, the love of my life says she dont like me, im like a brother!!!!! But since Buddhism Its gone, Its not like im holding it in or back or forcing myself to forget(ive tried that!! It dont work!) Its a Philosophy and a religion, But the Philosophy is what gives you the Thranqwillity, Yes i can use a word like that, Ive been in a state of peace for almost 1 year, Have not gotten mad/sad/anything, Ill i felt is very little boredem and Happieness, And im a very logical person, I have to truely belive in something to belive it, And i belive in it, Cuz i know its true. You find out what are the causes of your anger or any other feeling and then Buddhism will show you how to leave those feelings and get stuck in pure happieness, Remember, You will not find happieness if you dont seek everywhere for it, And I will give you a leed to where freedom from anger and sadness and everything between those make up every other feeling you have, besides happieness.
This is the first Buddhism book, It has the words of the First Buddha, Its right to the point and you can take it out and read it anytime, And you might not inderstand the wisdom right away but you will if you do want happieness. Im on Zen and thats like a whole new state of bliss, and at first i never could understand a thing aboot it, but im getting there. If you do look in to it and got some Qustions or need help hit me up, im always looking for reasons to use my wisdom.
http://www.shambhala.com/html/catalog/items/isbn/1-57062-777-0.cfm
AIM- ahighslomo
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I have been quiet for almost my whole life. I'm not really shy, but I am a little bit. No matter what I said either people don't hear me or they ask me to say it again and it is really getting on my nerves. This is sort of an odd question, but is there some way that I can get in the habit of talking louder? (link)
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Well, I was always the quiet kid in shcool myself, I just parctise talkin gettin my tone right, Then just talk louder. Worked for me, Just buld up that self convindence.
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ok so here's the deal me and muh ex have been dating for 5 years on and off and we really love each other but the problem is we are broken up right now and well 2 of muh best friends like him but i know he likes me and wants to be with me but right now he's into football and i don't want to be in the middle of that cuz football season really sucks with him. anyways i want to be with him so bad but i don't know how to tell him. i mean it's never been hard to tell him how i feel but with these other girls it seems really weird. well...ya i love him and i need him back bad but i'm not sure wat to say. and how do i handle muh friends? thanx!!! (link)
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Well, Guys like alot of space, let him have his fun with that "football" and see where you can fit in, I know that sounds bad but as being a guy and having anyone and loved ones trying to get in the way of funtime that would be spent best with onone or friends who like the game and can relate with, Its in his blood, If his dad was big on it and its only natural he would too, you know? But Let him have his fun, Itll cause less problems cuz it`ll irrate the hell out of him but he might not show it. All I know that a good rarely spent time is a big long lasting meal and some tv and some intoxiants, Goodtimes
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I'm kind of stuck. I've been out of a very long relationship with this guy. I miss him a lot. Thing is, I broke up with him because he liked some other chick. It still bothers me that he likes her and yet "likes me" too. He's the only person that really talks to me. So we're really close. He was like a best friend for me but a little more, you know? But now it's just awkward because we sometimes act like a couple..
I keep hurting myself because I find myself.. wanting to be with him again. I doubt it will happen. A part of me doesn't want to try again either. Is there any way to forget him?
I keep talking to him like.. every night. It's just an old habit. I'm thinking of completely.. letting him go. Forget him. Out of my life thing.
But then I'll have no one to talk to because my friends.. aren't that close to me. [I've tried to be close, believe me.. they push me away.]
So going out with friends isn't going to work. Plans don't get that far with them.
I just need something to keep me busy. I don't know. A new hobby? Or.. something. I really need some help. (link)
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Well, I know of the Perfect thing that well help you if you welcome it with a open mind and determination, It is a Philosophy called Buddhism, You`ll lose your Desire to want him, along with other disires, Ive study for over a year and I havnt been mad or sad for the past 7 months. I almost got beat to death and i didnt get mad/sad at all, Im at a point where im a tad annoyed in a funny way that i cant get mad/sad, Its like the dead, But Im always happy so its cool. And you might not understand alot in the book at first(you`ll need a book) but it will slowly come to you, and the more you understand the happyer you stay, Its like raiseing the rockbottom bar, you know how you feel when you hit rockbottom, you can raise that up where that doesnt get you down
Here the First book a read, Its perfect of beggingers
http://www.overstock.com/cgi-bin/d2.cgi?PAGE=PRODUCT&PROD_ID=637796&cid=80205&fp=F
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ya i already have a question about this but anyway i have a good friend of mine and hes a really cool and i started to like him a lot like more than a freind and i dont kno if he likes me back because me and a group of friends were chillin the other day and when he was talkin like to the whole group he always looked at me when he was talkin and when me and my friend went in her house he kept staring at me.. but i dont know its weird becuse i dont think he does like me because hes into those really pretty girls and im not like that im a tomboy and we both act alike and i dont want to change but i dont know i think he stares at me a lot because im always doing goofy things but i dont know im mad confuesed but can someone help me (link)
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Well, I myself can find any girl ugly to the most prettiest thing alive depending on who they are. I think he might like you. Just act a tad girlish and ask him or something. If yall have been hanging out for a long time then its more likly he does. Or start flirtin with him or stare back! And smile! Good luck.
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18/m
Ok, no matter what i'm always the friend or the creep... somehow i'm always one or the other... i mean i give advice on relationships all the time and help other in real life. WHY CAN'T I HELP MYSELF?!?!
Please help me... This is my last hope (link)
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Mann, I feel you 100%! I was that, The 3th weel, The quite guy, Girls were my "friend" but nothing more. And they where half ass friends too. But that all changed. Find a Hobbie everyone likes that you have. I became the herb Guru. At first it was just chillin at my place getting high on lots of legal and sometimes other plants. We shared lots of good times. Then after a month i was one of the guys, And somewhere along the way I learnd how to be a "Player". And the Girls love me. theres only 2 things you need, Knowlage, To talk to the girls. And when had that, I knew how too bring up the fact i knew alot aboot heral Aphrodisiacs and knew how to ask if they wanted to have some fun. 2 A large member. If you dont have that, get a F**k buddie and learn.
Here are some sites they`ll help you out
http://www.azarius.net/index.php
"http://www.erowid.org/psychoactives/psychoactives.shtml", and reseach the plants part.
http://www.eabsinthe.com/absinthe-strongest-alcohol.htm
And theres nothing wourg with using the words plants if you know what your doing, Have fun in your life and with friends, Have what i call "Goodtimes" And I know some really good recipes for food, milkshakes, drinks that`ll all make everone have what i call "goodtimes" So hit me up if you want to know.
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I feel like i have lost my self respect and my rights of my own body. Last night, i had a really bad experience, me and my 2 best friends got drunk. One of my friends was sober, and me and my other friend were very drunk. Late last night, me and the drunk friend decided to go outside, and when we passed by the bus stop, 2 men told pulled us to a field and they started doing things to us, no one was around to help us or to get them away from us. After about 20 minutes, my sober friend who was inside and not looking after us, came running outside to find the 2 men and me and my friend in the field. She yelled at the men, called me and my friend sluts and stuff, and then the men ran away. I dont know how to gain some self confidence back, i am hurt and tromautized by those men who took advatage of me and my best friend. I need something to make me feel better, but i don't trust anyone to tell them what happened. Even my sober friend does not know what they did to us. Advice please! (link)
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Well, Just be glad you dont remember, My friend had something like that happen to her and she reliveds it every night. You have to relize what those men have done was wourg, and theres nothing you can do to take that back, But what you can do is make sure it never happens again! You cant trun back the clock but you know how to pervent that happening again. Whats done is done. And you you have self-respect, when you truely lose your self-respect is when you let this stuff happen again, and again. It happen to my friend 3 times b4 she learned. Just be glad it didnt trun out worst, You could be dead, or having a kid. Just put the past behide you and look to other drugs.
Heres some good sites for that,
http://www.azarius.net/index.php
http://www.erowid.org/psychoactives/psychoactives.shtml
Some of the better drugs are lsa, Salvia Divinorum, and the happy caps are realy good.
And If you want I made a recipe for what i call the magic Blunt, You`ll see thing, and feel realy good, But i`ll take atleast 5 people to finsh it.
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i have acne on my cheeks, forehead like between my eyebrows, and around my nose. i think i have combination skin, its not like overly oily but it does get oily and it can get dry in spots. anyway, the acne on my cheeks ive had for like a really long time..like months.. its not like whiteheads or anything like that, its just little bumps almost. i think they may be acne scars. what can i do to get rid of them? also, what products should i use daily for my skin. ive already tried proactive, it doesnt work for me. right now i use neutrogena oil-free acne wash and it seems to keep other pimples from coming but isnt making the ones i have now go away. what should i do? thanks (link)
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Well, what i do thats for free is take a hot I mean hot! Where you have to get used to it hot! and stuck your face as close as you can get to the shower head everyday! It helps your skin and helps get rid of the acne. And wash your face 2-6 times a day. With hott water. If you mean the bumps are coming from under the skin then use the shower head thing as long as you can, When i do it i see that get get smaller within min, and seen to get smaller everyday, But they grow slowly thouthout the day it seems so i did it 3 times a day with the sink and once with the shower a day. And your skin well feel so nice after a week or two too.
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uuum i was just wondering... why the hell do you want cannibals to be legalized? that's retarted. would you like someone to eat you? no. i thought not. (link)
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You need to learn how to read women! I want Cannabis legal in all ways shapes and from. The laws that the USA has against cannabis is killing people, Why should the law be more harmfull then the drug? The drug was made illegal because of racism! Dont belive me? trun on the history channel. A show called Hooked:Marijuana even says it. If you havnt done your reseach then you cant say shit! Like you cant tell a brain surgen how to do something when you never even read aboot the brain! Its Ignorant! Pure Ignorants! If you want the law to stay then you belive a non-voilent person just staying in his home after a hard days worth of work cant light up? Does he have to etheir drink and kill brain cells along with other parts of his body? If he wants to smoke he has to smoke a highly addictive poison called tobaco? So you half to kill your self to get high? Nobody has died from cannabis! Look it up if you think differently, if you dont want to then shut your fucking mouth! And think for awhile. Could i tell you something you know is right is wourg? How does that make you feel? Having somebody tell you pure ignorance? Saying they know but cant back it up? You think they sound stupid as fuck wouldnt you? So do reseach or your voice wont even matter to the people on your side.
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does the 6 second ab thing work at all? and if it does when will i see results? (link)
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well, No! If you want result then you have to work! goto a GMC, buy some fish oil pills or something, and maybe some herbs for energy, then work your abs, hold a weight above you if you were standing up, lay down, then hold your arms in place then do as many as you can, let go of the weight then do it a again. take the fish oil, i`ll help your muscle heal and get bigger, take real hot "baths" that`ll help heal the mucle to you can hurry and build more mucle. it can take years to have perfect abs and mounths to have good so you dont want too waste time. And also work out your other mucles the same way for fast building but effect
Here are some herbs to give you a energy boost, Caffine isnt a good drug to take to work out with.
http://www.azarius.net/cat_energy_herbs.html
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