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Love Life a dud
18/m
Ok, no matter what i'm always the friend or the creep... somehow i'm always one or the other... i mean i give advice on relationships all the time and help other in real life. WHY CAN'T I HELP MYSELF?!?!
Please help me... This is my last hope
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I agree with the person below me. In fact, I feel the same way sometimes. You can give brillant advice to others, but for some reason you cant seem to figure out what to do in your own situation. Its unfortunate, but it happens to the best of us. Next time you have a dilemma, maybe you should think of it this way, if you saw your kind of problem on advicenators.. what advice would you give that person?
Its deffinately not just you, so dont feel alone!
Hope I helped,
if you need anything drop one in my inbox.
-Jacki
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Well a lot of people have that problem,you probably think that maybe I should help myself first then help other people.You may not be able to since either you're too busy helping others or it's stress or you don't have enough strength to help yourself.But first find which of these is your problem,work on it,then improve yourself on something you're really interested to give you enough energy to solve the problem/problems then try to build your mind with positive thought's instead of the negative,and you'll be able to have hope again in yourself.
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Mann, I feel you 100%! I was that, The 3th weel, The quite guy, Girls were my "friend" but nothing more. And they where half ass friends too. But that all changed. Find a Hobbie everyone likes that you have. I became the herb Guru. At first it was just chillin at my place getting high on lots of legal and sometimes other plants. We shared lots of good times. Then after a month i was one of the guys, And somewhere along the way I learnd how to be a "Player". And the Girls love me. theres only 2 things you need, Knowlage, To talk to the girls. And when had that, I knew how too bring up the fact i knew alot aboot heral Aphrodisiacs and knew how to ask if they wanted to have some fun. 2 A large member. If you dont have that, get a F**k buddie and learn.
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And theres nothing wourg with using the words plants if you know what your doing, Have fun in your life and with friends, Have what i call "Goodtimes" And I know some really good recipes for food, milkshakes, drinks that`ll all make everone have what i call "goodtimes" So hit me up if you want to know.
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Hey,
I understand what you mean and what you are going through. And i have a point of view there, umm... sometimes there a people who like to help others and give them advice and draw a smile on their faces, but then sometimes we get caught up in helping other people with their lives, and we forget all about ourselves and out own lives.
You have given alot of advice to people and helped them in their relationships,that is something great and very helpful and i am sure that they are so grateful for that. And helping people doesn't make you a creep, because then it would make everyone on this website a creep lol, its something good and i respect you for what you do, and its good to be a freind, you don't always have to date and get into relationship trouble and break up then date then break up, you are just fine the way you are.And if there was someone who liked you and wanted to be with you, then he wouldn't hesitate to do so.
So maybe you got carried away in helping other people that you forgot your own self.So what? Do the opposite, help yourself and live your life and find someone who you love and she'd love you back, and have some fun. And in the same time, you can help other people. Its not a big deal, but a person has to fix his life first before fixing others lives.
Look at me, for example, i wake up everyday from 7 in the morning, and come here on this website to wait for anyone having a hard time or a problem, even if it is the silliest easiest problem, and i give all the advice and help i can give. And i feel so happy when i do that, because i know that i have helped someone and put a smile on his face.
And guess what, i do not have a boyfriend, and i do not have any friends at all. And yet i do not call myself a creep, because when i help people and give them advice, this is more important to me than any freind or boy that i will ever know.
Your helping people, and that means that you are doing something so amazing and great beyond what you can imagine. And its like when people go to sleep crying and feeling like shit, and then you help them and give them advice and make them listen to what they want to hear, and so they wake up the next day, happier than anytime you have ever seen them in.
yOu are a sweet, kind, caring, loving, and a helpful person, and i respect you so much.
So don't let anything stand in your way,and don't let anything stop you from living your own life and drawing a smile on your own face. You have helped alot and you deserve to have a good life of your own. So don't you dare call yourself a creep ,because you are most definitely not.
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Friendships usually blossom into bigger and better things, love relationships are always alot stronger when you've known the person alot longer...
Are you sure you've been looking for love? I think your waiting for it, and it doesn't come after you, you go after it....
Look around, there has to be one person you like, maybe one of your friends even, now wouldn't you like to see that relationship blossom into something better??
Maybe you won't find love now, maybe not for awhile, but when you find it, you will surely understand that it is worth the wait....
Good Luck
Tyler~
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