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Sup mother focko my names Amber!?!I have an awesome boyfriend named Steve. I like to party and hang out with friends. Music is my life... always have to be listening to it. I definitely love giving advice!
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I have two guaranteed jobs; one at the bowling alley and one at the nursing home. The bowling alley would be more fun, and has the hours I want to work, but the nursing home pays better and I get to help old people. Which should I choose?
i would definitely choose a bowling alley because you will have more fun. Nursing homes arent exactly fun and it smells pretty rank in there.
Okay so im 16 and im kinda seeing this guy and we just started saying "i love you" to each other. He tells me he really means it and im the only one he says it too. But i was looking at some of the comments hes got and a girl commented him "really? i love you more" and i saw the comment he left her and it said "i love you so much" he told me they were just really good friends but they used to date. Now I dont know if he is lying to me and just making up an excuse about being really good friends or if he just said it. but i can't figure out why he would say something like that if he didn't mean it. Does anyone know what i can say to him about it?
He could just be using you...because i had the same situation only the guy i was sort of seeing went out ever weekend and fuck a ton of girls then would come home to me and be like baby your the only one i care about. So if hes anything like the guy i WAS dealing with dont bother with him find a new and better guy. Since then i did and now im happy with a boyfriend who treats me right.
17 female
I use to babysit my cousin who has autism but then his mom my other cousin fired me becouse I lost him well i thought i did anyway.I looked all over the house for him and when I couldn't find him I got scared so i called my cousin and we got the whole family on a search for him all over the neighborhood when he was in the bathroom the whole time.
How can I make it up to them?
Haha look better next time
im 15. i still love my ex, travis. but he treated me like crap. so ive been trying to get over him and i met this guy named dillion. he is really nice, cute, and would never treat a girl bad. and i was considering goin out with him. and then my ex starting talking to me and he was saying he thinks we will probably go out again. i was so happy but i dont want to get hurt AGAIN but i cant help it no matter how many amazing guys i meet he is always the one i want. dillion is goin to be upset. and i will feel really bad because he was so great to me. what should i do
Go for dillion because as they say once a cheater always a cheater it pretty much the same only replacing cheater with asshole for instance. But maybe he thinks he can always get you back and your proving him right so thats why hes an asshole.
ok well heres the thing ive been going out with my boyfriend scence last tuesday. and i feel kinda distant from him i guess. also im kinda worried because i heard this rumar recently that with every girlfriend he's had, he's had sex with. and im not that type of girl, i think he might know that..but still i dont want him to be takin it too slow. i mean we dont hold hands we havent kissed yet. we've only hugged. i just want him to know its ok to kiss me.. what shoyuldi do to give him the hint??
Well personally if your going out with him id just start making out with him and when he gets to the point you dont want to get to just tell him to stop but everyone would say to "talk" to him but i prefer to take action vs. talk and so do the guys.
im 15 from england. i think i might be pregnant..
how much are abortions in england?!
is there any where i can get it done where my parents wont find out??
any where i can go for advice?
please dont judge me..
Fuck all them other bitches that say dont have an abortion cuz they're fucking stupid if they think a 15 year old can provide a good life for a baby...Go to your local heath clinic or call them they'll give you all the details
hey,
My name is justin. i am going to have sex with my girl for the first time.i was just woundering about if i need to shave or trim the area below because i hadn't ever do that and im am kinda hairry in that area.
so wat girl prefer to keep it ,trim or shave it?
and iam asking girl.Please give me your opinion honestly because i am kinda enbarassed to ask my girl that question.
Another question : iam goin to buy condom, and my deck is like 14 cm long, so wat condom size should i buy?
tanx for ur patient and answering my question soon.
justin'
Idk bout the hole shaving thing but FUCKING TRIM god damn ALL GUYS NEED TO TRIM its gross if you dont. Its too bad that like not everyone knows they need to trim good thing u do.
I'm almost 21 and I admit it my boyfriend and I don't always use a condom, but I've been on the pill for years and never had an issue. Till recently when I was sick, the Dr gave me antibiotics but didn't tell me that they would make my birthcontrol inaffective. To make matters worse I forgot to start my newest round of pills after my last cycle. For two weeks now I've been waiting patiently for any signs that my period is coming and nothing has happened other than nausa and dizzyness, and being un able to zip up a dress I made a month ago. I haven't had the courage to take the test yet, mostly cause I'm pretty positive about what it will say. But now here comes the hard part how do I tell my boyfriend that by this time next year we could very well be parents, how do I tell him that because of one little known fact and my preoccupation with my job on campus that our whole lives are about to change. I need some advice from people outside of my cirlce of friends and family someone who has nothing to gain or lose.
First of all dont go tellin him shit until you find out for sure that you are pregnat from how you described it, it sounds like a definate possibility but it might just be a pregnancy scare...But you need to sit down with him ::in privacy:: and tell him that you took medicine that made your birth control inactive or w/e happend. Alot of guys will walk out and be like its not mine and shit like that...if hes like that then hes an asshole and isnt gonna be there for your child basically.
So I'm a nice person, I get a long with people. A lot of the time, if I'm mad at someone, its for a real reason. Other than that I'm really down to earth, and I love everyone. But sometimes, I feel like I don't look as if I'm nice. Sometimes people tell me I look stuck up. Which I do. I don't concentrate on my facial expressions..but they always make me look rude or annoyed with someone. Haha. I don't get it. And that's why sometimes people don't talk to me, because it looks like I'm stuck up. But I'm not! I don't know what to do..help?
Haha ya people get that vibe off of me too and im not like bitchy or anything if you catch me before someone pisses me off in a major way lol. Just talk to people even if you dont know them cuz then you'll also have more friends.
16/f.
So theres this girl..I've been friends with her for so long, a couple of years. Well last year, at the end, I sort of had a little crush on her. I never really thought anything of it. Well over the summer, I had a little thing with a lesbian, not a full on relationship, but just a thing. So i discovered that I'm bisexual. Anyway, back to my friend. I like her, a lot. I always think about her, and things I wanna do with her. I invited her to my house to spend the night, but that ended up not working out because of my parents being tierd. Anyway. She knows I'm bi, and that I have a crush on her, I told her. But she won't admitt she's bi or lesbian to me becuase she thinks I'm gonna tell my best friend. I mean I love my friend so much, I wouldn't tell my bestie anything. She just doesnt trust me. It sucks. So I'm not sure what to do, I drop hints so much, and I'm all over her every chance I get (haha) but nothings really progressing. What should I do? Should I ask her out? And what about people at school? Like my friends...I'm not sure how they'll react about me going out with a girl. I've never had girlfriend girlfriend relationship with anyone. I just want her so badly..and I don't want her to be a booty call at all..I want an actual relationship with her. I wanna make her happy, and smile and everything. I hate seeing her sad. I just want her happy with EVERYTHING.
Well maybe she's not sure what sexual orientation she is yet. Maybe the hole thing with you and her made he question her being straight or w/e she was before. Tell her how you feel and explain to her how much you care about her. Lifes to short just let shit like that pass so talk to her dont back down if you really care for her that much.
Hi...I liked this guy for 3 years now.And everyday at school i see him in the hallway and he sees me 2.Iwant to know 2 things.
1.How do i get him to notice me without him knowing?
2.How do i know if he likes me?
Thanx 4 your help!
Just try to look your best everday and go up to him and start talking to him...lifes to short for all you know he could be wanting to talk to you. I had the same thing and i never said anything come to find out now 5 years later that the hole time we actually both liked eachother but now it'll never happen cuz we grew apart
hey everyone well im a 15/f and i need some help.. well ok my ipod isn't updating it says it doesn't have enough room to put more songs on.. and its the ipod nano which is 2 gygabytes and it can hold 500 songs and mines can't even hold like 390 songs!! what should i do?
It can hold 500 songs but thats not including pictures that takes up some of the memory and if the songs are longer than your average song than that also takes up more memory. If you still think that there something wrong take it back to were you got it from and they should fix it.
I`m 14/f I have hair down there. Should I shave it off or what I mean I think it`s really nasty so what`s the best way to get rid of it other then getting it waxed!?
I say shave rather than waxing because waxing hurts like a bitch trust me lol.
Can anyone teach me how to blow dry my hair straight? Like step by step or something like it. I DO NOT have a round brush, so please teach me a way that doesn't include one, thanks!
When you blow dry it blow dry it by layers. Leave like 1/4 of your hair down and put the rest of it up then blow dry it while your brushing through it then let down another portion of it and do the same thing.
There is this guy named Thomas that I really like. We are pretty good friends, and he's really nice. He's athletic, funny, nice, cool, fun, kinda cute, and everything I want. But I have recently realized that I like him more than a friend. I'm almost positive that he likes me, too. And when he is driving down the road, he makes a point to stop his truck, just to say hi, and if I'm walking past his house, he comes out side, sometimes in just boxers to say hi, and give me a hug. But there is two problems, #1- He is 16 and I am only 13, and #2- He has slept with half the girls in our Jr/Senior High School. What do I do???
signed,
LeeAnna Sears, 13, Girl
Age aint nothing but a number. I'm with a guy who 17 and im 14. The hole him being a man whore thing ya my guy is exactly like that too it doesnt bother me. If it doesnt bother you then definitely go for it.
do guys care if a girl has really small boobs i mean when you are like having sex and they take your bra off would they be little turned off about it please help i am 15 105pounds and have an A cup and i feel really uncomfortable about it and i really want to have sex soon so guys what would you think
Ya i had the same problem as you. But actually when this guy tried to take off my bra i straight up told him to leave it on cuz i was self concious about my boobs and he was ok with it.
15/f I am not a very sexually active person and have never gone past 1st base. My question is if while masturbating you break you own hymen are you no longer a virgin? Like if a guy asked you if you were or does it not really count?
It doesn't matter if you broke your hymen you are still a virgin until you have actual sex with a guy.
-Amber
is it bad for you to masterbate with the water fasit from the bathtub?
Nope it's not bad for you. You're completely safe doing that.
Well ok, so me and my bf are almost to our 3rd month anniversary right. He was in a different country for a month. But when he came back. We realized how much we have changed the past almost 2 months. I love him very much but we just changed a lot. He is one of those guys that get very jealous easily. When I'm with my guy friends he's always soo jealous. I told him he had nothing to worry about. I Love him not anyone else. Then right now we've been really into a lot of arguments and its really hard to be with him right now. He has a lot in his life and I do also. Its just really frustrating. My friends have told us that we just needed a break, but I don't think that will resolve anything. I think that way, we'll get farther apart. I don't want that. I don't know what to do right now. Its hard and painful for both of us. Please I know this is very ummm not clear but yeah. I just need some comment about this. Should I keep the relationship or just let him go?
People change over time and if you find that you aren't happy with eachother than move on. It a really hard thing to do though but only you can make the decision if you guys are ment to be together or not. Instead of arguing try talking it out. If you think you can deal with your differences than try to work it out.
hey im 15/f so my period is really irregular like it will go a few months without showing up. so is this normal n could it affect me having kids?
My period used to be really irregular too but it's ok now. One of the things that the doctor recommended to me was getting me on birth control to regulate it. And I doubt that it will effect you having kids but if your gonna have kids i'd wait a little bit if your only 15. But if it doesnt start to regulate within 4 more periods i'd think about talking to your mom or who ever about taking you to the doctor. Goodluck!