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my bf
Well ok, so me and my bf are almost to our 3rd month anniversary right. He was in a different country for a month. But when he came back. We realized how much we have changed the past almost 2 months. I love him very much but we just changed a lot. He is one of those guys that get very jealous easily. When I'm with my guy friends he's always soo jealous. I told him he had nothing to worry about. I Love him not anyone else. Then right now we've been really into a lot of arguments and its really hard to be with him right now. He has a lot in his life and I do also. Its just really frustrating. My friends have told us that we just needed a break, but I don't think that will resolve anything. I think that way, we'll get farther apart. I don't want that. I don't know what to do right now. Its hard and painful for both of us. Please I know this is very ummm not clear but yeah. I just need some comment about this. Should I keep the relationship or just let him go?
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im im the same situation! except my boyfriend was only gone but everything else is the same. well,breaking up with him isnt the answer. i thought it was too and i did that the other day and then 5 minutes later regretted it so much and now we're back together. you have to let him know that you feel things are different but you love him alot and dont wanna let him go. try to stay off topics that could cause arguments when you're talking to him.oh and about the jealousy thing, this is a sign that this guy really is in love with you cause my boyfriend is the same way..hes just insecure and doesnt wanna lose you thats all! you just gotta keep reassuring him. if your friends tell you to take a break but thats not what you want then definetely dont do it because you have to listen to your heart and give this relationship another chance.
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People change over time and if you find that you aren't happy with eachother than move on. It a really hard thing to do though but only you can make the decision if you guys are ment to be together or not. Instead of arguing try talking it out. If you think you can deal with your differences than try to work it out.
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Awwe! Well First of all you 2 shouldn`t brake up over this , what I mean is that he`s a guy that Loves you oh so much & he dosen`t like you being around other guys , he just wants you to himself. & It`s pretty normal to kind of change when 2 people who ar ein Love with eachother don`t see eachother for a month or two! I think you guys need to like han gout or call eachother over the phone and talk to eachother because braking up obviously won`t solve a thing but talking it out will! & if you think it seems like he dosen`t like you anymore , don`t brake up with him because it sure seems like he really cares about you & wants to be with you! Good Luck! I hope everything works out with you guys! ♥ ♥
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