There is this guy named Thomas that I really like. We are pretty good friends, and he's really nice. He's athletic, funny, nice, cool, fun, kinda cute, and everything I want. But I have recently realized that I like him more than a friend. I'm almost positive that he likes me, too. And when he is driving down the road, he makes a point to stop his truck, just to say hi, and if I'm walking past his house, he comes out side, sometimes in just boxers to say hi, and give me a hug. But there is two problems, #1- He is 16 and I am only 13, and #2- He has slept with half the girls in our Jr/Senior High School. What do I do???
caramella answered Friday July 28 2006, 6:52 pm: i dont see a problem with the age difference but in my opinion i think hes a player.C'mon he slept with half the girls in your jr/senior high school!And if you ever DO get to be with him then seriously forget about unprotected sex cuz he SO 100% has STD's...think of it he slep with a girl in high school...shes slept with another guy before...hes slept with another girl and the guy you like is carrying all of THAT.I think you should try to keep away from him cuz youll be really devastated when he brakes up with you one day and you find out you have std's.try to stay "freinds" [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
BLONDShorty answered Friday July 28 2006, 6:28 pm: age doesn't seem to matter here. the age difference is not so huge. don't let the thing about the girls bother you unless he is still that way. but, that happened in the past, and this is the present. lol. so, i think that there's no problem here. just go for it. age doesn't mean anything here [ BLONDShorty's advice column | Ask BLONDShorty A Question ]
ItzMzManda answered Friday July 28 2006, 6:03 pm: hey there!
i think that you should try getting to know him more and become even better friends with him because you guys will make your friendship stronger. age doesn't matter. if you dont mind that he's been with other girls than take a chance. remember just be careful and dont let pressure make your decisions. i hope i helped!
hOwithanE answered Friday July 28 2006, 5:29 pm: Age aint nothing but a number. I'm with a guy who 17 and im 14. The hole him being a man whore thing ya my guy is exactly like that too it doesnt bother me. If it doesnt bother you then definitely go for it. [ hOwithanE's advice column | Ask hOwithanE A Question ]
Alexandkendra answered Friday July 28 2006, 5:27 pm: Dear Leeanna sears,
this is so cute,i think you should just tell him that you like him.Whats the worst that can happen? I mean if your postive he has a thing for you. And like the girl below me said i doubt he'll pressure you to sleep with him.
i hope i was a help
- Alex [ Alexandkendra's advice column | Ask Alexandkendra A Question ]
shannonbond answered Friday July 28 2006, 5:18 pm: Aw, he seems sweet. Well, if you like him just keep talking to him & such. If the thing about him sleeping with the girls bugs you, then don't get with him. If it doesn't, then get with him. I doubt he'll pressure you to sleep with him, but if he does & you're not ready, just say no. He seems like he likes you to me, so I'd just keep talking to him & try to become more than friends. :] [ shannonbond's advice column | Ask shannonbond A Question ]
here4you,emily answered Friday July 28 2006, 5:12 pm: I am i6 and yesterday i told my ex boyfriend who is 25 to break up...25...Not 19...He is not that older, is he????No!!!!Come on...Give him a chance!!!!!And if you are not ready having sex etc you will not have sex!This is an order!!!!!!!!:DIf he wants it that much that he can't wait tell him that you don't want to be with him.......Don't get stressed, be yourself and have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D;) [ here4you,emily's advice column | Ask here4you,emily A Question ]
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