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best friend=backstabber
okay i have this "best" friend that i have been friends with for such a long time. well in the middle of the school year i really liked but he started liking her. even though she knew i liked him she would still hang out with him and kiss him & everything even though she did have a boyfriend that she claimed to be in "love" with. well her & her boyfriend broke up cause he started liking our other friend and my "best" friend cried and when i told her that it was basically the same thing she did to me but our other friend wasnt interested in her ex, she told me to fuck off.. i never trusted her but i still hang out with her. well i got over that i guess and now me and this kid jake are together but now going out. i REALLY like him and i know he really likes me too. we always hang out and i lost my virginity to him. but yesterday my "best" friend told my other friend shelby "jakes cute..hes definantly a cutie..i'd go out with him if i didnt have a boyfriend." she didnt say anything about me liking him. and i didnt tell her i lost my virginity to him. she knows he likes me too and when i confronted her about it there was a long pause and she was like "no if i didnt have a boyfriend. i'd go out with kid mark.. but i only said that to make my boyfriend mad.." then there was another pause and she was like "i dont like jake" i dont know if i can trust her around him. i know that he wouldnt do anything cause he's such a nice guy but i dont know. what should i do about her? i told jake what she said and all he said was "she's dumb" or something like that. and i dont think he thinks anything of her cause he started kissing me in front of her when she came over last night. so what should i do?
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Its obvious you have a very very sweet boyfriend. Your best friend is a bitch. plain and simple. If i were you i would not hang out with her anymore! I was in a similar situation and it was really really hard for me to get away from her. but i knew that she really was my friend shes just mean and doesnt realize that shes doing something wrong. If i were you just kinda break away from her. Start hanging out with your bf. he seems really reliable and sweet. Ditch your friend. shes not a good friend and you dont deserve to go along with someone who isnt nice to you and doesnt respect your feelings. Hope i helped
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You can't be with a friend who is going to try to take your boyfriend, lose the friend who isn't worth it,I don't want to alert you or anything but if you don't she is going to definitely take advantage that you too are friends to try getting close to him,try seducing him I strongly would advice you to take my advice.You deserve to be happy with someone,and don't let this happen to you again okay.
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this girl seems like a real slut! if you see that she is trying to do anything, then i think you should take a stand and tell her that she is just so insecure of herself, that she has to mess with other people just to get a kick out of it. tell her to get a life. but, as for now, i think that she just wants you to be worried. she probably enjoys it and gets pleasure out of watching other people worry. if she does, take a stand. but so, pretend that she's not bothering you. maybe she'll lay off
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