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hey whats up my names ashley .... im basically outgoing and im a very sweet girl =)
Gender: Female
Location: pennsylvania
Occupation: administrative assistant
Age: 16
Member Since: July 28, 2006
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I am 17 years old i have a 2 month old daughter but i am married and have been for a year to the babys father. Well i have just come across a very serious problem. My husband i have been sleeping together but we used protection but i think i might be pregnant again is that possible. I am very scared. I know if i am everyone is going to say i am a slut and im so worried but wwe both have jobs and stuff but i am scared of what a=our families wil say what do i do. (link)

Since you're married, no one can say you're a slut. If they do, they're wrong. Don't be scared. Having kids while you are married is a good thing. Don't worry about what anyone could say. As long as you and your husband are happy everything is fine. Focus on yourself and your family. Good luck


I have a boyfriend. But last night I had a dream where I was making out with this guy I used to like. Is that some kind of sign that I should be with him? Or does it mean that deep down I still like him? What does it mean? (link)
i think about past crushes alll the time. it's probably just lust... doesn't necessarily mean anything.


earlier this year i dated a guy. we dated for almost 2 months and then i broke up with him because i felt that i didnt really like him any more. and now we are friends. i know that he still has feelings for me because his best friend told me. but lately ive felt like i like him again. but im afraid that if we went out again that the same thing would happen again. should i tell him i wanna date him again or should we just stay friends? (link)
well since you said you're starting to like him again, chances are you really do this time. probably before you weren't so into it, but now that you miss him you truly are so i think since he still likes you you shouldn't pass up the chance to see him again. if you do he could move on and you'd regret it.


the subject pretty much explains it all... (link)
whenever you need to ... but probably every week or so but if they grow in fast probably in three days ... if you want to have them waxed that would be like every two weeks


I need help asap.I have a LG1500 phone.. Ive had some small problems with it but yesterday i used my phone at practice and it was fine.. i used it on teh way home and a short while after .. about a half hour later i go in and pick up my phone and my buttons 369 are working as 147 so i have 2 147's!!! && i dont know what to do becuase i need teh 369 buttons.. Somehow i got the buttons working about 10 minutes ago for a few seconds.. long enoguh to finaly type in my secerty code to listen to my voicemail from yesterday around 11... i reset my phoen twice adn i dont knwo waht else to do.. please help! (link)
i don`t know what`s wrong with your phone, but i think since you can`t keep it working right you should go to the store where you bought it and tell a salesperson your problem. if they can`t fix it they`ll have to give you a new one.


WELL my friend is way over weight...and she wears a 2 peice, and she looks really sick in it. She's really just embarassing herself by wearing it. How do i tell her this!? Or should i just let her embarass herself?...Help..its really sick!! (link)
ask her to go shopping with you and pick up a bunch of one piece suits or whatever would look decent on her. tell her she looks better with a one peice.


i am going to be a freshman in high school this year and i am starting to panic, will someone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)

don't worry about going to high school whatsoever. i'm a junior and i when i was a freshman i was nervous about it, but truly the freshman year is the best year. you can totally fuck arond. don't do bad in school or anything, but you don't have to take it all that seriously. you'll meet a lot of new people and make a lot of new friends. just be nice to everyone and have fun.


do u want to talk to me plezzzzzzzzzz (link)
suree lol ... if you have a screen name mine is x3jodorecouture


How do I get my boyfriend, (From two years ago) back? We flirt sometimes, but we weren't in classes together last year. He's the perfect guy, like exactly what I look for. I'm great at flirting, and it'll seem like he likes me. But, I want us to go back out again. The new school year will be starting soon, maybe we'll get classes together. Tips? (link)
say something like do you ever see us going back out?


im not sure weather or not to shave below .. i know ill be doing something soon becuase im kidna getting close to this boy and everytime we see each other we make out but it never got any further. but i think hes going to be going down or something and i wanna be ready .. and i dont know if i should shave all of it off.. help please ... rating (link)
if you don't want to you don't HAVE to, but most guys prefer it and also i think it makes you feel better and cleaner.


i like this guy a lot, problem is i almost never see him and now that he doesn't have a girlfriend i feel like its my chance to tell him i like him. i don't know how to tell him or what to do! we are good friends but through family so i don't have his phone #, he has aim but never goes on, and the next time i'll see him is when school starts. i'm 15 and he's 16 if that helps anyone! Thanks! (link)
i had a similar situation ... next time you see him ask him to hang out and see how that goes ... then when you're ready to tell him how you feel, go for it. good luck =)


This has been confusing me for awhile. People tell me I'm pretty all the time. And when I go to camp or leave my town, the guys all want me. But when I'm home, it seems like they want nothing to do with me. Guys also have said I'm hot and whatever, but why do they not make a move? I'm so confused and so sick of people saying, your pretty and me not getting any guys. Why do you think this is? (link)
i had the same problem! they didnt to get with me because i was shy and the guys thought i was stuck up. once i became more outgoing, more guys opened up. try smiling more and talking a little more. =)


There is this guy named Thomas that I really like. We are pretty good friends, and he's really nice. He's athletic, funny, nice, cool, fun, kinda cute, and everything I want. But I have recently realized that I like him more than a friend. I'm almost positive that he likes me, too. And when he is driving down the road, he makes a point to stop his truck, just to say hi, and if I'm walking past his house, he comes out side, sometimes in just boxers to say hi, and give me a hug. But there is two problems, #1- He is 16 and I am only 13, and #2- He has slept with half the girls in our Jr/Senior High School. What do I do???

signed,
LeeAnna Sears, 13, Girl (link)
he is probably using you to get some. you should still hang out or whatever but don't let him take advantage of you ... he probably has STD's!


ok so last night i have this guy come over to my house and we were makin out and shit and he then started to finger me. It got harder and harder. He fingered me so hard tht i was hurting after wards and i didnt tell him to stop goin so hard because i didnt want to look stupid. it even hurt when i had to go to the bathroom. well i thought it was just the one night thing. but now im hurtin again and still when i go to the bathroom.. if anyone has any advice on what this good be or if its normal. everything is appreciated. (link)
it's possible you could have gotten an infection ... like if his hand wasnt completely clean or something ... or he could have just scratched something ... i think you should call your doctor. feel better =)


This is NOT a joke. I seriously think my house is haunted. Tonight I saw something (a black figure out of the corner of my eye) walk past my room. The reason why I dont think it was "just my eyes playing a trick on me" is because I felt a prescence, like there was someone there. When I looked down the hall, there was no one there. I asked my Dad who was watching TV in another room if it was him and he said, "No." And my Mom was sleeping in her room and no one else was home. Please help! This has happened 3 or 4 times and I cant sleep at night! What should I do?? Has this happened to anyone else? How did you feel less scared? :( (link)

i've had something like that happen to me. i never believed in ghosts until i saw one in my bedroom. my best friend and i were talking we both saw a ghost walk out of my closet ... it was a boy and he was really white ... we couldnt see his face and in like 2 seconds he disappeared. i've seen him a few times after that night. i would get scared but then i would say to myself that whatever it is, it is not alive anymore and it can't hurt me. i haven't seen it since. really the best thing to do is ignore it. try not to be scared, it'll be ok =)


Ok well my bestfriend, she was like my bestfriend ever & like now I just feel like shes replacing me with one of her other friends. cause she used to be like a sister to me and now like we barley talk & i tried to talk to her about it & ask her if she was trying to replace me and she even said i dont know. it really hurts and i was like crying for a while trying to think everything over & i just dont know what to do cause i love her shes like my sister & i deffently dont wanna stop being friends with her. I dont know what to do to make her understand cause talking to her wont work? any other sugjestions? =/ (link)

i know what you mean. sometimes i get jealous when my best friend who is like a sister to me chooses to hang out with her other close friend over me and i feel hurt. but the thing is, if a best friend is TRULY your best friend, she would never replace you. if she's not going to treat you with more respect, then she's not a very good friend. if talking to her won't work, then don't talk to her. why should you waste your time? if she really loves you she will appologize and work it out, if not then she's fake and you deserve a better girl to be your best friend.




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