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should i date him again?
earlier this year i dated a guy. we dated for almost 2 months and then i broke up with him because i felt that i didnt really like him any more. and now we are friends. i know that he still has feelings for me because his best friend told me. but lately ive felt like i like him again. but im afraid that if we went out again that the same thing would happen again. should i tell him i wanna date him again or should we just stay friends?
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well, in my opinion, everyone deserves a second chance, so give him one. i mean, if you feel like you're digging him, why not give it another shot? yes, the same thing could happen again, but if it does that'll make you realize you don't like him enough to continue a relationship and maybe you're just liking him a little because he's really nice and you can relate and stuff. i've had feelings for my guy friends before, but then whenever i think of us dating or something, i couldn't see it happening. but like i said, give it a shot, see what happens. i hope i helped!
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Well,
If you like him alot and will get jealous if you see someone else with him than you should go for it. You should tell him how you feel.
If you really honestly don't want to go out with him, then just stay close friends. Because in most relationships, you guys stop being friends after you break up.
So think wisely, before you act.
Hope i helped!
Molly
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ok so i totally understand what ure sayign cause iw as in that position this guy asked me out last year we broke up after 2 months lol just like you and then we got bak this year and i've been with him for 10 months. The thing is dont be so caught up on hwo it will turn out in teh future becuase if you do you wont be enjoying teh time with himnow i mean i would go for it and if it doesnt end up tahtw ell then it just wasnt meant to be. IF you are afraid of loosing your friendship with him then maybe talk about it with him and see what he says. Go for it let me kno what happens and if you need anything else.
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just be friends i date the same guy 5 times and it was the same each time just more physical (makeing out and stuff )
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hey,
First of all, i think that you should give it alittle more time, and stay as friends for alittle time longer( but not too long incase he dates someone else!lol) And during this time, try to give your feelings some time to know whether you actually love him and want to be with him again or not.
Then , if your heart wants to be with him, then it shall be, and if not, then i am sure that there are million of boys out there who you would really love and want to be with, and wouldn't lose interest in them after a while.
So think things over, and think of his feelings and how you hurt him last time, and that this shouldn't happen again.And if you really do love him, then you wouldn't lose interest in him. And if you don't ,then a month or two, and you will be huffing and puffing and looking for someone else to flirt with and make out with.
I hope your getting the point that i am trying to cross over to you. And honestly ,i can't really give you a piece of advice in that situation, because it only depends on your heart, and where it leads you. So just simply follow your love, and don't back out or hesitate when it leads you to the person you should be with, because thats the person your heart wants, loves ,cares about and cherishes.
So goodluck:)and if you need any other advice or help then please be free to contact me.
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Wing it. i would say stay friends with him for awhile, and see how long these "feelings" for him last. if they last about 2 months or more go for him. but i would not take the risk of breaking his heart again. it could ruin your friendship now and a possible relationship in the future. stay friends, see how you feel after awhile then go for him.
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I think the best thing for you two is just to stay friends. Because chances are you may stop liking him again & break up with him. & chances are the last reason you broke up with him may happen again. & if you guys break up again chances are it may ruin your friendship for good. So just stay friends with him & you never know another guy may come along. Hope I helped <3
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I think you guys should stay freinds.If you liked him before and got bored of him,then if you get back with him youll get bored of him AGAIN.I think you really like him a LOT but as a freind.Sometimes when you like a guy freind too much,you think you like them as a crush but your feelings are just not sorted out.Dont go back to him,cuz if you do then leave him again,youll be playing with him and im sure you wouldnt like that to happen to you one day and youll be ruining your freindship together.
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well since you said you're starting to like him again, chances are you really do this time. probably before you weren't so into it, but now that you miss him you truly are so i think since he still likes you you shouldn't pass up the chance to see him again. if you do he could move on and you'd regret it.
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I knew this was coming. Sometime. I had the same problem recently, and trust me, its not easy to deal with. My best guess is that you tell him whats on your mind, and be completely honest. It might hurt him a little bit, but then again, it might not. Just think about it this way. If you were in his place, what would you think? How would you feel? If you like him, tell him. Dont hide it. You never know what could happen. If you're afraid something might happen once you guys are together again-if you choose to be, then tell him that too. Feelings change pretty fast, but if you liked him from the start, and you still think you do, then you might have a better chance of being with him again-without the same thing happening. Good Luck, hun.
-Wicked.
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I think you should just go for it, since you know he's into you and you know there's at least SOME feelings for him that you have left. If you do go out again and then regret it while you are going out with him, try and keep the relationship going, because then you won't be afraid of having the same thing happen again. good luck
matt
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