I'm Crystal. I'm usually really good when it comes to listening and giving advice, I'm just not really good at taking it. :) I've been here and there when it comes to just about everything. I'm a senior in high school, so I'm pretty sure I have experienced almost everything you have. I'm here to help, because I know what it feels like to not have someone around to talk to. :)
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Age: 18
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Ok, so this is kinda weird, but i don't know how to flirt. I've never really tried it before. If i ask a question and say something like "how do i get this guy to like me..." then people will just say to flirt with him. But the thing is that i don't really know how. Could anyone give me some tips? Thanx! (link)
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Ive dealt with this before. Its really easy to flirt with somebody. infact, i'm sure you do it all the time. Just easily exchanging a smile with him/her.. is flirting. Talking to them with a bit of a tone, sometimes being happy about it. Is flirting. Its easy. I promise.
Let me know if you need more information.
=]
-wickedlove
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ok i have aim and when you go away how do you set it where you can see the people who view your away message? (link)
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I used to have the same problem.
if you want to view their name and what tim they looked at your profile
then you go %n=and it gives you ther name.
then you do %t=and it gives you the time.
and then you do %d= and it gives you the date.
hope this helped.
let me know if you need to know anything else about AIM.
later.
-wicked.
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Ok well theres this guy i met about 2 or 3 months ago when i was with my best friend. Well i started talking to him and what not well we were supposed to hang out but never got the chance and he told my friend that he was disappointed that we didnt. well i was on myspace today lookin around and i seen that he put my friend on his top 8..whats the deal with that? i mean he always called me beautiful nd stuff but he put her up there? im not mad it just has me confused because it seems like he really liked me and everyone thought so.. what do you guys think?? (link)
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Ha.
I've heard this before.
Its not that big of a deal really.
Guys change their feelings all the time.
Take it from someone who knows.
Maybe he used you to get to your friend.
Or
Maybe he's just scared to tell you how he feels
and he's trying to talk to your friend about you.
Give it a little more time.
Talk to him
find out whats on his mind.
Good Luck.
-wicked.
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Hey..sorry its soo long i hope you can help im the one usually giving advice if you ever need some ask me!
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could only stay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do?HE was never liek this before and all of a sudden he was acting liek an ass. I'm confused and i think i will regret iof i break up with him but at the same time i want him to go out with his exand see how diffent it is and realize he needs me but then i feel like i'd look like an idiot if i go back with him if he comes back to me later
please hlp thanx soo much for reading this. I'm 14 and a girl.lol (link)
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Wow.
That was a very hard question.
I know exactly where you're coming from though.
And thank you for coming to me.
Actually-the best thing you can do is give it time and see where it takes you. If he comes back from Vacation and is still acting like that, then you need to sit him down and talk to him. It could be that he still likes his ex, or he could be afraid of actually falling in love with you. Guys sometimes have problems like that and it causes them to act differently. You guys seem like a good couple, but like I said, if he still treats you badly once he comes back and if he does it after you talk to him, then maybe its time you let him go. If he does go back with his ex and he finds out that its not what he expected, then he'll come back to you. Dont do it. Let him figure out what he did wrong and why he lost you. There are better guys out there. Good Luck hun.
-Wicked.
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earlier this year i dated a guy. we dated for almost 2 months and then i broke up with him because i felt that i didnt really like him any more. and now we are friends. i know that he still has feelings for me because his best friend told me. but lately ive felt like i like him again. but im afraid that if we went out again that the same thing would happen again. should i tell him i wanna date him again or should we just stay friends? (link)
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I knew this was coming. Sometime. I had the same problem recently, and trust me, its not easy to deal with. My best guess is that you tell him whats on your mind, and be completely honest. It might hurt him a little bit, but then again, it might not. Just think about it this way. If you were in his place, what would you think? How would you feel? If you like him, tell him. Dont hide it. You never know what could happen. If you're afraid something might happen once you guys are together again-if you choose to be, then tell him that too. Feelings change pretty fast, but if you liked him from the start, and you still think you do, then you might have a better chance of being with him again-without the same thing happening. Good Luck, hun.
-Wicked.
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I have a boyfriend. But last night I had a dream where I was making out with this guy I used to like. Is that some kind of sign that I should be with him? Or does it mean that deep down I still like him? What does it mean? (link)
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I've been in the same situation before. It doesn't really mean that you should be with him, and it doesn't really mean you still like him. People dream about things that are very strange and sometimes sudden. Then again, it could be a sign, depending on how serious it is. My best guess is that you might still have a bit of a feeling for him and you might actually still like him. Don't underestimate your dreams tho. Time will only tell where you're gonna go. Good luck and I hope this helped you.
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next year im going to high school. the seniors initiate all of the freshmen. has anyone been initiated before? what did they do to you? please help. im scared to go to high school. (link)
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This is probably one of the questions that most people would ask, being new to high school. Its a rumor and it isnt true. The seniors dont initiate you, they don't pick on you, and sometimes, if you dont know them, they don't pay attention to you. Being a Senior and even a Junior, comes with maturity, so they usually don't bother you. But don't worry about it. The only thing you're probably going to have to worry about, is the other freshman and sophomores. Some people like to think they're better than anyone else and they like to control others who are new to the school. But don't let anything get to you. Good Luck! Hope this helped.
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