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this guy
Okay, theres this guy, and he's like...really annoying. Normally i'm not a mean person, hurting other peoples feelings, really makes me feel sick. But this guy....oooo, its like, first, he's constantly hitting on my friend, and then when he finds out that she's not interested, he starts talking to me. And i dont think its as more of a friend talking to kinda thing, but it gets really iretating. I just dont really like talking to him, he makes me just mad. He gets really angry really easily, and then like, refuses to IM me. of course, that just makes me happy, but he doesn't know that.
well, heres the problem, since we have diffrent classes i dont normally have to see him at school, but next year he's also going to be attending my other school, (i go to two schools each day), and i'm going to have to deal with him...EVERYDAY! GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH! HELP, I DONT KNOW HOW TO PUT UP WITH HIM!
Sorry its so long
Much love,
Meeee
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Well, this guy used to STALK...I seriously mean STALK my friends and when I was in 8th grade, he basically stalked me. He would sit next to me, follow me in the halls, come to my lunch table, STARE at me, give me things I said I didn't need, try and touch me. It was so effing creepy. (He even BEGGED my friends to let him sit in their seats(they were sitting next to me))
Before your situation escalates to a stalking situation, just tell him straight out. You're not interested in him, he's not your type, and you don't know if you can put up with someone who has a quick temper.
This is what I did with the boy that stared at me:
Stay away from him in classes and surround your seat with your friends. Find different routes to hallways. Inform your friends on what's happening so they can make up excuses for you when he talks to you. Have them save a seat away from him, etc.
Just isolate yourself from this boy and if you don't feel comfortable telling him to stay away, give him clues (and if he's not smart =X uh oh)
I don't think a restraing order will help here... the best thing you can do is tell him to stop bothering you and that you don't put up with people who have bad tempers
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I'm not sure how you can get him to stop being annoying and it'll be hard to just duck and hide from him every time you see him, so all I can say is you have to learn to deal with it. I remember in my freshmen year, I met this incredibly annoying boy and even 4 years later, he still irks me some...but he's not as bad. I got to know him better and he can actually be pretty cool. Just take a couple of deep breaths and suck it up. Unfortunately, in this world we are sometimes going to have to work and see people who we cannot stand but the beauty of it is...it makes us stronger people. Just try being nice to him and talk to him on a normal level, and he may surprise you and actually be tolerable.
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