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ok so last night i have this guy come over to my house and we were makin out and shit and he then started to finger me. It got harder and harder. He fingered me so hard tht i was hurting after wards and i didnt tell him to stop goin so hard because i didnt want to look stupid. it even hurt when i had to go to the bathroom. well i thought it was just the one night thing. but now im hurtin again and still when i go to the bathroom.. if anyone has any advice on what this good be or if its normal. everything is appreciated.
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hi, i dont really agree with people who say you should tell him if it hurts unless it is cos he is being to rough then deffinatly say no but you have to expect pain during these things, when i was fingered for the first time it was really painful but that is because it was my first. hope this helps x
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Most likely he ripped your hymen i.e popped your cherry. It's very normal and it doesn't just happen during sex. It can happen during any regular activities that involve straining on your vagina. Like running for example. If they feeling doesn't go away in a few days, go to the doctor.
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Well first of all if something is painful you tell them to slow down or stop. It's your own stupid fault for letting him continue and now you have to deal with the pain!!
TRUTH hurts?! Thanks for the low rating!
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ok i know exactally how you feel. when that is going on, and is really rough like you said, it tends to be sore down there for a little while after. even up to three days, well atleast that is the longest i have heard about/experienced. if not, come back and ask again. but anyways, in the future always feel comftorable to speak up. you are allowed to stop the situation if you are in pain. he should respect your desicion completely. good luck
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it's possible you could have gotten an infection ... like if his hand wasnt completely clean or something ... or he could have just scratched something ... i think you should call your doctor. feel better =)
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First of all you should never EVER hold back on telling a guy that he being ruff with you.You should have told him to go easier cuz it can lead to something more severe.Anyway it hurts you now because of what he did and thats normal,after what he did ofcourse its going to hurt.But itll get better by time and make sure you tell him next time that it hurt you and NO you wont look stupid.
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It's normal for it to hurt for the first couple of times if you are a virgin. Next time just tell the guy that it hurts and to not go so hard.
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Well first off you should of told him. Nothing is wrong with that. I think mabe this is normal but if it keeps hurting go to the doctor or a gynacoligist ( sorry if i spelt that wrong ). Its a doctor for girls. I doubt it is something serious. But next time let him know. You dont want him to damage anything.
&heart's; kayla
... really hope i helped :]
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