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Ok i want to go on birth control, not only to not get pregnant but also because my peroids really hurt. I was just wondering how mch it usually costs and what they do and what are the odds of them telling your parents? (link)
hi, i am not sure where you are from but in england they cannot tell your parents no matter what and it is free while you are in full time education. hope this helped. x


i'm 17 and have been thinking about birth control. i know you really dont need a parents permission to get it but i'd like to talk to my mom about it. i need help on finding a way to bring it up in a conversation with her. anyone have ideas?? and any suggestions on which birth control? i was thinking about Seasonale but i dont know how much that costs for the year. (link)
just tell her that now your 17 you want to go on the pill just incase, my best mate just told her mom that she thought her and her boyfriend were ready to take the next step but she wouldnt untill she went on the pill and to her suprise her mom said she was very responsible and was really seportive. you never know your mom might suprise you too. x


I'm thinking about going on the Birth Control Pill. I'm not sexually active but my periods are irregular.. and I may begin to be sexually active in the near future. I just have a few questions about it.
-How do I "bring it up" with my doctor?
-Does it actually help make your periods regular, and make your cramps not hurt as much?
-How effective is it against pregnancy?
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hi, im 15 and i went on the pill not so long ago. just say to the doctor that your intrested in using the pill for contriceptive/periods which ever is true and s/he will do most of the talking from there. it does make your periods regular but hasnt stopped my pains and yes it is very good birth control but still use a condom to protect you from std's and sti's. hope this helped. x


This kid, Ryan, was visiting my friend's brother and so was his other friend and I seriously think his mission was to piss me off! I've never had a boyfriend and he asked me if I had and I said, "No, I've never had one.". Then he asked me to rate how hot his friend was and I said, "No." and he said, "Well fine then. I guess you're a lesbian."(I would've have called him an asshole right there and slapped him but my friend's mom was there.) When I went down to the pool ryan was there, my friend, my friend's brother, and ryan's friend. He kept getting this water gun thing and shooting it at me(I just dyed my hair a few days ago and the chemicals from the pool water can turn your hair green)and I told him to stop and all he did was laugh and keep doing it.(By the way, my hair did turn this stupid green color and I had to wash my hair about six times to get all of it out) Then when I was leaving I fell down and I scraped myself really bad and he started laughing. He kept saying all this perverted crap too and it freaked me and my friend out. He said I was weird so I went up to him and I said, "Okay. Now how am I weird? At least I don't IM random people and say, "HEY BABY! WHAT'S UP?!" like you do." (He did that to me.) and then he said, "Psh. I never did that." and everyone believed him and then he said, "Oh yeah and don't ever talk to me on IM again." He had ASKED for my screen name! He really pissed me off. He finally left yesterday but he is coming back here for thanksgiving. He has instant messenger and I have his screen name. I want to yell at him about everything and tell him what an asshole he is. But, he'll turn it all around and say HE was the one who cussed me out. So I don't know what to do now! Should I IM him and cuss him out (if you think I should do that then what should I say to him if he tries to turn it all around?) or just not do anything?! (link)
i think he fancies you so next time you see him (or on MSN) flirt with him and when tries to kiss you are asks you out reject him infront of all his friends :)


there's this "game" people play. i dunno what its called though which is what i wanna know. its where there are two people. one person puts their hand on the person's knee and moves it the other persons leg until that person says stop. and then they switch roles and sees who endured more. and the person who endured more ist he winner

its weird. do you have any weird games you play with your friends (link)
ye it called nervous but watch who ya play it with cos i have had guys refuse to stop when i have told them 2. x


I have a blackhead on my chin, and i dont know how to get rid of it!
Is there any way to get rid of it pretty quick? (link)
go to boots and they will show you the best stuff to use. x


hi..i want to know exactly how they give you brithcontrol...if i would for example go to the doctor what would i have to get done to get it...blood tests or pap smear????i heard you dont need to get a pap smear until you start having sex...i havent yet but i am planning to and i want to get birth control..
help me please (link)
hi, you do not have to have any tests apart from have your blood pressure taken, the doctor may or may not ask you if you want on but if you dont just say no. i have been on the pill for 2 years (im 15) i havnt always been on ot for a contriceptive but i am now and the doctor hasnt once asked about any kinds of tests. just make a normal appointment and say you want to go on the pill, (if you really dont want the doc to ask you to go for smear test then say it for your periods) hope this helps :)


well okay. i havent been on my period for about 3 months now, and im not quite sure why. I do get stressed all the time about getting caught whenever i go out with my girls, i stress if like my parents will find out, call and check up on me.. plus i've been really stressing about being pregnant, yet my bf attempted to put his manhood inside me, yet it didnt go far at all cause i've never actually had sex..but yet i still keep thinking that i might be. Well i dunno what to do. Could i be pregnant?

plus im always irregular.. i've never in my life had it on schedule. i've had this kinda thing happen before, yet i hadn't ever done stuff with a guy or anything.. and it was for two months..

i just dont know what to do.. any advice on whats wrong?

how long can stress delay your period?

16/f
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You really need to do a pregnancy test! my best friend said the same thig as you "i didnt hardly go inside me" and she got pregnant, if you leave it any longer and you are pregnant you will have no choice but to have the baby, it may be to late already. hope this helps. x


ok so last night i have this guy come over to my house and we were makin out and shit and he then started to finger me. It got harder and harder. He fingered me so hard tht i was hurting after wards and i didnt tell him to stop goin so hard because i didnt want to look stupid. it even hurt when i had to go to the bathroom. well i thought it was just the one night thing. but now im hurtin again and still when i go to the bathroom.. if anyone has any advice on what this good be or if its normal. everything is appreciated. (link)
hi, i dont really agree with people who say you should tell him if it hurts unless it is cos he is being to rough then deffinatly say no but you have to expect pain during these things, when i was fingered for the first time it was really painful but that is because it was my first. hope this helps x



okayy this guy i know wants to have sex with me. i don't care if we do or not ... but i'm just scared that i would get pregnant. like REALLY scared ... that's my biggest fear.

i'm a virgin & i don't care who i lose it to ... whether it's my husband or just some hot guy ... i'm not in a hurry to lose it but i would definately like to.

this guy is veryy experienced so i'm sure he knows what he's doing with the condom & everything but i don't know ... i think i'd feel safer with a guy i actually loved.

has anyone ever gotten pregnant from a condom breaking when you used it correctly? (link)
hi, i am 15 and have just had an abortion because a condom broke, it is the worst thing i have ever had to do so please please go to your doctor and go on the pill befor having sex AND use a condom! hope this helps! :)


hi,
i am a male and 21 years old.a year ago i used to masturbate more(probably 35 times a month).gradually i decreased the count.now its hardly 5-7 times a month.since three months i ve been experiencing an acute pain in my stomach after masturbating and i am feeling tired too.i am afraid if something is going wong with me.does masturbation harm one???please let me know why this is happening and if there could be any problems later....
thank you (link)
i am female but i useto masturbate alot, after a while i just couldnt be botherd i was so tired. shortley after i was diagnosed with aneamia. maybe this is the problem? good look


Just wondering... because I'm a little bit worried.

I've been masturbating for years now and never had this happen. I'm a girl and about an hour after my orgasm, I'm experiencing some bleeding similar to my period. I just finished my period a couple days ago and I'm wondering if it's from that or if it's something entirely different.

Thoughts? :( (link)
hi, i think you have broke your hymen which the piece of skin that gets broken during sex. :)




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