okayy this guy i know wants to have sex with me. i don't care if we do or not ... but i'm just scared that i would get pregnant. like REALLY scared ... that's my biggest fear.
i'm a virgin & i don't care who i lose it to ... whether it's my husband or just some hot guy ... i'm not in a hurry to lose it but i would definately like to.
this guy is veryy experienced so i'm sure he knows what he's doing with the condom & everything but i don't know ... i think i'd feel safer with a guy i actually loved.
has anyone ever gotten pregnant from a condom breaking when you used it correctly?
redninja answered Monday August 7 2006, 10:46 pm: ok pretty much evrything everyone before me said is pretty right. Wait untill you know your ready, its not something that you just do you hvae to be very comfortable with the person adn you should be close. Im not gunna say in love but definetly you should respect each other adn understand. and as for the person who told you to double up and use two condoms... i have no clue what they are thinking, its not better! in fact its worse. And yea the condom might break or coem off. but that happens if your thinkin of havin sex go on the pill. tell your mom you want to because of your periods. thats what I did and its fine, if your not even able to get your self on the pill you probaply shouldnt be havin sex. [ redninja's advice column | Ask redninja A Question ]
i_twinkle answered Saturday August 5 2006, 5:40 pm: hi, i am 15 and have just had an abortion because a condom broke, it is the worst thing i have ever had to do so please please go to your doctor and go on the pill befor having sex AND use a condom! hope this helps! :) [ i_twinkle's advice column | Ask i_twinkle A Question ]
Dancnmama22 answered Saturday August 5 2006, 12:04 am: Just make sure he uses more than one condom jus in case if the first one breaks, and for beccoming pregnant. Birth control. if you dont want to tell your mom about birth control and stuff just ask your mom if you two can go to the doctor because some people use birth control for their periods and you could make that as a reason for your mom to get it for you. or use pads. [ Dancnmama22's advice column | Ask Dancnmama22 A Question ]
caramella answered Friday August 4 2006, 2:38 am: There are a lot of people that got pregnant to a condom breaking.I think you shouldnt rush it,youll have sex one day.You dont even love him,and if you happen to by any chance get pregnant hes not gonna take care of your child cuz theres nothing between you guys.In your condition,sex is a couple hours of pleasure youll regret for a couple of years to come when your pregnant.I seriously think you should wait,a lot of people think they know what theyre doing and screw up a lot of things. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
Nallie answered Thursday August 3 2006, 11:09 pm: Reading between the lines, it seems as if you are apprensive. You say you don't care, but I suspect that you do. Females can get pregnant and STDs even when a condom is used. It reduces the chances, but it is not full proof. Yes, women have became pregnant from a small microscopic tear in the condom, or when it has slipped off. Doesn't matter if he knows what he is doing or not, the risk is still there.
Being a virgin is a wonderful thing, and sex is a sacred act that should be saved for someone you are in love with. If this guy is "very" experienced he's probably a player and trying to talk you into something you don't want to do. The trouble is, that one moment of sex may lead to a lifetime of heartache. Do you really want to regret that one moment? I doubt it. [ Nallie's advice column | Ask Nallie A Question ]
DefinedEyes answered Thursday August 3 2006, 9:57 pm: Well condoms can break very easily,
and there are tons of people in the world who have gotten pregnant because the condom has broken.
I suggest you dont have sex, and that you should care who its with, because if you just carelessly sleep around, you could be getting STDs, and I'm sure if you get married you would want to save it for your husband, but I dont know. The best way to not get pregnant is to not do it. [ DefinedEyes's advice column | Ask DefinedEyes A Question ]
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