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What am I supposed to do?!


Question Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 2:27 pm

This kid, Ryan, was visiting my friend's brother and so was his other friend and I seriously think his mission was to piss me off! I've never had a boyfriend and he asked me if I had and I said, "No, I've never had one.". Then he asked me to rate how hot his friend was and I said, "No." and he said, "Well fine then. I guess you're a lesbian."(I would've have called him an asshole right there and slapped him but my friend's mom was there.) When I went down to the pool ryan was there, my friend, my friend's brother, and ryan's friend. He kept getting this water gun thing and shooting it at me(I just dyed my hair a few days ago and the chemicals from the pool water can turn your hair green)and I told him to stop and all he did was laugh and keep doing it.(By the way, my hair did turn this stupid green color and I had to wash my hair about six times to get all of it out) Then when I was leaving I fell down and I scraped myself really bad and he started laughing. He kept saying all this perverted crap too and it freaked me and my friend out. He said I was weird so I went up to him and I said, "Okay. Now how am I weird? At least I don't IM random people and say, "HEY BABY! WHAT'S UP?!" like you do." (He did that to me.) and then he said, "Psh. I never did that." and everyone believed him and then he said, "Oh yeah and don't ever talk to me on IM again." He had ASKED for my screen name! He really pissed me off. He finally left yesterday but he is coming back here for thanksgiving. He has instant messenger and I have his screen name. I want to yell at him about everything and tell him what an asshole he is. But, he'll turn it all around and say HE was the one who cussed me out. So I don't know what to do now! Should I IM him and cuss him out (if you think I should do that then what should I say to him if he tries to turn it all around?) or just not do anything?!

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Additional info, added Saturday August 5 2006, 2:29 pm:
Besides what to say to him if he tries to turn everything around, I want to get back at him for all he did and I have no idea how to do that..

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i_twinkle answered Saturday August 5 2006, 6:20 pm:
i think he fancies you so next time you see him (or on MSN) flirt with him and when tries to kiss you are asks you out reject him infront of all his friends :)

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holahayley56 answered Saturday August 5 2006, 3:01 pm:
No, no no. You're going about it all wrong. Hes enjoying you getting mad. Why do you think he keeps doing it? He thinks its funny, when you get all mad. Guys are gay like that. Instead of wanting to tell him off, & everything. Just laugh. & that type of thing.. then it wont be funny anymore,when your laughing with him.


I hope that helped. kbye

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lilteacup answered Saturday August 5 2006, 2:48 pm:
Don't do anything! He's not worth your time. Something I have learned is if you don't respond to what some idiot says about you, they look like they are talking to themselves and look kinda dumb. I'm not gonna lie...it cracks me up a little on the inside. Let him focus all his attention on you and give him none in return. If he continues to bother you, just remind yourself ...you must be very important to him if he can't stop trying to bother you and talk to you when you don't pay any attention to him. Him looking like an idiot is enough payback.

Hope this helps, hun.

-Teacup

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xY0M0MMAx answered Saturday August 5 2006, 2:44 pm:
That guy is a fag.

Next time you see him you should be like, "Hey faggot. What's up?" And kick him as hard as you can (where it hurts for guys) and start laughing. Then say, "Ah, see how it feels when you are hurt and people laugh at you?" then walk away.

Really though.
He's a jerk. If I were you, I would go for cussing him out on IM. Then next time he visits, do the thing above.

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