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ok so last night i have this guy come over to my house and we were makin out and shit and he then started to finger me. It got harder and harder. He fingered me so hard tht i was hurting after wards and i didnt tell him to stop goin so hard because i didnt want to look stupid. it even hurt when i had to go to the bathroom. well i thought it was just the one night thing. but now im hurtin again and still when i go to the bathroom.. if anyone has any advice on what this good be or if its normal. everything is appreciated. (link)
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Well first of all if something is painful you tell them to slow down or stop. It's your own stupid fault for letting him continue and now you have to deal with the pain!!
TRUTH hurts?! Thanks for the low rating!
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i took a ept pregnancy test and it came out positve could the test be wrong (link)
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Nope. You're pregnant. Good job.. *rolls eyes*.
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i know its wrong but all my friends have had sex, and thats all they talk about so i told them i have had sex too and i was like centre of attension... i know its wrong to lie but i hated feeling left out. Now i have got this boyfriend hes like well older than me about 4 years, and he understands i want to take things slow but now all my friends make comments like "dont do anything i woudnt do" and "use a johnny".
But i havent bein with him long and when we are making out i cant help bu thinking i know he wants to rip my clothes of and have sex but the truth is im scared...has anyone got any tips for having sex for the first time??
Please dont stay your a ass you lied to your mates, i know that already im looking for REAL advice!! And truth is im glad i lied.. (link)
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You're too young to have sex. Unless you want a kid, I'd stop and think long and hard about it. I got pregnant when I was 15, and believe me it's NOT FUN so STOP worrying about fitting in. Also, your boyfriend is just using you for sex. You deserve someone better and you need to make sure you get someone better. The issue isn't that you LIED it's that you're going to have sex and you SHOULD NOT! They are going to totally turn their backs on you when you get pregnant - then you'll have no friends AND no boyfriend!
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Why has my parents got baby oil next to their bed...my friends keep saying all this stuff and its just floating around in my brain. I need straight answer its not like i can ask my parents (link)
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It's for sex. How do you think YOU got here? Geez. Parents DO have sex.
Sucky rating.. kiss my ass.. They have sex. Get over it!
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hi ..um i probably sound really imature about it, but i am starting birth control for the first time and i was waiting for sunday to take the first one, and i thought it was today but its actually saturday ...what do i do now?.. do i keep taking them and pretend that today it sunday for the rest of the time...or do i restart a new package tomorrow. (link)
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Just keep on doing it the way you started.. when it says Sunday just take it on Saturday. It won't mess anything up. You're supposed to take it like the first day of your period? Or right after your period? Something like that.. so you shouldn't have just picked a day.. make sure you're taking it right or it's not going to work. Not that the pill works anyway.. my mom got pregnant with me AND my brother while on the pill, and I got pregnant with my first daughter while on the pill..
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I've been having this horrible pain, about 5 inches to the right of my belly button. It'll come for about 30 seconds, then go away. But it`ll hurt so bad it forces me to sit down.
(its not period cramps, it hurts much worse, and its totally different, plus I had mine last week)
And now, I feel faint, really hott, and super dizzy. When I was at the movies I was nauses (sp?)
What could be wrong? Please help, I feel horrible! (link)
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I would call your doctor and tell them your symptoms. Usually you can talk to the nurse and she will let you know if it's bad enough for you to go to the ER, or if you should make an appointment, or maybe she can tell you some things that might make you feel better. I know when I had problems with my gallbladder the pain was so bad I couldn't bear it. I would cry sometimes, and I am usually pretty good with pain.. so I would call the doctor as soon as possible to find out. I hope you get to feeling better!
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ok my bf and i have been together for a year and half now on and off. I'm 17 and hes 18. we have gone through alot together, with our families not liking eachother, sex, drugs, alcohol, trust problems, suicide, and one of the biggest problems we have is that he is a Jehovah's Witnesses and I am not religious. We both know that he isnt suppose to date right now until hes ready to marry but we both love eachother with all of our hearts and care tons. we dont know what to do. the way he takes on this situation is that we should stop dating so he can basically "grow up" and i really think he should "grow up" some because i dont feel he takes me or this relationship really seriously, like he knows this is what he wants but he doesnt want this now and he doesnt get how much i want and need this right now, also i dont believe you can put a relationship on hold...and this all brings the stress and arguing to everyday and i hate arguing and fighting with him...please any help would be great (link)
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I don't believe in putting a relationship on hold either. Religion is a major part of some peoples' lives and if they don't agree and can't agree to disagree, they need to go their separate ways. I don't understand what you mean by you've gone through a lot together and then you list sex, drugs, alcohol, trust problems, and suicide. If you guys have had sex, he's going against his religion. Drugs and alcohol are the same way. So he needs to decide if he's going to follow it all of the way or not at all because you can't be in a religion 50% it's 100% or 0%. He might be using this as a cop-out.. it kind of sounds like it, but I don't know much about the situation so it's just a guess.
My best advice would be to sit down and talk with him, and if you guys can't reach an agreement you need to break up - for good. Later down the road if you want to get back together, go ahead.. but don't put the relationship on "hold" because those don't work.
Good luck, and I'm sorry you're going through this!
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im not sure weather or not to shave below .. i know ill be doing something soon becuase im kidna getting close to this boy and everytime we see each other we make out but it never got any further. but i think hes going to be going down or something and i wanna be ready .. and i dont know if i should shave all of it off.. help please ... rating (link)
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I would shave it all, but don't do it like RIGHT before you guys are going to be together. You need to start shaving now and make sure you aren't going to have an irritation or reaction from it. Sometimes it'll itch, and burn, and sometimes it'll leave a bunch of bumps that look like pimples. They are actually ingrown hairs, but it takes a while to get the art of shaving "down there" down pat. So like I said I would start now and then if you guys do something in a few weeks it'll be okay. I only shave once a week (if that), and that's what I suggest.
ALSO, use protection AND get on some sort of birth control.. shaving will be the least of your worries if you don't!!
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Hey. I was looking at someone else's question about shaving "down there" and I was wondering about shaving. A few questions like do guys expect hair or no hair? If you are a guy what do you think/ would want?
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In my experience, guys don't like hair down there. They like it to be shaved, waxed, or at least trimmed... especially if their face is gonna be down there. I shave all of mine and I just do it once a week so it stays clean and nicely trimmed. Don't shave too often or you'll have major irritation. Some people just shave the top, some people just shave the part around the opening. It's completely up to you but it minimizes sweating (in the summer especially) if you shave.
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I am a 23 year old female. I am happily married, but a few weeks ago, I made the mistake of having unprotected sex with someone other than my husband. I just found out that I am pregnant. I cannot keep the child because there is a good chance that my one-night-stand is that father. I want to have an medical abortion and disguise it as a miscarriage. My husband is a doctor, and I fear that he may be able to distinguish the difference between an induced miscarriage and a spontaneous one. What is the difference between a medical abortion and a spontaneous miscarriage? (link)
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First of all, you are ignorant, selfish, and STUPID! Your husband is a doctor and you're cheating on him? Are you THAT retarded?! Come on! What more could you ask for?? I hope he leaves your ass. And how selfish to have an abortion to hide your sluttiness!!! You make me SICK!!!!!!!!
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After my boyfriend fingers me, he says his fingers smell like fish for hours afterwards. Is this normal? How can i get it to not smell down there? (link)
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Try washing..
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i started taking birth control pills and i was wondering when its safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom? (link)
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NEVER! I'm not sure what other advice you've gotten, but there is no such thing as safe sex!! You might forget a pill, or the pill might not work. Then you're pregnant, your boyfriend is saying it isn't his, and you have a kid to take care of!! My mom got pregnant with me AND my brother while on the pill. With one of us she also was using condoms..
Use the pill, and a condom. NEVER forget the condom.. use spermacide if you want to be extra safe. If you don't want to get pregnant though.. the only way to be sure is to not have sex. The safest way is to be on birth control, use a condom, and the pull-out method.. just my opinion but I've got 2 kids and one on the way so believe you me I know how to GET pregnant.
**EDITED TO ADD** Please read advice on medical websites, ask your doctor, etc. Some of these people don't know what they are talking about! Condoms do NOT PROTECT AGAINST STDS!!! Now the wrappers say they might help to prevent against them but that's about it.. they don't.. believe me. I've had a whole class on condoms and STDs and they do NOT PROTECT AGAINST THEM.. so you should both be tested if you're having sex. :)
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If you have sex while on your period can you still get pregnant? and if so what is the likely hood? Or if you use a condom? (link)
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Yes, you can still get pregnant. This isn't the best place to ask for advice such as this because there are 13 and 14 year old girls on here thinking they know everything when they don't. They will tell you all kinds of things like you can't get pregnant if you're on your period, or if you use protection. The plain and simple truth is you can and WILL get pregnant if you have sex. PERIOD.
The liklihood of getting pregnant while using a condom isn't high, but who knows if the condom was put on right or if it busted.. also the condom is porous (means it has holes) and sperm cna leak through.. therefore leading to pregnancy.
The only sure fire way to prevent pregnancy is to not have sex. If you're going to have sex, get on the pill/shot/whatever AND use condoms. Don't be stupid.. educate yourself.
Good luck, and I hope you're not pregnant if you're not ready to be.
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my best friend has bein with her boyfriend for 5 months rite they have had sex about 17 times...
He doesnt believe in using a condom,and they havent once. 4 times shes put me under pressure saying shes pregnet and i have bein with her through it no matter what. She lost the baby the last time and the last 3 times was jus a miss hab. But now you see its happeing again she she hasnt come on here periods 4 2 months and can feel movement in her womb what shall i do?? Shes only 14 and her mom will kill her but i think she wants to keep it Please help me!! (link)
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First of all, your friend is dying for attention. Second of all, if he doesn't believe in using condoms he needs to NOT have sex because she is going to end up having a baby which is NOT something that is fun at 14! Last but not least, she can't feel "movement in her womb" at two months. She needs to grow up and stop trying to get pregnant, it's obvious that's what she's trying to do. Of course her mom will kill her, she needs an ass whoopin' to begin with and should keep her legs closed. Sorry so harsh, but come on I mean at 14 having unprotected sex is IGNORANT and STUPID! She can't even get a JOB to support this kid she wants to keep!
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Ive been told that you can still be preg. even if you get your period.. Im kinda scared because ive been feelin sick for a week now and i get dizzy and the only think i can think of is that i may be prego because on the 1st i had unprotected sex. but i got my period so is it possible to get your period n still be pregnant (link)
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Yes. Some women have their period the whole 9 months. A lot of people might give you advice saying it isn't possible, but it is. Stop having sex NOW unless you want a kid!
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I have been friends with this guy since i was 12 im now 17 in the past year n a half we became really close to the point where he will stay at my house and stuff... he went to college but every weekend he would come home and stay here... I used to like him and i told him and he told me that he didn't wanna ruin the friendship and that he didn't feel the same way... One day we were layin in my bed watchin tv and we started messin around and ended up havin sex. It only happen the one time but now he like comes over more and we are always together and everyone thinks we are a couple but were not. All my close friends tells me that he likes me he just won't admit it and i don't kno what to do or think Help
sorry its soo long (link)
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Well, obviously he used you. I'm not sure if you realize that or not but he did. He won't admit he likes you, yet he had sex with you? That's sad. He is very immature and I wouldn't continue to do physical things with him. If you're friends, that's fine. If you're a couple, that's fine. BUT the line needs to be drawn and you both need to be open and honest about your feelings.
Most of all you need to stop having sex because you can't raise a kid together if he won't even admit he likes you.. and kids come from sex..
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hey, im a 14/f & im desperate for redecorating my bedroom. its been looking the same for like 10 yrs. the thing is that i spent all my money in clothes, and i have no money to redecorate. so do you guys have any ideas or any websites that can help me? thanx. =] (link)
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http://interiordec.about.com/od/teenrooms/
http://interiordec.about.com/od/frugaldecor/a/a_budgetart.htm
:)
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i am moving today and i was wondering if you have any tips for my bedroom.. its pink!! i need some decorating tips..please help;)...14/f (link)
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Canopy mosquito netting is the new cool thing for teens around here. You can get it at Claire's in the mall. Delia's also has things to decorate rooms, at reasonable prices.
This is the best website I've found for decorating:
http://interiordec.about.com/od/teenrooms/
If you're looking for more homemade things to do, here are a few more websites:
http://www.bhg.com/bhg/story.jhtml;jsessionid=C5DQ5OU3CZOYVQFIBQPSCZQ?storyid=/templatedata/bhg/story/data/coolpersonalstuff_05292002.xml&catref=cat3560012 - cute lamp decorating idea.
http://www.bhg.com/bhg/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/bhg/story/data/scarfcanopy_07222002.xml&catref=cat3560012 - VERY cute canopy idea.
http://www.bhg.com/bhg/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/bhg/how-to/data/15994.xml&catref=cat3560012 - decorating ideas for teens.
http://pccgraphics.com/shopping/article.php?n=11 - article on decorating.
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hi i was jsut wondering. i LOVE polka dots and my parents nad i are redoing my bedroom polka dotted. the colors are my two favorite which are orange and pink. now i just need to find a comforter and i cant seem to find one. tis ok like if the comforter has like another color besides pink and orange but i want the majority of it to be pink and orange. or like the background is white with dots?? i dont know. so like by any chance can you help me find any? (link)
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Target has them.
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Doctors recommend it but yet and still so many Americans turn they nose up at! Why do you think so? (link)
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I don't think we turn our noses up at it. I think that doctors change what they recommend all of the time and we should listen to what we feel inside instead of doctors and books. However, I realize that "breast is best" and I don't think that will ever change. I would rather a mother feed her baby formula than breastfeed while eating the wrong things, taking pain medicines, etc.
I'm on my third child and am thinking about breastfeeding, but in general people that breastfeed act so STUCK UP that I don't know if I want to be categorized with them. They think they are better, that their kids are smarter (which isn't true, because I have two ff kids that are very intelligent), etc etc. It just gets annoying to see so many arrogant women.
We are all mothers and should just be happy that the baby is getting fed, whether it's breast or bottle it shouldn't matter.
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