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pretty or ugly?
This has been confusing me for awhile. People tell me I'm pretty all the time. And when I go to camp or leave my town, the guys all want me. But when I'm home, it seems like they want nothing to do with me. Guys also have said I'm hot and whatever, but why do they not make a move? I'm so confused and so sick of people saying, your pretty and me not getting any guys. Why do you think this is?
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Ya know all guys dont base their loved ones on looks so try getting them to know you better. they might think your hot but think your personality sucks. just try getting to know the guys better
Austin
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wow.... same problem.... the guys are scared... they think you are out of their league.. so they dont make moves... but once you get a boyfriend, it will probably be a guy you just met... not that you have known for a while... all the other guys will get jealous, and start comming out saying how the liked you and stuff... but the trick is is to not be mad and be like you should have made a move... but to keep being yourself, act like you dont notice.. they will want you more if you do...
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i had the same problem! they didnt to get with me because i was shy and the guys thought i was stuck up. once i became more outgoing, more guys opened up. try smiling more and talking a little more. =)
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i'm sure that you are very pretty and sometimes guys just get intimidated around shy girls, especially these guys from your town, that know you. like when the guys from camps and stuff met you they were like "oh she's pretty, let me go for it" but these guys you know are like "oh she's pretty and i know that she's super sweet.. etc etc" and they just get intimidated. show them that you are not going to reject them. they are afraid of rejection, but they don't know if you are going to reject them or not, so be a flirt. maybe their just tense. loosen them up. haha
hope i helped
*muaz*
xoxo
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You could always have the personality of a rock, that kinda still matters nowadays.
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Well you can be pretty, but looks arnt everything. Maybe you need to be more outgoing or something. Pluse you can just wait around your whole life waiting for someon. You have to make some of the moves too.
Jess
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You could be the prettiest girl alive, but if your personality is nothing special...they a guy can't get too interested. Guys say they first look at your looks, but personality is more important. So yepp, hope that helped! bye =)
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The majority of the guys are taken,or want a girl to be easy but I'm not trying to saying to be easy, and you might find it weird that a few want the girls to ask them out.Guys are also afraid of running the risk of being rejected especially of a girl they consider hot.Don't be upset I went through the same thing I'm just letting you know the possible reasons for why the guys haven't made a move on you and don't think it's you you said it yourself they say you're pretty so the problem is them.
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the same thing happens to me but I am glad guys don't make moves on me...hello not all guys are jerks they may like how you look but the don't even know you.
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